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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Reading forums over last week makes me think people see swinging very different .
Everyone will see it differently... "
yes I think they do and be nice to see there _iews. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To me a swinger is a confident person, comfortable in their relationship, trusting who has a healthy appetite for sex and enjoys new ventures.
If its a single male or female then id say the 'swinging' element is down to them being bi sexual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there is no 1 definition of a swinger, which is why if i see someone state anyone else is not a swinger, i always challenge them to tell me what one is.
that said, by the original version of it, you have to be a couple to be swingers, as they were originally wife swappers, but there are huge swathes of people looking for singles, whether male or female, so to say singles cant be swingers, is wrong.
also, saying those that dont organise meets over the internet arent
those that wont fuck anything with a pulse
and yet these 2 groups seem to be singled out moreso than many others.
so, sorry, cant give you a definition of what one is, however, can tell you what one isnt, and thats someone that picks people up in a club at the end of the night for a d*unken one nighter.
not labelling anyone, just, for me personally, they dont qualify.
swinging is more of a lifestyle than a drink and a poke, if you can manage it. |
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The definition does not matter. What is important is finding people who want to do the things with you that match your interests. If you do that, via simple communication, you will be happy. No label or badge needed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me, a swinger is somebody who embraces sharing themselves sexually into a community where pleasurable experiences can be freely expressed.
I am here out of more curiosity than anything, an old work colleague that turned out to be an escort pointed me here, Much loves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us a swinger is a couple or a single who are happy to engage in enjoying sex with others without the traditional hang ups .
To differentiate a swinger from a typical person who just has sex with multiple partners is the planning and thought that also takes place .
And the social interaction , honesty and genuine nsa attitude
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You get people who get off on the idea of swinging and those that actually do this for real, both parties enjoy themselves yet they could be on parallel worlds.
Swinging as changed a lot in the last 20 years as its now a commercial earner so that and the fact so many are doing this as took away the forbidden fruit aspect of it. |
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