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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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should "friends" like good friends for a few years stay friends - her in an on/off loveless long term relationship with a waster and a loonatic and will NEVER leave for fear of aftermath - him (friend) single but not much in the way of a fighting man what so ever
what if there is mutual flirting going on for last few months and the energy getting to that stage where its prob going to happen some night over a glass of wine
step back ? maybe lose her or step up and cause turmoil if it got out ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You may end up losing that friend, dude - & if he's a looney???
Your choices, mate - but if it was me, I'd take a step back!"
i kinna knew that anyways gonna be hard but i do know it has to be done we bezzie buds 5 yrs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would steer clear if I were you. Look for someone to flirt etc with who has less baggage. Tears --- bedtime. Good luck.  "
never meant 4 it to happen it just kinna crept up b4 i saw it coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You may end up losing that friend, dude - & if he's a looney???
Your choices, mate - but if it was me, I'd take a step back!i kinna knew that anyways gonna be hard but i do know it has to be done we bezzie buds 5 yrs "
Well, why not just stay friends & see what happens?
There's so many future complications that can happen; - her friends are his freinds etc..... good luck dude!!
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Stay friends but leave it like that. She might leave him one day, at least it keeps thing open for the future. I think if your loony male friend found out you'd shagged his wife without him knowing, you'd be up the estuary with no paddle and drowning. |
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damned if i do and damned if i dont 
i kinna knew dat but sumtimes u just need sum1 else to tell ya 