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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey looking to meet very curvy women size 20+. Pm me if interested. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't bloody win....

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Do those of us who are a bit bigger one half count?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do those of us who are a bit bigger one half count? "

well, you are very curvy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

wooooo i fit into a category lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Only 1 person who is dress size 20+

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Two actually...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wooooo i fit into a category lol"

You fit in all my categories. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only 1 person who is dress size 20+ "

16-18.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Two actually... "

Lol ah sorry didnt reakise. Oooh yeah you are yum x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Only 1 person who is dress size 20+

16-18....."

And rather foxy too...

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By *ussypussWoman  over a year ago

South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo


"very curvy women size 20+"

Size 18/20 but too far away

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hi x

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hey looking to meet very curvy women size 20+. Pm me if interested. Thanks"

You're the guy who posted on here that you can find large ladies attractive but you'd never date anyone bigger than a size 12, aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

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By *onkey69Man  over a year ago

Essex

My ex was a 22 loved every min with her

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember "

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date."

Indeed he did say it. Some of us have long memories

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"very curvy women size 20+

Size 18/20 but too far away "

I'm closer....

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By *onkey69Man  over a year ago

Essex

Can't believe anyone would ever say something like that to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date."

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc. "

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc. "

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc. "

Lol, the old "Banter" get out!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Can't believe anyone would ever say something like that to anyone. "

You can't spend much time on the fora then!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?"

Hell yeah.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date."

Apologies for that comment, I take it back. I would date curvy woman.

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By *etewyorksMan  over a year ago

leeds

Big girls are so so sexy xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?"

Lol of course

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

Lol of course "

Well I hope you're sincere because I didn't need the notes section to remember your comment. I remembered because up until then I had so enjoyed looking at your bottom....and then you made me sad, sad and disappointed in you Ash. I swore off your bottom from that day onwards.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

Lol of course

Well I hope you're sincere because I didn't need the notes section to remember your comment. I remembered because up until then I had so enjoyed looking at your bottom....and then you made me sad, sad and disappointed in you Ash. I swore off your bottom from that day onwards."

I remembered without the notes too but the notes confirmed it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date.

Apologies for that comment, I take it back. I would date curvy woman. "

Hmmm some men will say anything to keep on favour. What was the comment you mad3 earlier about not everything thats said is 100%

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

Lol of course

Well I hope you're sincere because I didn't need the notes section to remember your comment. I remembered because up until then I had so enjoyed looking at your bottom....and then you made me sad, sad and disappointed in you Ash. I swore off your bottom from that day onwards."

Ah man, shot myself in the arse with that comment then lol. But come on, from reading my profile and seeing my veris etc it is quite clear that I love curves. I dont take forums too seriously and do sometimes say things to start a debate etc. Sorry if it offends anyone. Right, its bedtime. Goodnight x

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By *ighland_RoseCouple  over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

Lol of course

Well I hope you're sincere because I didn't need the notes section to remember your comment. I remembered because up until then I had so enjoyed looking at your bottom....and then you made me sad, sad and disappointed in you Ash. I swore off your bottom from that day onwards.

Ah man, shot myself in the arse with that comment then lol. But come on, from reading my profile and seeing my veris etc it is quite clear that I love curves. I dont take forums too seriously and do sometimes say things to start a debate etc. Sorry if it offends anyone. Right, its bedtime. Goodnight x"

Yes you did, you shot yourself in the lovely, firm, round buttocks...which I am still not looking at!

Goodnight

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Indeed he did say it. Some of us have long memories"

Note to op women remember everything!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date."

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Two actually... "

and very nice you both look too

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!"

How do you know anything about my meets and what they would or wouldn't do? You haven't a clue about the people I meet and fuck.

Anyone who announces fat women are fine for a fuck but they wouldn't date anyone over a size 12 is not somebody who respects women and is not someone I'd fuck.

I don't want a date BUT I won't waste my time on someone so disrespectful as to believe fat women are only good for sex and not to be seen out with.

Take a look at the rest of this thread and you'll note I am not the only one. Some of us have a bit more self respect than that.

I don't bitch about *every* guy. In fact I rather like some. I'm not impressed by the bitter and twisted ones who aren't getting what they expected here and are looking to everyone else to blame but themselves, or by those who behave like arseholes.

If you like being regarded as an object, or good enough for sex as long as you don't have to be seen together then that's your choice. It's not a situation that sits at all well with me.

Men who consistently bitch about the women here and how "up ourselves" we are and then get all bent out of shape when anyone objects to anything a man says or does are hypocritical and very entertaining.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

So would you take a size 20 girl home to meet your mum?

Lol of course

Well I hope you're sincere because I didn't need the notes section to remember your comment. I remembered because up until then I had so enjoyed looking at your bottom....and then you made me sad, sad and disappointed in you Ash. I swore off your bottom from that day onwards.

Ah man, shot myself in the arse with that comment then lol. But come on, from reading my profile and seeing my veris etc it is quite clear that I love curves. I dont take forums too seriously and do sometimes say things to start a debate etc. Sorry if it offends anyone. Right, its bedtime. Goodnight x

Yes you did, you shot yourself in the lovely, firm, round buttocks...which I am still not looking at!

Goodnight "

Lol haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

At least this guy had the balls to make the comment of 'id shag you but not date you'.

A lot of men blow sunshine up womens arses to get what they want. And i honestly believe that larger women for some are a guilty pleasure but there is a stigma attatched still when it comes to being seen out n about with

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"At least this guy had the balls to make the comment of 'id shag you but not date you'.

A lot of men blow sunshine up womens arses to get what they want. And i honestly believe that larger women for some are a guilty pleasure but there is a stigma attatched still when it comes to being seen out n about with "

True but I still won't fuck them when they say, or make it obvious they think I'm only good for a fuck. They may think it and I won't know, but once I do know, I'm out.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have and never will be anyone's guilty pleasure because of my size..Ive never had anyone tell me im not good enough to be seen out with because im a fat bird...I guess im confident in my size...to the op sometimes you can be too honest and i remember the post regarding shagging one size and dating another size that is your choice...just remember people have long memories...oh and don't change your mind to fit what others want to hear...You are not my type so no skin off my nose...enjoy

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"oh and don't change your mind to fit what others want to hear..."

