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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or should that be confidence lost!!!
Anybody else suddenly loose their self confidence in an ability or or just overall???
And where does it actually go to???
I know the cure is to get back on the horse so to speak but that's soo much easier said then done!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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have never felt very confident...need to find mine! lol. Take a deep breath and do it...deep down you know you can no matter how difficult it may feel on the surface.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey trouble.. all i know is its gutting when you lose your sparkle, after last night i feel i've gained some of mine back.
If you wanna chat you know how to contact me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have never felt very confident...need to find mine! lol. Take a deep breath and do it...deep down you know you can no matter how difficult it may feel on the surface. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dud, changed a few things, mainly stopped looking for validation from others.
I definitely feel better now its lighter.
And I've stopped eating sugary foods....
Mainly up and in control of my life right now... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think I ever have self confidence. I just put my head down and blunder on like an oblivious muppet.
Now and then I look up to see people looking at me like this- 
And I grin and blunder on.  |
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"Or should that be confidence lost!!!
Anybody else suddenly loose their self confidence in an ability or or just overall???
And where does it actually go to???
I know the cure is to get back on the horse so to speak but that's soo much easier said then done!!!"
I'm overall pretty confident but every now and again the fact that I don't fit in with the mainstream is highlighted and I briefly lose some of my confidence. It doesn't go anywhere it just hides behind doubt...I find mine restored by chatting to my husband who basically tells me everyone else can go and fuck themselves.....he should be a counsellor really |
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I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to. |
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"I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to. "
Things can go wrong but it's how you deal with it that matters. Most of the things I've learned have been from fuck ups. But that's fine because at least I tried.  |
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"I'm a Leo and always have felt I've been able to do things. Even when I've tried things and they've gone wrong, I always think 'at least I tried'. I'm not shy, I doubt myself sometimes but get over it pretty quickly. I consider things more now than I used to.
Things can go wrong but it's how you deal with it that matters. Most
of the things I've learned have been
from fuck ups. But that's fine because
at least I tried. "
Good for you. The way in which people cope and manage fuck ups gives them character and stories to tell. Experiences make for interesting people.... |
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