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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hi everyone we just wanted to know your thoughts on kissing as regards fullswap, we dont kiss when we swap but when the ladies play they are free to do what ever. We have previously met some good couples whom we had quality fun and this didnt seem to be a problem however recently we have had couples decline from meeting us as we do not kiss, question to all couples is it something all of you do???? x |
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over a year ago
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We find kissing a part of the turn on and off us, it's a must. Respect to anyone that doesn't kiss but we wouldn't meet them either. We'd feel we were missing out and turning the sex cold n mechanical. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do what suits you, if you want to kiss then kiss if you don't then don't.
There are plenty of couples with the same requirements as yourselves 
As a single guy I wouldn't meet without kissing as it's part and parcel of the foreplay for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends on the people the circumstances and so on but its not off limits we always think its strange someone wont kiss but they will suck cock and lick pussy but its what works for you that counts. |
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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we just like to keep that to ourselves, i really dont mind if the wifey is kissing another lady but would never like to see her kiss another man as i would never wanna kiss anyone apart from my wife but oh well everyone to his own nice to hear all of your opinions. |
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We prefer not to kiss. It's not a rule but we just don't feel inclined to (especially me).
When Vince kisses me, the Earth moves and I just don't feel that with anyone else. So to ME, it is kissing that feels cold and mechanical...
As I said, it's not a rule but if we do kiss I just feel like I'm "going through the motions" (so to speak) for their sake. I do find sometimes that I will naturally turn away though. It just can't be helped.
I'd much rather have their teeth sunk into my neck/chest/thigh or vice versa. 
That's if I'm not gagged.
- Amy. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find kissing a part of the turn on and off us, it's a must. Respect to anyone that doesn't kiss but we wouldn't meet them either. We'd feel we were missing out and turning the sex cold n mechanical. "
Pretty much how we feel too  |
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We don't kiss other people with passion or love. I find the whole it's ok for women to kiss each other but not men and women thing hard to get my head round but everyone has their preferences."
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We prefer not to kiss. It's not a rule but we just don't feel inclined to (especially me).
When Vince kisses me, the Earth moves and I just don't feel that with anyone else. So to ME, it is kissing that feels cold and mechanical...
As I said, it's not a rule but if we do kiss I just feel like I'm "going through the motions" (so to speak) for their sake. I do find sometimes that I will naturally turn away though. It just can't be helped.
I'd much rather have their teeth sunk into my neck/chest/thigh or vice versa.
That's if I'm not gagged.
- Amy. x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Difficult to have gentle/normal sex without kissing. Many say they don't like to... but it's bloody hard...
Role play and using whilst partner watched, could manage without kissing... |
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"Hi everyone we just wanted to know your thoughts on kissing as regards fullswap, we dont kiss when we swap but when the ladies play they are free to do what ever. We have previously met some good couples whom we had quality fun and this didnt seem to be a problem however recently we have had couples decline from meeting us as we do not kiss, question to all couples is it something all of you do???? x"
Each to their own and I believe as a couple that swing you need something that is just yours. Don't change that for anyone.
I love kissing but won't if the other person saves that for thier partner only  |
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We used to have a no MF kissing rule, but after a few meets where we both struggled not to kiss our playmates we re-thought things. I still won't kiss smokers of either gender and then there are the really bad, slobbery kissers  I am happy to meet people that don't kiss though, as I understand where they are coming from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally think kissing can help you explore someone's body, it elevates any first meet nerves and definatly much more passionate, kissing I think is vital to enjoy sex and makes it intimate otherwise it's just awkward sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is a must for us and i know its each to there own an all that but the girls can kiss but the girl wont kiss the man is a joke just dont understand it at all.  |
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I've met a couple that didn't kiss and found it really hard not to! When the guy was playing with me it seemed the natural thing to do but instead he just looked into my eyes with such desire I think that was more intense than a kiss would have been lol so no I don't understand it x |
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"Kissing is a must for us and i know its each to there own an all that but the girls can kiss but the girl wont kiss the man is a joke just dont understand it at all. "
Just because you don't understand it doesn't mean its a "joke"
I'm sure there's things we might want to do to you that you'd say no to. We wouldn't say it was a joke. We would respect your preferences...