Agreed. There's usually no point anyway as your true feelings will probably come across in person anyway.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date."

In fairness this is fantasy. Would a "straight" man date a "convincing" tv? I doubt it. There are many aspects of a person we may find sexually attractive yet not want in a life partner.

How many times have we read "this isn't a dating site and I wouldn't look here" type posts?

Offense isn't always meant.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date.

In fairness this is fantasy. Would a "straight" man date a "convincing" tv? I doubt it. There are many aspects of a person we may find sexually attractive yet not want in a life partner.

How many times have we read "this isn't a dating site and I wouldn't look here" type posts?

Offense isn't always meant."

Yes, absolutely true. I'm not willing to be that fantasy or, as cheeky put it, a guilty pleasure though. Been there and it makes me feel cheap.

I'm not really offended that someone would want to fuck someone they wouldn't want a relationship with. When it's based purely on a physical aspect though, it's something I personally don't feel good about.

To each their own though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!

How do you know anything about my meets and what they would or wouldn't do? You haven't a clue about the people I meet and fuck.

Anyone who announces fat women are fine for a fuck but they wouldn't date anyone over a size 12 is not somebody who respects women and is not someone I'd fuck.

I don't want a date BUT I won't waste my time on someone so disrespectful as to believe fat women are only good for sex and not to be seen out with.

Take a look at the rest of this thread and you'll note I am not the only one. Some of us have a bit more self respect than that.

I don't bitch about *every* guy. In fact I rather like some. I'm not impressed by the bitter and twisted ones who aren't getting what they expected here and are looking to everyone else to blame but themselves, or by those who behave like arseholes.

If you like being regarded as an object, or good enough for sex as long as you don't have to be seen together then that's your choice. It's not a situation that sits at all well with me.

Men who consistently bitch about the women here and how "up ourselves" we are and then get all bent out of shape when anyone objects to anything a man says or does are hypocritical and very entertaining."

The reality is, regardless of whether you look like Cheryl Cole, Jennifer Lopez or Beyonce by being on this site a lot of men wouldn't date from this "toxic" pool anyway.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

Out of interest, do you actively seek out women to have sex with that you don't consider good enough to be relationship material?

Or do you just meet people who appeal to you who happen not to be what you'd look for in a relationship?

I'm not sure there's a difference and I'm not sure what my point is but I'm wondering for some reason.

It seems a bit odd to me, honestly, to state you wouldn't date an entire group of people but then actively seek them out for sex.

I haven't had coffee yet and I need some.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!

How do you know anything about my meets and what they would or wouldn't do? You haven't a clue about the people I meet and fuck.

Anyone who announces fat women are fine for a fuck but they wouldn't date anyone over a size 12 is not somebody who respects women and is not someone I'd fuck.

I don't want a date BUT I won't waste my time on someone so disrespectful as to believe fat women are only good for sex and not to be seen out with.

Take a look at the rest of this thread and you'll note I am not the only one. Some of us have a bit more self respect than that.

I don't bitch about *every* guy. In fact I rather like some. I'm not impressed by the bitter and twisted ones who aren't getting what they expected here and are looking to everyone else to blame but themselves, or by those who behave like arseholes.

If you like being regarded as an object, or good enough for sex as long as you don't have to be seen together then that's your choice. It's not a situation that sits at all well with me.

Men who consistently bitch about the women here and how "up ourselves" we are and then get all bent out of shape when anyone objects to anything a man says or does are hypocritical and very entertaining.

The reality is, regardless of whether you look like Cheryl Cole, Jennifer Lopez or Beyonce by being on this site a lot of men wouldn't date from this "toxic" pool anyway. "

Indeed and that's entirely up to them. I prefer men who are open-minded and adventurous anyway.

Anyone not willing to date a swinger or someone who enjoys no strings sex is likely to be too uptight for me.

Life provides some very convenient filters sometimes

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date.

In fairness this is fantasy. Would a "straight" man date a "convincing" tv? I doubt it. There are many aspects of a person we may find sexually attractive yet not want in a life partner.

How many times have we read "this isn't a dating site and I wouldn't look here" type posts?

Offense isn't always meant.

Yes, absolutely true. I'm not willing to be that fantasy or, as cheeky put it, a guilty pleasure though. Been there and it makes me feel cheap.

I'm not really offended that someone would want to fuck someone they wouldn't want a relationship with. When it's based purely on a physical aspect though, it's something I personally don't feel good about.

To each their own though."

I always met socially first. I would not invite into my home someone who wouldn't want to be seen out with me in public but I recognise some people could care less.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that... "

Me too but I didn't seek them out specifically.

Never mind. I still don't know what my point is!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date.

In fairness this is fantasy. Would a "straight" man date a "convincing" tv? I doubt it. There are many aspects of a person we may find sexually attractive yet not want in a life partner.

How many times have we read "this isn't a dating site and I wouldn't look here" type posts?

Offense isn't always meant.

Yes, absolutely true. I'm not willing to be that fantasy or, as cheeky put it, a guilty pleasure though. Been there and it makes me feel cheap.

I'm not really offended that someone would want to fuck someone they wouldn't want a relationship with. When it's based purely on a physical aspect though, it's something I personally don't feel good about.

To each their own though.

I always met socially first. I would not invite into my home someone who wouldn't want to be seen out with me in public but I recognise some people could care less. "

That more clearly expresses how I feel. Thank you

Not insulted, just not for me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

Me too but I didn't seek them out specifically.

Never mind. I still don't know what my point is! "

I don't seek men on here i chat to who takes my fancy...i don't put in the for front of my mind the dating aspect of it first i put the do we have a sexual connection first

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Crikey. I hope this not fucking unless you are willing to date thing stays within reasonable bounds, otherwise I am going to end up so un-fucked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?

Out of interest, do you actively seek out women to have sex with that you don't consider good enough to be relationship material?

Or do you just meet people who appeal to you who happen not to be what you'd look for in a relationship?

I'm not sure there's a difference and I'm not sure what my point is but I'm wondering for some reason.

It seems a bit odd to me, honestly, to state you wouldn't date an entire group of people but then actively seek them out for sex.

I haven't had coffee yet and I need some."

It's not as complicated as you may imagine.

I actively seek women for sex who I find sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that... "

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them!

