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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

No armpit to hide under when a nightmare wakes you up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nobody to warm you up in a cold bed?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No-one to make you a nice cup of tea and dinner when you get home from work

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Nobody to delegate putting the bin out to.

There's not much I miss being single.

Someone to go out to eat with occasionally. An extra pair of hands for DIY or whatever when needed. Cuddles and sex sometimes.

Not much.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nobodies picture to hang on the wall of my Cell

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Nobody to make a cup of tea or cook for

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Getting home from work and chatting with a glass of wine while cooking.

Showering/bath with someone else.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Regular sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to share the bills with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Before anyone thinks I've gone soft what I actualy meant was:


"Getting home from work and chatting with a glass of wine while cooking."

Someone to cook me dinner.


"Showering/bath with someone else."

Someone to scrub my back.

;)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one to share the bills with "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one to share the bills with "

Oh yes, that one is a definite downside

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm in bed alone tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to cuddle in the night

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Lonely and no one to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to share your thoughts with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to do everything for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not found one yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I have a bad day , no one to come home to and have a hug and for them to say it will be ok .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one to share the bills with "

People share? Damn; thought I was getting something wrong! Time to talk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Before anyone thinks I've gone soft what I actualy meant was:

Getting home from work and chatting with a glass of wine while cooking.

Someone to cook me dinner.

Showering/bath with someone else.

Someone to scrub my back.

;)

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not found one yet "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nobody to warm my feet on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No-one to de-ice the car for me on a frosty morning !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No armpit to hide under when a nightmare wakes you up"

You want to hide in a smelly arm pit?

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"No armpit to hide under when a nightmare wakes you up

You want to hide in a smelly arm pit? "

Hmmm,'my' man's armpit..........

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to dress me in the mornings, tie my shoelaces and feed me Smash

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

What downside?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Feeling so much better after reading those comments

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No-one to just ask how your day was and make you smile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

hate coming home to an empty house in a morning

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By *dub67Man  over a year ago

glasgow

Nobody to share with. Think it's the weekends for me.

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By *oulou45Woman  over a year ago

Bucks

Nobody to wash my car.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being married, only thing I get is the bills paid and taken to supermarket, apart from that my life is similar

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nobodies picture to hang on the wall of my Cell "

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Not found one yet "

thank you......

I get to walk around in my pants at home without a care...

I get to do the starfish in my big bed and hog all the room....

cook when i want, eat when i want

sorry... were there bad sides....

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Not found one yet

thank you......

I get to walk around in my pants at home without a care...

I get to do the starfish in my big bed and hog all the room....

cook when i want, eat when i want

sorry... were there bad sides.... "

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By *hyllyphyllyMan  over a year ago

Bradford

Just the bone crushing loneliness

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By *spot50Man  over a year ago

rochester


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though "

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No one to share the bills with

People share? Damn; thought I was getting something wrong! Time to talk "

Haha! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What downside?"

None of these examples have made me want to be anything other than single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol"

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to spend your money so you don't blow it all on motorcycles and gadgets......wait downside?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What downside?

None of these examples have made me want to be anything other than single. "

I could not agree more! I love my independence and doing what I want when I want without having to consult anyone. I know you can get lonely from time to time but you can be more lonely in a loveless relationship!

Selfish?....maybe. Happy?.....defiantly! X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!! "

you sure it was aliens and not politicians? lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No one to dress me in the mornings, tie my shoelaces and feed me Smash "

Welcome back Ty.

Downsides of being single: no one to clean the stairs for me; regular sex; no single supplement on holidays. They would still need to live in their own place though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!!

you sure it was aliens and not politicians? lol"

hmmm, could have been the Government if it was an American themed nightmare. Lots of driving around in trucks on dusty dirt tracks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No one to dress me in the mornings, tie my shoelaces and feed me Smash "

you sound like my ex husband

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious."

thats my biggest fear, especially having rushed my dad into hospital the end of last week.

never know when something is coming

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!!

you sure it was aliens and not politicians? lol

hmmm, could have been the Government if it was an American themed nightmare. Lots of driving around in trucks on dusty dirt tracks "

driving a truck up a dusty dirt track sounds like a rather lewd euphamism lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious."

I'm single but rarely alone so I don't have this worry

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious."

That can happen when your partner is away for a night too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

my husband passed out on top of the stairs one night when he was going to go downstairs to use the toilet, he never puts the light on, so i keep thinking it might happen again.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

no fights over the remote control....

no fights about where to go out....

ect ect ect......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious.

thats my biggest fear, especially having rushed my dad into hospital the end of last week.

never know when something is coming"

When I left my ex he used to try and make me feel guilty by saying if something happened to him then no-one would know or care.