Each to their own and all that.... |
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"Kissing is a must for us and i know its each to there own an all that but the girls can kiss but the girl wont kiss the man is a joke just dont understand it at all. "
I don't think its a joke but it is a preference that I don't understand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Each to there own said that u said u got a no kissing rule but the women can kiss hows that a no kissing rule an to me it is a joke but that's my opinion on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Iam not saying no kissing is joke that's fine but the whole we got a no kissing rule but the women are allowed now that's what iam talking about its just contradicting yourselves xx |
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"Each to there own said that u said u got a no kissing rule but the women can kiss hows that a no kissing rule an to me it is a joke but that's my opinion on it."
Sorry, I struggled to understand that.
Did you say if we have a no kissing rule, and I kiss women, how is it a no kissing rule?
If so..
We say that we don't kiss apart from fem on fem. Its our preference.... we want to keep that "one thing" for each other and not share that "one thing" with the opposite sex. It might be funny to you but we matter to us. Our feelings come before anyone's else's. (We do care about other people hence why we make it clear and dont waste anyones time) This is about us at the end of the day and an extention of our sex life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kissing is always great in meets, have done them without and not as intense and feel clinical and not as fun.
And at one meet the woman when her husband left the room to use the bathroom grabbed me and snogged me and said "that's better he doesn't like me doing it whilst he watches but wanted to do it since we met up" good kisser too |
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"I can quite understand it from a couples point of view but for me as a single lady I could not have sex without kissing first  . i dont
You don't what? understand or have to kiss before sex? .. i dont understand how some folk can watch there wife fuk someone.... . .. .and i dont understand why Thats less personal than a kiss "
Its totally different connection for us. I love to see my man have sex with a woman and him to see me get fucked but we both don't like the kissing as that's mine and his intimacy. |
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"I can quite understand it from a couples point of view but for me as a single lady I could not have sex without kissing first . i dont
You don't what? understand or have to kiss before sex? .. i dont understand how some folk can watch there wife fuk someone.... . .. .and i dont understand why Thats less personal than a kiss
Its totally different connection for us. I love to see my man have sex with a woman and him to see me get fucked but we both don't like the kissing as that's mine and his intimacy. "
iknow its quite popular..everyone is different x X X |
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"I can quite understand it from a couples point of view but for me as a single lady I could not have sex without kissing first . i dont
You don't what? understand or have to kiss before sex? .. i dont understand how some folk can watch there wife fuk someone.... . .. .and i dont understand why Thats less personal than a kiss
Its totally different connection for us. I love to see my man have sex with a woman and him to see me get fucked but we both don't like the kissing as that's mine and his intimacy. iknow its quite popular..everyone is different x X X"
I think its a mix really. We have been to clubs and parties and never seen people who play kiss apart from fems. Either we are going daft or oblivious...lol! |
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Each to there own said that u said u got a no kissing rule but the women can kiss hows that a no kissing rule an to me it is a joke but that's my opinion on it.
Sorry, I struggled to understand that.
Did you say if we have a no kissing rule, and I kiss women, how is it a no kissing rule?
If so..
We say that we don't kiss apart from fem on fem. Its our preference.... we want to keep that "one thing" for each other and not share that "one thing" with the opposite sex. It might be funny to you but we matter to us. Our feelings come before anyone's else's. (We do care about other people hence why we make it clear and dont waste anyones time) This is about us at the end of the day and an extention of our sex life.
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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A lot of difference in fact a whole lot of difference, the sight of my wife kissing another lady would be so erotic and sexy to me but the sight of her kissing another guy i would find repugnant and at the end of the day you dont really need to understand other peoples preference you just cant as long as youre not in their shoes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have exactly the same rule as the op. Fem on fem kissing but not opposite sex kissing. We keep it for ourselves as it is an intimate act. We see it as an intimate act because we do it so much like when we go out to work we kiss each other because we love each other. We aren't on here for intimacy we have each other for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have exactly the same rule as the op. Fem on fem kissing but not opposite sex kissing. We keep it for ourselves as it is an intimate act. We see it as an intimate act because we do it so much like when we go out to work we kiss each other because we love each other. We aren't on here for intimacy we have each other for that. "
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Christ, I'm going to have to rethink a lot of things if kissing is considered a more intimate act than sucking cock/pussy or shagging. "
a cock doesn't kiss back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can quite understand it from a couples point of view but for me as a single lady I could not have sex without kissing first . i dont
You don't what? understand or have to kiss before sex? .. i dont understand how some folk can watch there wife fuk someone.... . .. .and i dont understand why Thats less personal than a kiss "
Mine doesn't watch me |
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"Christ, I'm going to have to rethink a lot of things if kissing is considered a more intimate act than sucking cock/pussy or shagging. "
When you think about it kissing is more intimate as you are face to face with the other person, breathing their breath and so close, you cannot avoid eye contact, you don't that from doggy |
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"Christ, I'm going to have to rethink a lot of things if kissing is considered a more intimate act than sucking cock/pussy or shagging.