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm going to make coffee, find something constructive to do and stop over-thinking something that is pretty irrelevant to me in the grand scheme of things.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I'm going to make coffee, find something constructive to do and stop over-thinking something that is pretty irrelevant to me in the grand scheme of things."

don't over analize things....this place is meant to be fun. go and have a coffee

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By *tupidityDictatesWoman  over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them! "

That's not the issue, he has implied that 20+ are only good enough to fuck and not good enough to date, as I said previously try making that comment about an asian man and see how far you get.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Anyone not willing to date a swinger or someone who enjoys no strings sex is likely to be too uptight for me.

Life provides some very convenient filters sometimes "

I cannot understand how enjoying nsa sex would make someone uptight?

It's difficult for me to understand how someone who is active on this site would enjoy Fab if they do not like some aspects of nsa sex.

What do you think most people are looking for on here?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

You got a very good memory. But to be honest, not everything said on here is 100% accurate. Sometimes things are said for banter etc.

The notes section on profiles is also very handy.

Be careful how you "banter" because it can bite you on the arse.

Best of luck meeting those curvy women that aren't good enough for you to date."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them!

That's not the issue, he has implied that 20+ are only good enough to fuck and not good enough to date, as I said previously try making that comment about an asian man and see how far you get."

Well I wouldn't date or shag one But that's my preference.

Some people are to eager to bite ..... Everyone is an adult and we all have choices

If he shags and size 20+ maybe she won't fancy dating him lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Curves for me regardless. What's all this size business about anyway? It's not like before you fuck anyone you're going to ask her what's your dress size are you?

...i don't even know what size my fb is. That question is irrelevant to me. As long as you can make me laugh, your fab company and if your kisses can melt me - your a keeper.

Now, do i date or do i shag? My own point of _iew - i don't meet anyone willy nilly (and that's my own preference). I'd much rather meet someone i click with on all levels, as it's not all about sex to me. I like the social side of things too. That's what i'm doing on a site like this. All these are qualities you'd want in a relationship or with whoever you are dating.

...the difference is, i'm not actively looking for a relationship. So, that part of my 'brain' is shut down and anyone i meet or so forth is primarily to swing and then if things go well, who knows.

This is swinging - not NSA direct. There's a difference there for me. Not here just to meet someone once and that's it. Get a notch on my bed and hoorah. Can do that on a night out on the pull. I'm not here for that on here. I want kinky friendships with friends who love a good fuck.

Now, hopefully all the above made sense.

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

Anyone not willing to date a swinger or someone who enjoys no strings sex is likely to be too uptight for me.

Life provides some very convenient filters sometimes

I cannot understand how enjoying nsa sex would make someone uptight?

"

I didn't say it would. In fact that is almost the opposite of what I said.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them!

That's not the issue, he has implied that 20+ are only good enough to fuck and not good enough to date, as I said previously try making that comment about an asian man and see how far you get.

Well I wouldn't date or shag one But that's my preference.

Some people are to eager to bite ..... Everyone is an adult and we all have choices

If he shags and size 20+ maybe she won't fancy dating him lol

"

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?! "

I refer you to my previous response to that comment.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

None of my regular men date me. I'm for pleasure only and vice versa. I've had some dates with men where I've enjoyed their company but didn't want to have sex with them. I do think that OP should have realised he could have offended some women but better to be honest. I've had sex with young men I wouldn't take home to meet my mum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them!

That's not the issue, he has implied that 20+ are only good enough to fuck and not good enough to date, as I said previously try making that comment about an asian man and see how far you get."

have you never seen the amount of couples or single fems after bbc...ask half of them if they would date a brown/black/coloured man...treating them like some freak show at the circus....samething really. It does happen but the way around it is preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!

I refer you to my previous response to that comment."

chill and have a coffee...its not a nice look being negative and bitter

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By *eryBigGirlWoman  over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I fit your criteria but unfortunately I don't fuck arseholes let alone entertain the idea of dating them.

If your previous comment was only said to rile feathers (which I doubt) then it's still a shitty thing to do, imagine the outrage if I mocked asian men saying they're good enough to shag but not to date, even if I didn't mean it. Way to go making some of us curvier ladies feel like shit, hopefully nobody took your comment to heart.

Oh get a grip! A nonentity on a website says he won't date fatties and it makes you feel like shit?!! Come on now! "

Exactly it don't make me feel like shit it just makes me laugh at the hypocrisy and also grateful that I'm blocked

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By *ee VianteWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!

I refer you to my previous response to that comment. chill and have a coffee...its not a nice look being negative and bitter "

Oh the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I fit your criteria but unfortunately I don't fuck arseholes let alone entertain the idea of dating them.

If your previous comment was only said to rile feathers (which I doubt) then it's still a shitty thing to do, imagine the outrage if I mocked asian men saying they're good enough to shag but not to date, even if I didn't mean it. Way to go making some of us curvier ladies feel like shit, hopefully nobody took your comment to heart.

Oh get a grip! A nonentity on a website says he won't date fatties and it makes you feel like shit?!! Come on now!

Exactly it don't make me feel like shit it just makes me laugh at the hypocrisy and also grateful that I'm blocked "

or that you blocked them maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *eryBigGirlWoman  over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"I fit your criteria but unfortunately I don't fuck arseholes let alone entertain the idea of dating them.

If your previous comment was only said to rile feathers (which I doubt) then it's still a shitty thing to do, imagine the outrage if I mocked asian men saying they're good enough to shag but not to date, even if I didn't mean it. Way to go making some of us curvier ladies feel like shit, hopefully nobody took your comment to heart.

Oh get a grip! A nonentity on a website says he won't date fatties and it makes you feel like shit?!! Come on now!

Exactly it don't make me feel like shit it just makes me laugh at the hypocrisy and also grateful that I'm blocked

or that you blocked them maybe. "

Probably but I can't be arsed to trawl through my blocked list when I'm happy to be blocked

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow

Ah well am also too fat to "date"

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By *oulou45Woman  over a year ago

Bucks


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

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By *avesueCouple  over a year ago

hull

Hi iam happily married ! I love my hubby but I do play with guys I don't fancy it's all about the sex

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh dear with the hysteria.