I used to dismiss it as him just being his typical manipulative self but actually in a way he had a point...oh well

Here's to more single years

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"no fights over the remote control....

no fights about where to go out....

ect ect ect...... "

the remote was his...no arguments and I wasn't allowed out most of my marriage. I'm starting to think being single is ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"no fights over the remote control....

no fights about where to go out....

ect ect ect...... "

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By *spot50Man  over a year ago

rochester


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!! "

That's not aliens that's all the single guys on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Am laughing at you lot really. Aliens in nightmares still haunting me though

So what's your alien nightmare story, does it invole probing lol

lol no,I would have enjoyed that. Lots of trying to get away from an unseen danger. They were trying to eliminate us through deception,but I sussed them out!!!

That's not aliens that's all the single guys on here lol"

Oi ! Don't be dissing single men. They don't give me nightmares,I love them

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By *spot50Man  over a year ago

rochester

I'm not dissing I'm single myself lol, speaking of which what's your plans for the weekend lol

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By *ardlovinmanMan  over a year ago

Aberdeen

Lack of intimacy, it makes me feel good making someone else feel good about themselves, those long loving looks, fuck I'm depressed now! Lol, nah single life's good but do miss having someone special to spoil with kisses. Xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Nobody to plan and celebrate a special occasion with

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire

nobody to bug the shite out of

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to blame when i stink the loo out....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious.

thats my biggest fear, especially having rushed my dad into hospital the end of last week.

never know when something is coming"

This happened to my fatherinlaw 4weeks ago. not a stroke but he fell in the hallway, he has parkinsons and was on floor for 18 hours till my oh found him

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm not dissing I'm single myself lol, speaking of which what's your plans for the weekend lol"

lol hopefully not having nightmares

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No-one to make you a nice cup of tea and dinner when you get home from work "

If your married you only get that when they have crashed the car, spent all the money etc etc etc

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"if you colapsed with a stroke or something you would be lying there all night on your own, it happened to my gran and to the man who lives near us, it wasnt a stroke though but his sister found him on the floor semi concious."

Wow, that's cheerful! I just don't entertain such fears. Shit happens and I have no intention of changing my lifestyle for what ifs as I enjoy it too much. And my mobile phone goes upstairs with me anyway. It's usually within reach. No worries.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one...

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one..."

I suppose I've got a tiny fear of dying alone and being eaten by my cats but I struggle on

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn


"been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one...

I suppose I've got a tiny fear of dying alone and being eaten by my cats but I struggle on "

get vegetarian cats

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one...

I suppose I've got a tiny fear of dying alone and being eaten by my cats but I struggle on

get vegetarian cats "

Fabulous idea! I'll start them on nut rissoles tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What downside?

None of these examples have made me want to be anything other than single.

I could not agree more! I love my independence and doing what I want when I want without having to consult anyone. I know you can get lonely from time to time but you can be more lonely in a loveless relationship!

Selfish?....maybe. Happy?.....defiantly! X "

Being lonely in a crap relationship is much much worse than actually being alone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to snuggle upto, tell me its ok on a bad day or keep me company on my many trips around the uk following the bike racing... Gets lonely in a hotel room

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By *eedelightsWoman  over a year ago

London

No one to give u a hug just when u need one

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No-one to play board games with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What downside?

None of these examples have made me want to be anything other than single.

I could not agree more! I love my independence and doing what I want when I want without having to consult anyone. I know you can get lonely from time to time but you can be more lonely in a loveless relationship!

Selfish?....maybe. Happy?.....defiantly! X

Being lonely in a crap relationship is much much worse than actually being alone. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What downside?

None of these examples have made me want to be anything other than single.

I could not agree more! I love my independence and doing what I want when I want without having to consult anyone. I know you can get lonely from time to time but you can be more lonely in a loveless relationship!

Selfish?....maybe. Happy?.....defiantly! X

Being lonely in a crap relationship is much much worse than actually being alone. "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

no one to give a goodnight kiss to...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Having to find someone who actually wants to stay around...

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

No one to kiss goodnight and snuggle up to.

No one to cook for.

No one to walk with.

No regular sex.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"No one to kiss goodnight and snuggle up to.

No one to cook for.

No one to walk with.

No regular sex.

"

I'm not a very 'snuggly' person. In fact, my ex really irritated me with his insistence on lengthy cuddles.

Not that keen on cooking.

Prefer to walk alone but if I want company have friends for that.

Have an fb I can have regular sex with.

Perfick.