When you think about it kissing is more intimate as you are face to face with the other person, breathing their breath and so close, you cannot avoid eye contact, you don't that from doggy "
So you're telling me if you're sitting chatting to a bloke and you end up snogging you'd find that a more intimate act than if he buried his face between your thighs and began lapping away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we had this same rue in the early days and while i felt still quite comfortable i could see my hubby was struggling with not being able to kiss as like said above its all part of foreplay so we had a talk about t and agreed that it was for us an essential part of the fun, although that said sometimes i don't kiss sometimes i just don't feel the need to
we have found quite a few of our early rules have been adapted now what worked early on doesn't suit us anymore
we all have different requirements and you should never feel the need to justify it as you will always find peeps that suit your requirements |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do kiss on meets but some I wish I hadn't as they were not good at it.
Going straight in with a hard tongue is not nice kissing, ( I was grimacing at the memories as I wrote that lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I was to meet someone who didn't kiss I couldn't even think about getting into bed with them. For me its the biggest turn on , gentle build up and wonderous foreplay that can take place between two people. To me sex without foreplay and kissing would be cold and mechanical and very detached . I understand everyone has different views etc but do find it weird that someone can touch lick suck , fuck , insert fingers other objects and see you at your most excited levels yet not find that more intimate than kissing . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally, i'd have to kiss. I adore it and that's what really gets me going. Of course, if i did meet a couple or even a female who didn't prefer to kiss then i'd respect that.
..but kissing for me is a really huge turn on. Those who've met me know i do love to kiss lol
But, each to their own of course. Don't think to yourself that you'd have to change your own rules and boundaries to suit other couples. You're here for your own pleasure - so do that which you are both comfortable with and take it from there.
[not that i need to be telling you that. I'm still a baby lol]
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The only way I can think of to describe it is I can seperate love and sex. - I can fuck someone to fulfil a primal urge that masturbation doesn't satisfy and not have feelings for them.
But I wouldn't kiss someone I didn't love. Even kissing fuck buddies in the past, just didn't do anything for me. I was attracted to them and enjoyed giving them pleasure but felt no inclination or desire to kiss them...
It's a weird one but yes, kissing to me IS more intimate than sucking/fucking/being licked by someone. It's not intentional, just how it feels.
- Amy. x |
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"Christ, I'm going to have to rethink a lot of things if kissing is considered a more intimate act than sucking cock/pussy or shagging.
When you think about it kissing is more intimate as you are face to face with the other person, breathing their breath and so close, you cannot avoid eye contact, you don't that from doggy
So you're telling me if you're sitting chatting to a bloke and you end up snogging you'd find that a more intimate act than if he buried his face between your thighs and began lapping away? "
Yes that's what I said |
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By *Flackox OP Couple
over a year ago
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"The only way I can think of to describe it is I can seperate love and sex. - I can fuck someone to fulfil a primal urge that masturbation doesn't satisfy and not have feelings for them.
But I wouldn't kiss someone I didn't love. Even kissing fuck buddies in the past, just didn't do anything for me. I was attracted to them and enjoyed giving them pleasure but felt no inclination or desire to kiss them...
It's a weird one but yes, kissing to me IS more intimate than sucking/fucking/being licked by someone. It's not intentional, just how it feels.
- Amy. x"
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"Christ, I'm going to have to rethink a lot of things if kissing is considered a more intimate act than sucking cock/pussy or shagging.
When you think about it kissing is more intimate as you are face to face with the other person, breathing their breath and so close, you cannot avoid eye contact, you don't that from doggy
So you're telling me if you're sitting chatting to a bloke and you end up snogging you'd find that a more intimate act than if he buried his face between your thighs and began lapping away?
Yes that's what I said "
Don't believe you |
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