I've had swinging sex with lots of women who I would not be in a relationship with. This includes physical appearance and age.

Since when do you have to agree to date somebody before you shag them?

I have seen many white women in relationships or marriages with white men who also have a penchant for black men. Does the women have to date or say she would marry them before she blows them?

The reaction towards the OP is a bit harsh. I mean shoot a guy for being honest! I don't agree with size as you can fall for anybody but his choice.

Only the other day, Mrs Z swung with somebody who she told me she would normally not look twice at but found it erotic. Good for her!

Equality and choice is not just about skin colour and disabilities but all aspects of life.

Where do you draw the line at criticizing other people's profiles and when do you mind your own business?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah well am also too fat to "date" "
same here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

The bottom line is we all would like to think that the people we have sex with on here have had sex with us because they are sexually attracted to you,but for some thats not the case and people will use others just for sex.

Nsa has a diffrent meaning to us all but id never use someone for sex just because i was horny and people who do have no respect for themselfs let alone the people they use for their own sexual gratification thats my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh dear with the hysteria.

I've had swinging sex with lots of women who I would not be in a relationship with. This includes physical appearance and age.

Since when do you have to agree to date somebody before you shag them?

I have seen many white women in relationships or marriages with white men who also have a penchant for black men. Does the women have to date or say she would marry them before she blows them?

The reaction towards the OP is a bit harsh. I mean shoot a guy for being honest! I don't agree with size as you can fall for anybody but his choice.

Only the other day, Mrs Z swung with somebody who she told me she would normally not look twice at but found it erotic. Good for her!

Equality and choice is not just about skin colour and disabilities but all aspects of life.

Where do you draw the line at criticizing other people's profiles and when do you mind your own business?

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"wooooo i fit into a category lol

You fit in all my categories. Lol"

People are more then a dress size ... They have a heart beat so alive a person . I hope no one mail , lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Big girl you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, 'Hey girls you are beautiful'

Diet and a pizza please

Diet I'm on my knees

Screaming 'Big girl you are beautiful'

You take your skinny girls

Feel like I'm gonna die

'Cause a real woman

Needs a real man here's why

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the Butterfly Lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole

With the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, 'Hey girls you are beautiful'

Diet and a pizza please

Diet I'm on my knees

Screaming 'Big girl you are beautiful'

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the Butterfly Lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole

With the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Get yourself to the Butterfly Lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole

With the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Oh you are beautiful

Get yourself to the Butterfly Lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole

With the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Oh you are beautiful

Get yourself to the Butterfly Lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole

With the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girls you are beautiful

Big girl you are beautiful

all shapes and sizes are fine to me,i just love women full stop

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dandy , lolol ooo I love that song I am not that big but have BIG tits , lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my regular men date me. I'm for pleasure only and vice versa. I've had some dates with men where I've enjoyed their company but didn't want to have sex with them. I do think that OP should have realised he could have offended some women but better to be honest. I've had sex with young men I wouldn't take home to meet my mum

The vice versa part is very important.

The "

my family wouldn't care who I dated to be honest. My mum would be happy as long as he treated me well. My brother and brother in laws on the other hand would take the mickey out of him,in a nice way of course :D

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I keep reading in threads that this isn't a dating site, and several comments that men wouldn't date a woman they meet on here but frankly...that isn't necessarily the case. I know couples who are happily married years after meeting on sites similar to this. I have had men message me going that an fb arrangement would lead to a proper relationship. I have been messaged by men who blatantly state on their profile that a relationship is their ultimate wish, and following a meet off of this site I was offered a proper relationship. I am also on another site where the same phenomena occur. Whilst I am not looking for a relationship right now, and another poster may not actually consider someone they meet via a site like this 'true dating material' that is a personal opinion and one that is by no means unanimous on this or any similar site.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

I'm with you on that cheeky. It's NSA and it's meant to be fun,

Sex is sex and it's what attracts you physically or possibly mentally

If he don't wanna date a 20+ size girl but would date a size 12 that's his preference.

We all have them!

That's not the issue, he has implied that 20+ are only good enough to fuck and not good enough to date, as I said previously try making that comment about an asian man and see how far you get.have you never seen the amount of couples or single fems after bbc...ask half of them if they would date a brown/black/coloured man...treating them like some freak show at the circus....samething really. It does happen but the way around it is preferences."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ive voted for your tits on many a thread Jo

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Live laugh love is my motto...Ive never had any man say that they would not be seen with me in public....I tend to attract men that like the whole package..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

Couldn't have said it better myself. I have met guys I wouldn't date for various reasons and some that I would (provided that's what I was looking for)!

We meet the people we find as attractive as possible through a computer screen, but let's be honest we aren't going to know everything about them. Isn't it the same as if you meet a random in a nightclub and have a one night stand, it's highly unlikely you would then go on dating that person.

I'm a curvy girl myself and in one respect find it a little rude for someone to say they would have sex with me but due to my size wouldn't date me, but I am who I am and I'm not everyone's cuppa tea, and I have preferences myself too. It's the beauty of us all being unique!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Id be honoured to be seen with you misscheeky,your stunning

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im not in that category. ..but I liked your profile..it kept me focused! good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Size 20. And proud of my curves !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you never seen the amount of couples or single fems after bbc...ask half of them if they would date a brown/black/coloured man...treating them like some freak show at the circus....samething really. It does happen but the way around it is preferences."

I must be a rarity then as I only date black men as well. In my case it is a preference, certainly not just about the "BBC" but physcial, and sexual attraction.

I've not been with a white man in over 10 years, and have no plans to in the near or distant future either.

I definitely do not treat any man like a freak in a circus.

Quite frankly, any guy who can put up with me for long enough I'd be proud to have on my arm!!

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

many online persona will say they would date who they may shag on here...

once the off button is clicked, I would suggest significantly less would actually do it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my regular men date me. I'm for pleasure only and vice versa. I've had some dates with men where I've enjoyed their company but didn't want to have sex with them. I do think that OP should have realised he could have offended some women but better to be honest. I've had sex with young men I wouldn't take home to meet my mum

The vice versa part is very important.