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"No one to kiss goodnight and snuggle up to.

No one to cook for.

No one to walk with.

No regular sex.

I'm not a very 'snuggly' person. In fact, my ex really irritated me with his insistence on lengthy cuddles.

Not that keen on cooking.

Prefer to walk alone but if I want company have friends for that.

Have an fb I can have regular sex with.

Perfick. "

Apart from the cooking. I love cooking. And I'm quite good at converting recipes to feed one.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am not even going to try and pretend. I HATE being single. Its totally crap.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Snuggles on the sofa while watchin movies!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God I feel depressed now!!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

I must have missed something. I was on my own for ten years and loved it, didn't feel alone/lonely at all. I have a boyfriend now and I've somehow managed to refrain from stabbing him when he moves my stuff, hogs the duvet, leave dirty underwear on the bedroom floor...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Downside ?

Are you kidding ?

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By *ScotsmanMan  over a year ago

ayrshire


"No one to snuggle upto, tell me its ok on a bad day or keep me company on my many trips around the uk following the bike racing... Gets lonely in a hotel room "
pillow or teddy is less works and less expensive x x X

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon

No one to cuddle up and watch a movie with (apart from the cats)

No one to cook for (apart from the cats)

No one to pamper (apart from the cats)

No one to go for a walk with (apart from the cats)

No one to share the household expenses with (these cats need to get jobs)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to text in the middle of the night when I can't sleep and no one to cuddle up with on cold nights

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

nope, still thinking

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I must have missed something. I was on my own for ten years and loved it, didn't feel alone/lonely at all. I have a boyfriend now and I've somehow managed to refrain from stabbing him when he moves my stuff, hogs the duvet, leave dirty underwear on the bedroom floor... "

its called love

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By *oodmessMan  over a year ago

yumsville

Having the TV up to loud

Wearing what you want

Having a hump day without being nagged

Having to tidy up

Not being able to fuck another woman

Wanking all day long

Scratching your arse when you want

Going out without having to tell someone

Oh no wait!! I got that the wrong way round!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are none

based on my marriage i miss nothing about it, didn't have regular sex, didn't have anyone to talk to, didn't have anyone to share things with, get the violin out i know

been single 6 years now and they really have been the happiest 6 years of my adult life, i miss nothing about being with someone and have no intentions of ever being in a relationship again

i love my life as it is and as they say, if its not broke don't fix it

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think it's evident that people tend to fall into one of two categories.

Those who are happy alone and those who need someone to share things with on a daily basis.

I'm not good in relationships. I don't like the person I become. I never get lonely and need my alone time. When I've been with someone I have ended up resenting their constant presence in my life on a daily basis.

However, I know many people who cannot bear to be alone. I do not understand this need they have. And they do not understand the need for being alone which I have.

Neither of us is wrong. We're just different. And I accept that. Most of my friends and family accept my lifestyle choices. But there are a couple who don't and who insist that what I need is a 'good man'. Sometimes they have tried to set me up with someone they considered suitable. Often with someone I find utterly unattractive and in one case actually repulsive. When this has been explained to them their response was something along the lines of 'well this guy is better than no guy at all'. This really irritates me. Though the last time it happened I was quite assertive about it and they've not tried to set me up since.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No-one to make you a nice cup of tea and dinner when you get home from work "

I must be missing something here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I miss having cuddles in bed

best sex I had was in a relationship

Going on dates to the cinema

Been single for 17 months and I'm enjoying it, I don't see myself in a relationship again I'm too dysfunctional, been cheated on, bullied, treated like shit etc

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By *onnymale1986Man  over a year ago

Doncaster


"No one to share the bills with "

Lol

Yer this has to be the best comment

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By *onnymale1986Man  over a year ago

Doncaster


"No one to share the bills with "

Lol

Yer this has to be the best comment

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By *ingjayMan  over a year ago

exeter

There's a downside??????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one...

I suppose I've got a tiny fear of dying alone and being eaten by my cats but I struggle on "

Thats why I dont have pets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Someone to rub body lotion on my back. I never get the whole area. that's all.

Can any of you ladies help?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"been back and forth to this thread, still struggling to think of one...

I suppose I've got a tiny fear of dying alone and being eaten by my cats but I struggle on

Thats why I dont have pets "

I don't see the issue here...kitties gotta eat!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not getting an actual birthday kiss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Being the only single in my group if friends.... Sometimes im just bloody lonely...

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By *inkershoes69Woman  over a year ago

maidstone


"I think it's evident that people tend to fall into one of two categories.

Those who are happy alone and those who need someone to share things with on a daily basis.

