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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want?

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Honest but tactful.

I might even manage it one day.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want? "

What's the scenario?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want? "

I prefer the middle ground, honesty with tact. Some people don't get subtlty and bluntness can be insensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's nice to be subtle but sometimes you just have to be blunt.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would say blunt or straight to the point but done politely, nothing worse than trying to decipher hints in a sexually charged situation lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have to say I'm blunt, I would rather speak my mind.

Talking around the houses, is a language I will never understand lol

Her

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want? "

Both ! I love your profile and pictures by the way very sexy , and I would love to stick my tongue in your lady's lovely arsehole

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Find its a difficult one.. Don't want to offend but then again how long do you dance around it, we are here for a reason after all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hehe like that!

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Find its a difficult one.. Don't want to offend but then again how long do you dance around it, we are here for a reason after all"

Ahh, that sort of subtle or blunt. Sorry, I misunderstood.

Just say it. I have yet to meet anyone psychic.

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester

When you try to be subtle with some people they are just like the 'b', they can't hear you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you are both on the same wavelength then subtle is good for me...

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I find subtle hardly works....sometimes I'm too blunt for my own good

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Blunt

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I find subtle hardly works....sometimes I'm too blunt for my own good "

Can you ever be to blunt for your own good? X

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By *hyllyphyllyMan  over a year ago

Bradford

As a Yorkshire man, I'm as subtle as someone smashing your head in with a brick

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

subtly BLUNT!!!!

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I find subtle hardly works....sometimes I'm too blunt for my own good

Can you ever be to blunt for your own good? X"

Umm when it spills over in the workplace it's not so good!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want?

Both ! I love your profile and pictures by the way very sexy , and I would love to stick my tongue in your lady's lovely arsehole "

Now that's blunt lol

Her

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

BLUNT!!!! subtly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Find its a difficult one.. Don't want to offend but then again how long do you dance around it, we are here for a reason after all"

Depends on the 'reason'

If you're turning someone down or delivering bad news - subtle often wins over blunt - although blunt may be necessary in some cases.

If you're giving good news or trying to make the point that you're interested - blunt over subtle. Else they may think the worst!

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

subtler than a subtlarary

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am a naturally shy person so find it difficult to be blunt, i also care too much about hurting others feelings so i tend to say nothing...ever

Ere john wanna buy a new motor

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fucking frank.

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

BLUNTER THAN A BLUNTERAIRIAN !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I find subtle hardly works....sometimes I'm too blunt for my own good

Can you ever be to blunt for your own good? X

Umm when it spills over in the workplace it's not so good! "

Well that's just plain naughty lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want?

Both ! I love your profile and pictures by the way very sexy , and I would love to stick my tongue in your lady's lovely arsehole Now that's blunt lol

Her"

No shit! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is it better to be subtle or blunt with saying what you want?

Both ! I love your profile and pictures by the way very sexy , and I would love to stick my tongue in your lady's lovely arsehole Now that's blunt lol

Her

No shit! Lol x"

Eeewww obviously

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A woman told me to go away as I look like Shrek. Not sure if that was subtle or blunt !!!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I prefer to be subtle rather than blunt. No point hurting someone's feelings unless it is unavoidable.

And yes, we are talking leopard print here.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

I prefer blunt but it is not always appreciated by others.

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

subtle

I don't like to be rude to anyone

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By *uke olovingmanMan  over a year ago

Gravesend

say what you need to say ... as nicely as possible

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