The

my family wouldn't care who I dated to be honest. My mum would be happy as long as he treated me well. My brother and brother in laws on the other hand would take the mickey out of him,in a nice way of course :D"

Having a problem with my phone here. As I said, the vice versa part is very important together with the fact that many have dated people they don't find sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"have you never seen the amount of couples or single fems after bbc...ask half of them if they would date a brown/black/coloured man...treating them like some freak show at the circus....samething really. It does happen but the way around it is preferences.

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

I must be a rarity then as I only date black men as well. In my case it is a preference, certainly not just about the "BBC" but physcial, and sexual attraction.

I've not been with a white man in ovoer 10 years, and have no plans to in the near or distant future either.

I definitely do not treat any man like a freak in a circus.

Quite frankly, any guy who can put up with me for long enough I'd be proud to have on my arm!!"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Love women from 14 upwards

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Love women from 14 upwards"

Size 14 not age lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Curves for me regardless. What's all this size business about anyway? It's not like before you fuck anyone you're going to ask her what's your dress size are you?

...i don't even know what size my fb is. That question is irrelevant to me. As long as you can make me laugh, your fab company and if your kisses can melt me - your a keeper.

Now, do i date or do i shag? My own point of _iew - i don't meet anyone willy nilly (and that's my own preference). I'd much rather meet someone i click with on all levels, as it's not all about sex to me. I like the social side of things too. That's what i'm doing on a site like this. All these are qualities you'd want in a relationship or with whoever you are dating.

...the difference is, i'm not actively looking for a relationship. So, that part of my 'brain' is shut down and anyone i meet or so forth is primarily to swing and then if things go well, who knows.

This is swinging - not NSA direct. There's a difference there for me. Not here just to meet someone once and that's it. Get a notch on my bed and hoorah. Can do that on a night out on the pull. I'm not here for that on here. I want kinky friendships with friends who love a good fuck.

Now, hopefully all the above made sense.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Curves for me regardless. What's all this size business about anyway? It's not like before you fuck anyone you're going to ask her what's your dress size are you?

...i don't even know what size my fb is. That question is irrelevant to me. As long as you can make me laugh, your fab company and if your kisses can melt me - your a keeper.

Now, do i date or do i shag? My own point of _iew - i don't meet anyone willy nilly (and that's my own preference). I'd much rather meet someone i click with on all levels, as it's not all about sex to me. I like the social side of things too. That's what i'm doing on a site like this. All these are qualities you'd want in a relationship or with whoever you are dating.

...the difference is, i'm not actively looking for a relationship. So, that part of my 'brain' is shut down and anyone i meet or so forth is primarily to swing and then if things go well, who knows.

This is swinging - not NSA direct. There's a difference there for me. Not here just to meet someone once and that's it. Get a notch on my bed and hoorah. Can do that on a night out on the pull. I'm not here for that on here. I want kinky friendships with friends who love a good fuck.

Now, hopefully all the above made sense.

"

Just focusing on the last part of your post about swinging not being 'no strings attached' and wanting a connection.

I would say that many couples think the opposite. We have each other for a connection and don't necessarily want friendship (we will happily be friends if there is a connection). All we want as a couple is a sexual encounter of some kind that puts a smile on our face so NSA suits us just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc "

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date.

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs. . Why do you have to bitch evey single guy in here?!"

That is a fucking horrible thing to say!!! Good luck getting meets you horrible man!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!"

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

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By *uby0000Woman  over a year ago

hertfordshire

i got taken home once to meet a blokes mum ..... never again ...she hated me....lol NSA is ok with me

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"have you never seen the amount of couples or single fems after bbc...ask half of them if they would date a brown/black/coloured man...treating them like some freak show at the circus....samething really. It does happen but the way around it is preferences.

I must be a rarity then as I only date black men as well. In my case it is a preference, certainly not just about the "BBC" but physcial, and sexual attraction.

I've not been with a white man in over 10 years, and have no plans to in the near or distant future either.

I definitely do not treat any man like a freak in a circus.

Quite frankly, any guy who can put up with me for long enough I'd be proud to have on my arm!!"

for some its a sexual preference... For others its a life preference! freak show my back foot! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any bbws in north west/ blackpool area

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that... "

Me too. And nothing wrong wiv that. Its just sex at the end of the day. Well, any time of day lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy? "

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im sure there are a lot of women on Here that would shag a guy and not date them...I have been guilty of that...

Me too. And nothing wrong wiv that. Its just sex at the end of the day. Well, any time of day lol "

Mmmmm love it. Work wank time here lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"

Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffs"

Do you know this lady personally ?do you know her meets personally ? Unbelievable statement !!!

Are you saying you should only have sex with people you would consider as dating metetial?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Material*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have and never will be anyone's guilty pleasure because of my size..Ive never had anyone tell me im not good enough to be seen out with because im a fat bird...I guess im confident in my size...to the op sometimes you can be too honest and i remember the post regarding shagging one size and dating another size that is your choice...just remember people have long memories...oh and don't change your mind to fit what others want to hear...You are not my type so no skin off my nose...enjoy "

well said. i have in the past met guysone to one but they wont take me to a club. not nice at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Love women from 14 upwards

Size 14 not age lol "

lol Freudian slip

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite."

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wow, this turned into a pretty interesting thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my regular men date me. I'm for pleasure only and vice versa. I've had some dates with men where I've enjoyed their company but didn't want to have sex with them. I do think that OP should have realised he could have offended some women but better to be honest. I've had sex with young men I wouldn't take home to meet my mum

The vice versa part is very important.

The

my family wouldn't care who I dated to be honest. My mum would be happy as long as he treated me well. My brother and brother in laws on the other hand would take the mickey out of him,in a nice way of course :D

Having a problem with my phone here. As I said, the vice versa part is very important together with the fact that many have dated people they don't find sexually attractive.

"

I find once I start to develop feelings for a man I distance myself. With feelings comes emotions and problems for me. I'm happy to be used for sex by hot men who don't want to take me out for dinner. I've turned down drinks to go straight to sex a lot of times

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Lets all just have an orgy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?"

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Lets all just have an orgy "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"many online persona will say they would date who they may shag on here...

once the off button is clicked, I would suggest significantly less would actually do it.

"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

"

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"many online persona will say they would date who they may shag on here...

once the off button is clicked, I would suggest significantly less would actually do it.