I'm not good in relationships. I don't like the person I become. I never get lonely and need my alone time. When I've been with someone I have ended up resenting their constant presence in my life on a daily basis.

However, I know many people who cannot bear to be alone. I do not understand this need they have. And they do not understand the need for being alone which I have.

Neither of us is wrong. We're just different. And I accept that. Most of my friends and family accept my lifestyle choices. But there are a couple who don't and who insist that what I need is a 'good man'. Sometimes they have tried to set me up with someone they considered suitable. Often with someone I find utterly unattractive and in one case actually repulsive. When this has been explained to them their response was something along the lines of 'well this guy is better than no guy at all'. This really irritates me. Though the last time it happened I was quite assertive about it and they've not tried to set me up since."

Im so glad there is someone else like me!

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING

Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"No one to kiss goodnight and snuggle up to.

No one to cook for.

No one to walk with.

No regular sex.

I'm not a very 'snuggly' person. In fact, my ex really irritated me with his insistence on lengthy cuddles.

Not that keen on cooking.

Prefer to walk alone but if I want company have friends for that.

Have an fb I can have regular sex with.

Perfick. "

These are just examples they don't apply to me personally

Don't get me wrong I have a lot more plus points for being single which I am now going to addto the other thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No one to scratch my back in bed!

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"No one to scratch my back in bed! "

Shall e send my hand over

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

found 1.

went to a coffee shop and nightmare getting a seat, I was in the Q to be served and the 2somes, 3 somes were like vultures when they saw a table becoming vacant...

there was nearly a bloodbath.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"found 1.

went to a coffee shop and nightmare getting a seat, I was in the Q to be served and the 2somes, 3 somes were like vultures when they saw a table becoming vacant...

there was nearly a bloodbath."

Oh that's easy to deal with. Just go to a vacant seat and ask politely but firmly if anyone is sitting there whilst at the same time moving to sit down before they can say yes.

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing? "

lay down and go back to sleep

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing? "

I don't have nightmares.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing? "

I have screamed, then got up had a glass of water and gone back to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady"

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing?

I don't have nightmares. "

I don't anymore, now I'm single.

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x"

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x"

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll quite happily have a couple of drinks in a pub alone but eating in a restaurant can get you funny looks...

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle


"So..what do you single people do when you have a nightmare and wake up sweating with your heart racing? "

I don't have nightmares so its not a problem, I just get back to starfishing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I should man up

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest "

No of course it isn't lmao x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x"

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x"

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some one to cuddle on sofa with, and some one to play fight what turns in to the BEST sex sessions xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

No one to blame for skids in the pan

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"No one to blame for skids in the pan "

Hahahaha fpmsl this actually made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x"

Just need to find someone to join me x

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x"

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' ( "

Oh well xxx

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

Oh well xxx"

Not sure we'd be doing much watching lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

Oh well xxx

Not sure we'd be doing much watching lol x"

Oh I do, just imagine how horny id be if I've been watching the bikes all day for you to get me home x

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

Oh well xxx

Not sure we'd be doing much watching lol x

Oh I do, just imagine how horny id be if I've been watching the bikes all day for you to get me home x"

Yeah true, with us touching each other all day too. If if was warm too. Holy shit people would be moaning about the noise lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

Oh well xxx

Not sure we'd be doing much watching lol x

Oh I do, just imagine how horny id be if I've been watching the bikes all day for you to get me home x

Yeah true, with us touching each other all day too. If if was warm too. Holy shit people would be moaning about the noise lol x"

And not due to the engines

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By *aughtySexualArousalMan  over a year ago

SPALDING


"Yes ok we all know being single can suck at times, but come on people don't be so negative. Look at the good things....... you can do what you want when you want, spend your money on whatever you want. See whoever you like.

.........and yes before anyone criticises me yes I would give it all up to find a loving lady

Well you never know what is round the corner

Have to say I miss the cuddles and lazy days in bed, and someone to enjoy my obsession with bike racing with x

You're one of a kind. A woman who enjoys the world of motorcycles ; ) x

Nothing to do with the men in leather.... Honest

No of course it isn't lmao x

Only got until march 23rd or April 19th to wait x

23rd March for me. Roll on lol x

Just need to find someone to join me x

Wish I could but have used all my holiday and can't afford it :' (

Oh well xxx

Not sure we'd be doing much watching lol x

Oh I do, just imagine how horny id be if I've been watching the bikes all day for you to get me home x

Yeah true, with us touching each other all day too. If if was warm too. Holy shit people would be moaning about the noise lol x

And not due to the engines "

Hahaha cheeky x

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