"

If I hadn't of met my FWB through here I'd definitely date him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile. "

I'm a single female so therefore I'm not in a relationship. If I was in a relationship then I'm exclusive, I did just say that.

I also said that I don't count it as wrong, it's just not something I would engage in myself as I don't fully understand it.

Surely if I fucked about with married or attached men and still had that opinion then that would make me the hypocrite. Having an opinion that does not match yours does not make me a hypocrite.

And I didn't say I was a traditionalist when it comes to sex in general I said I was regarding monogamy within a loving relationship.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

[Removed by poster at 18/02/14 11:30:06]

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile.

I'm a single female so therefore I'm not in a relationship. If I was in a relationship then I'm exclusive, I did just say that.

I also said that I don't count it as wrong, it's just not something I would engage in myself as I don't fully understand it.

Surely if I fucked about with married or attached men and still had that opinion then that would make me the hypocrite. Having an opinion that does not match yours does not make me a hypocrite.

And I didn't say I was a traditionalist when it comes to sex in general I said I was regarding monogamy within a loving relationship."

Being a hypocrite is about not approving of couples who swing because of traditional values. This is quite simply because traditional values encompasses single people who should save themselves for the special one.

I can't see how I can make my point more clear?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought "

It's honestly a good question and something I've had to think about a lot.

I always ask, I have to trust the persons response as I have no reason not to trust them.

If afterwards I find out it was a lie then obviously I'd feel bad. However I did the right thing by myself to ask and can't really do more than that.

I'd hope that guys would respect my preferences and respect me enough to be honest.

Sadly I don't think it'll always be the case.

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'd have no interest in dating the younger guys I meet, I'd feel daft, but we have a scream in private and I am happy to spend plenty of time with them and see them regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile.

I'm a single female so therefore I'm not in a relationship. If I was in a relationship then I'm exclusive, I did just say that.

I also said that I don't count it as wrong, it's just not something I would engage in myself as I don't fully understand it.

Surely if I fucked about with married or attached men and still had that opinion then that would make me the hypocrite. Having an opinion that does not match yours does not make me a hypocrite.

And I didn't say I was a traditionalist when it comes to sex in general I said I was regarding monogamy within a loving relationship.

Being a hypocrite is about not approving of couples who swing because of traditional values. This is quite simply because traditional values encompasses single people who should save themselves for the special one.

I can't see how I can make my point more clear?

"

How can you put swinging couples in the same box as a single person having sex before they are married??

Quite frankly I'm confused by your thinking on that one.

Being monogamous within a relationship is so totally different then to the topic of sex before marriage, they aren't even remotely related!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Crikey

All this and on a Tuesday morning!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Crikey

All this and on a Tuesday morning! "

I was kind of thinking the same, he only asked if any curvy ladies over a size 20 were interested in meeting lol

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

Absolutely - and sometimes people get a little caught up in the boundaries between dating and NSA. I can see and understand how the boundaries can blur if you meet somebody off here and really start to like them, that you might want to date them. Sometimes a shag can lead to a relationship and sometimes it is the other way round.

The bottom line is though that we meet people for different reasons in different contexts and we form"relationships" in the very lose sense of the word. The problem arises when the two parties concerned have different expectations of that"relationship" ie if is for NSA or more.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile.

I'm a single female so therefore I'm not in a relationship. If I was in a relationship then I'm exclusive, I did just say that.

I also said that I don't count it as wrong, it's just not something I would engage in myself as I don't fully understand it.

Surely if I fucked about with married or attached men and still had that opinion then that would make me the hypocrite. Having an opinion that does not match yours does not make me a hypocrite.

And I didn't say I was a traditionalist when it comes to sex in general I said I was regarding monogamy within a loving relationship.

Being a hypocrite is about not approving of couples who swing because of traditional values. This is quite simply because traditional values encompasses single people who should save themselves for the special one.

I can't see how I can make my point more clear?

How can you put swinging couples in the same box as a single person having sex before they are married??

Quite frankly I'm confused by your thinking on that one.

Being monogamous within a relationship is so totally different then to the topic of sex before marriage, they aren't even remotely related!"

Don't worry about it

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought "
Very very true and good question. I would never knowingly meet an attached person for sex - and I try my best to establish whether they are attached or not. Incidentally, I have no issues with anybody meeting anybody and doing what they like... it is just that I would not want to be involved at whatever level if there is an element of secrecy involved.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought Very very true and good question. I would never knowingly meet an attached person for sex - and I try my best to establish whether they are attached or not. Incidentally, I have no issues with anybody meeting anybody and doing what they like... it is just that I would not want to be involved at whatever level if there is an element of secrecy involved. "

Exactly my point! What other ppl want to do is up to them but my own opinions mean I wouldn't get involved in that.

Thank you for explaining it so much better than I could!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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^^^ i did say half not all the ladies who ask for bbc

Yes I know you did, just making a point that we aren't all the same.

It's why I don't get the whole cuckold thing. If you like black men then date/marry one. Don't marry a white guy and then humiliate the size of his dick and expect him to be happy watching you fuck black guys....crazy!!

With your logic, where do you draw the line?

We met a couple on the weekend where the female does not do anal sex so the male visits a female occasionally for his anal pleasures. Should he leave his wife for his anal fuck buddy?

My personal opinion is that I don't get that either.

I like nsa fun, hence why i'm here but I guess when it comes to relationships I'm very traditional in the sense that you make compromises in all aspects of your life together.

If you read my profile it specifically states I don't meet attached men or couples.

I don't think it right to engage in sexual activity in a situation that I don't fully understand or agree with, therefore I don't do it.

It is just my opinion, I don't judge anyone, I have friends I've met at clubs who are couples, i'm just not going to be a hypocrite.

I respect your opinion but don't agree. By using this logic, surely you feel no couples should swing at all?

Whether it be a female half who enjoys black men with husband present, or a male half who visits a single female for anal sex or even couples who full swap with other couples?

If you really read my response that is exactly what I'm saying. My personal opinion is that I don't get the whole couple thing.

I'm not being judgemental as we all have our kinks and preferences, myself included.

I'm traditional and if i'm in a relationship I'm exclusive so that's just how I see things.

Under no circumstances am I saying they are WRONG though coz it's their choice and their relationship at the end of the day and if they are happy then that's all that matters

I did really read your post and respect your right to an opinion but totally disagree.

You are basically saying that swinging is wring for couples because you are a traditionalist.

If we use the traditionalist mindset then surely you would save yourself for a special person and not swing yourself?

I sense a bit of hypocrisy?

I am also concious that I'm being quite harsh towards you when there are worse posts on here. You are being honest and you have a great profile.

I'm a single female so therefore I'm not in a relationship. If I was in a relationship then I'm exclusive, I did just say that.

I also said that I don't count it as wrong, it's just not something I would engage in myself as I don't fully understand it.

Surely if I fucked about with married or attached men and still had that opinion then that would make me the hypocrite. Having an opinion that does not match yours does not make me a hypocrite.

And I didn't say I was a traditionalist when it comes to sex in general I said I was regarding monogamy within a loving relationship.

Being a hypocrite is about not approving of couples who swing because of traditional values. This is quite simply because traditional values encompasses single people who should save themselves for the special one.

I can't see how I can make my point more clear?

How can you put swinging couples in the same box as a single person having sex before they are married??

Quite frankly I'm confused by your thinking on that one.

Being monogamous within a relationship is so totally different then to the topic of sex before marriage, they aren't even remotely related!

Don't worry about it "

Don't worry I'm not!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought

It's honestly a good question and something I've had to think about a lot.

I always ask, I have to trust the persons response as I have no reason not to trust them.

If afterwards I find out it was a lie then obviously I'd feel bad. However I did the right thing by myself to ask and can't really do more than that.

I'd hope that guys would respect my preferences and respect me enough to be honest.

Sadly I don't think it'll always be the case."

think in reality its often not the case However its just NSA sex after all? Do you feel as a single woman that NSA sex is any different in your eyes than it is for a couple?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Crikey

All this and on a Tuesday morning! "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Well this thread turned out to be rather different than what the OP expected....

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By *risky_MareWoman  over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

The bottom line is though that we meet people for different reasons in different contexts and we form"relationships" in the very lose sense of the word. The problem arises when the two parties concerned have different expectations of that"relationship" ie if is for NSA or more. "

Yes, I have had problems there with guys suggesting/pretending they want a lot more than nsa after we have met, and I wish they'd just be straight. As long as everyone is honest about what they want from each other, it all works!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought

It's honestly a good question and something I've had to think about a lot.

I always ask, I have to trust the persons response as I have no reason not to trust them.

If afterwards I find out it was a lie then obviously I'd feel bad. However I did the right thing by myself to ask and can't really do more than that.

I'd hope that guys would respect my preferences and respect me enough to be honest.

Sadly I don't think it'll always be the case. think in reality its often not the case However its just NSA sex after all? Do you feel as a single woman that NSA sex is any different in your eyes than it is for a couple? "

Yes in a way. I have no other person to consider other than myself when it comes to who I meet and when. As a couple there has to be discussions on boundaries and limits and if you only play together etc. That won't usually be a one time conversation as those goal posts might change over time.

I think as a couple there has to be a lot of trust in your partner and even yourself that it would remain as a NSA arrangement, i've no idea at all but sadly that might not always be the case either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Crikey. I hope this not fucking unless you are willing to date thing stays within reasonable bounds, otherwise I am going to end up so un-fucked "

haha.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Both men and women say they want more in order to get a shag...I don't believe the promise the world bollocks after all promises are comfort to a fool. I take people at face value and always honest in my expectations of what im seeking. I don't want anyone to promise me the world to get in my knickers...All I ask for is respect and a good time.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have had sex with women who I wouldn't want a long term relationship with.

Some are too young, I work away and some have the distance problem, some speak another language! There's lots of reasons someone may choose to have sex with someone that they wouldn't necessarily date.

Isn't that what nsa sex is about?

This "

This from me too

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought

It's honestly a good question and something I've had to think about a lot.

I always ask, I have to trust the persons response as I have no reason not to trust them.

If afterwards I find out it was a lie then obviously I'd feel bad. However I did the right thing by myself to ask and can't really do more than that.

I'd hope that guys would respect my preferences and respect me enough to be honest.

Sadly I don't think it'll always be the case. think in reality its often not the case However its just NSA sex after all? Do you feel as a single woman that NSA sex is any different in your eyes than it is for a couple?

Yes in a way. I have no other person to consider other than myself when it comes to who I meet and when. As a couple there has to be discussions on boundaries and limits and if you only play together etc. That won't usually be a one time conversation as those goal posts might change over time.

I think as a couple there has to be a lot of trust in your partner and even yourself that it would remain as a NSA arrangement, i've no idea at all but sadly that might not always be the case either."

yes agree! Not always the case and have seen first hand how issues have caused probs ( am a people watcher! lol ) trust is deff the key plus a communication level that is on top form, between couples ( us and friends we know well) Think mutual respect also goes hand in hand with it all. However.... Trust is built up, we take people as they are, and don't do Drama or bullshit! Been very lucky to have met some fantastic people and NSA doesn't mean manners and respect aint high on the adenda! We deff give both and expect that in return

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Lets all just have an orgy "

I'll bring the lube

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" How do you know they are not married or attached? Just a thought

It's honestly a good question and something I've had to think about a lot.

I always ask, I have to trust the persons response as I have no reason not to trust them.

If afterwards I find out it was a lie then obviously I'd feel bad. However I did the right thing by myself to ask and can't really do more than that.

I'd hope that guys would respect my preferences and respect me enough to be honest.

Sadly I don't think it'll always be the case. think in reality its often not the case However its just NSA sex after all? Do you feel as a single woman that NSA sex is any different in your eyes than it is for a couple?

Yes in a way. I have no other person to consider other than myself when it comes to who I meet and when. As a couple there has to be discussions on boundaries and limits and if you only play together etc. That won't usually be a one time conversation as those goal posts might change over time.

I think as a couple there has to be a lot of trust in your partner and even yourself that it would remain as a NSA arrangement, i've no idea at all but sadly that might not always be the case either. yes agree! Not always the case and have seen first hand how issues have caused probs ( am a people watcher! lol ) trust is deff the key plus a communication level that is on top form, between couples ( us and friends we know well) Think mutual respect also goes hand in hand with it all. However.... Trust is built up, we take people as they are, and don't do Drama or bullshit! Been very lucky to have met some fantastic people and NSA doesn't mean manners and respect aint high on the adenda! We deff give both and expect that in return "

As long as a couple is genuinely happy and comfortable with their choices and ultimately their relationship then there is no harm.

I just wouldn't choose to involve myself with a couple or attached man.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmm sounds like something I would say but don't remember

I'm sure it was you. In which case count me out. I'd not fuck anyone who told me I'm too large to date."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, this turned into a pretty interesting thread. "

Speaks volumes, doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, this turned into a pretty interesting thread.

Speaks volumes, doesn't it? "

Too much for me to read now but I think everything was covered

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is why I love the forums. Things get twisted and spun so much that they end up on a completely different topic than when it started.

Love people's opinions too and how some get so frustrated and argumentative over trivial comments.

Love this site so much sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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Are you here for dating?!! Most you're meets wouldn't date you and yet you had sex with them. ffsDo you know this lady personally ?do you know her meets personally ? Unbelievable statement !!!

Are you saying you should only have sex with people you would consider as dating metetial?"

The person that this is aimed at as said they would only fuck guys that would have a relationship with her....work the above out....

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

I read VV's comments ( and others) as....if you wouldn't be seen dead with a larger woman outside of swinging then you can't possibly fancy them enough so you wouldn't get near me on that basis ........and I can understand that as it could mean it wouldn't matter what you look like as long as you have somewhere for me to poke.

But there are people about who will say what you want to hear to get what they want so that person you meet could be knocking one out thinking of the slim girl they couldn't have anyway.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Mr Spank if you read the ladies profile you will see she clearly states shes not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive,what im sure the lady is looking for is someone whos both physically and sexually attracted to her enough to want to have fun with her and not someone whos going to do it because its been offered and they are horny so just go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mr Spank if you read the ladies profile you will see she clearly states shes not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive,what im sure the lady is looking for is someone whos both physically and sexually attracted to her enough to want to have fun with her and not someone whos going to do it because its been offered and they are horny so just go for it."
I have no need to read the said persons profile as she is not my type

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mr Spank if you read the ladies profile you will see she clearly states shes not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive,what im sure the lady is looking for is someone whos both physically and sexually attracted to her enough to want to have fun with her and not someone whos going to do it because its been offered and they are horny so just go for it."

Tgat's fair enough but this guy is wanting to fulfil a sexual fantasy which is what this site is for. Its not his fault if some woman feel bad about their own shape and get so sensitive about it and put the blame on him. Uf you want to have sex with someone who'd look at you as a dating material this is the wrong place to fund it.

From what I come across, 100% of cpls who are specifically looking for a BBC their parthners are white and none has complaibed about it or interpreted it as an insult.

This guy obviously said in a previous thread that his type for dating is under certaib size. Now there was an attempt to trap him from his tongue and turn hus fantasy thread into a nightnare. Hence why I posted.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe the OP likes to take his dates running or fen walking. I'd have a heart attack if I did that. Actually I can't even dance all night any more. He could be into salsa dancing or swing dancing. I'd like to see him swing my fat bod over his head

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Mr Spank if you read the ladies profile you will see she clearly states shes not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive,what im sure the lady is looking for is someone whos both physically and sexually attracted to her enough to want to have fun with her and not someone whos going to do it because its been offered and they are horny so just go for it. I have no need to read the said persons profile as she is not my type "
you obviously do as you see confused what the lady is looking for

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

one of my strongest memories of the chat rooms was it being akin to a feeding frenzy at times, a 'hot' new member would join and the regulars would swarm him/her.... the warring women desperate to bag the trophy over her rivals.

On a good few occasions, once the guy got the green tick and became more popular, the less attractive ladies verifications were no longer displayed.

it is what it is... a game with little rules.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mr Spank if you read the ladies profile you will see she clearly states shes not looking for a relationship or anything exclusive,what im sure the lady is looking for is someone whos both physically and sexually attracted to her enough to want to have fun with her and not someone whos going to do it because its been offered and they are horny so just go for it.

Tgat's fair enough but this guy is wanting to fulfil a sexual fantasy which is what this site is for. Its not his fault if some woman feel bad about their own shape and get so sensitive about it and put the blame on him. Uf you want to have sex with someone who'd look at you as a dating material this is the wrong place to fund it.

From what I come across, 100% of cpls who are specifically looking for a BBC their parthners are white and none has complaibed about it or interpreted it as an insult.

This guy obviously said in a previous thread that his type for dating is under certaib size. Now there was an attempt to trap him from his tongue and turn hus fantasy thread into a nightnare. Hence why I posted. "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman  over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"one of my strongest memories of the chat rooms was it being akin to a feeding frenzy at times, a 'hot' new member would join and the regulars would swarm him/her.... the warring women desperate to bag the trophy over her rivals.

On a good few occasions, once the guy got the green tick and became more popular, the less attractive ladies verifications were no longer displayed.

it is what it is... a game with little rules.

"

Nail firmly on the head _iew

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"one of my strongest memories of the chat rooms was it being akin to a feeding frenzy at times, a 'hot' new member would join and the regulars would swarm him/her.... the warring women desperate to bag the trophy over her rivals.

On a good few occasions, once the guy got the green tick and became more popular, the less attractive ladies verifications were no longer displayed.

it is what it is... a game with little rules.

"

There you go!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Anyone not willing to date a swinger or someone who enjoys no strings sex is likely to be too uptight for me.

Life provides some very convenient filters sometimes

I cannot understand how enjoying nsa sex would make someone uptight?

It's difficult for me to understand how someone who is active on this site would enjoy Fab if they do not like some aspects of nsa sex.

What do you think most people are looking for on here?"

Trouble mostly

Sure ain't the meaning of life although you can have an experience that makes you feel a bit closer to the almighty. I've said God and Jesus a lot.

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By *ornyspunkMan  over a year ago

trucking all over

I would like a 20+ fem or 20-

Happy with either

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's a jungle out there people. Do what's right for you in the moment and enjoy it for what it is.

There's no right or wrong here. If you don't want the truth its better not to ask the question.

Whatever has been said, I believe most people will only have sex with someone they find attractive in the moment. My _iew is enjoy the moment to the full, anything else is a bonus.

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