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When you walk in a room of strangers....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can do both, read the situation.
If theres a big personality i can sit quietly or join in appropriately, but also confident and can spring to life to liven up a situation without the ability to piss people off
I adapt well |
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over a year ago
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"in work: a mix of them both
socially: the latter, I would need to suss people out first."
That's like me. My job demands being 'on stage' but when I get the chance I like to observe before making my move. I was more extrovert when I was younger though...so it's changed over time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. I'm quite shy to begin with, especially with people i don't know. I like to suss people out first. But, i love a good laugh. So, i may have to start picking on them about something lol
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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Walking into a room full of strangers is great fun, love meeting new people and making friends, strangers are just friends you have not met yet!
DS x " Thats a very good attitude, but some people are naturally shy. |
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"..do you command attention or do you prefer to slip under the radar?
It varies for me...
Sometimes I like to come in and just observe who's there and their behaviour. "
I do not command attention I am far too short for anyone to notice me so I stand and scan the room then make a bee line for a fit sexy, tall shy guy standing in the corner, nursing his drink! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The reaction I get depends on my mood at the time. If I'm feeling happy and sociable I'm quick to engage with strangers. If I'm preferring to keep a low profile I do so just as easily.
Rather than necessarily having an immediate impact on the whole group, I tend to connect one on one, or one on a few at a time. People tend to remember me, because I make a point of getting to know something of them, including their name, and I get off on making them smile. It's nice to be nice. |
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"I slip in under the radar ........... but sadly the radar always kicks back and something happens and ............ well you all know the rest lol "
Yeah!!! we do...and we run the other way or...run to danger errmmmm to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I slip in under the radar ........... but sadly the radar always kicks back and something happens and ............ well you all know the rest lol
Yeah!!! we do...and we run the other way or...run to danger errmmmm to you "
yep normally all together !!! |
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"I slip in under the radar ........... but sadly the radar always kicks back and something happens and ............ well you all know the rest lol
Yeah!!! we do...and we run the other way or...run to danger errmmmm to you
yep normally all together !!! "
Dont you ever get tired of attracting mayhem when you walk into a room??? |
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"I like to get noticed when I walk in a room. Unless Minxie is there, then anything can happen "
hear hear!!! we all hide and wait for the oven to blow up, the waiter to strip off, the cooler to explode and the choux pastry to blow up in everybody's face!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I slip in under the radar ........... but sadly the radar always kicks back and something happens and ............ well you all know the rest lol
Yeah!!! we do...and we run the other way or...run to danger errmmmm to you
yep normally all together !!!
Dont you ever get tired of attracting mayhem when you walk into a room??? "
I try really hard just to walk in and act normally but it just sooo never happens and .... when I am with you all from here it just seems to multiply itself ........ |
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"..do you command attention or do you prefer to slip under the radar?
It varies for me...
Sometimes I like to come in and just observe who's there and their behaviour. "
People watching
I usually get a lot of attention but not for the right reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Walking into a room full of strangers is great fun, love meeting new people and making friends, strangers are just friends you have not met yet!
DS x "
+1 |
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"I slip in under the radar ........... but sadly the radar always kicks back and something happens and ............ well you all know the rest lol
Yeah!!! we do...and we run the other way or...run to danger errmmmm to you
yep normally all together !!!
Dont you ever get tired of attracting mayhem when you walk into a room???
I try really hard just to walk in and act normally but it just sooo never happens and .... when I am with you all from here it just seems to multiply itself ........ "
Dont you try and blame us....we all know who the devil is!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've ordered a padded cell for you Minxie. You will love it, its got fire retardant walls! AND oven proof mitts!! xxx "
am I allowed
a) visitors of my choice?
b) treats n stuff I want?
c) unlimited massages and pampering?
d) a chef on hand for tasty meals?
and anything else I like and want when I think of it .......... if so I AM IN!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've ordered a padded cell for you Minxie. You will love it, its got fire retardant walls! AND oven proof mitts!! xxx
am I allowed
a) visitors of my choice?
b) treats n stuff I want?
c) unlimited massages and pampering?
d) a chef on hand for tasty meals?
and anything else I like and want when I think of it .......... if so I AM IN!!!!! "
You are NOT allowed a toaster |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've ordered a padded cell for you Minxie. You will love it, its got fire retardant walls! AND oven proof mitts!! xxx
am I allowed
a) visitors of my choice?
b) treats n stuff I want?
c) unlimited massages and pampering?
d) a chef on hand for tasty meals?
and anything else I like and want when I think of it .......... if so I AM IN!!!!!
You are NOT allowed a toaster "
I didnt ask for one!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Invisible in the corner people watching. If there's someone I want to chat to I force myself to go chat to them because it's very rare anyone would come talk to me.
If they look bored out of their skull I just disappear into the crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Invisible in the corner people watching. If there's someone I want to chat to I force myself to go chat to them because it's very rare anyone would come talk to me.
If they look bored out of their skull I just disappear into the crowd. "
that is sooo not true - u r noticed and lovely |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
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The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he |
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"Invisible in the corner people watching. If there's someone I want to chat to I force myself to go chat to them because it's very rare anyone would come talk to me.
If they look bored out of their skull I just disappear into the crowd. "
Can we disappear together...in a land of far far away? |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he "
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
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Still recovering??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on which room, sometimes it's a dramatic entrance, sometimes slip in quietly and hide behind the curtains.
If Minxie is there we never enter until 15 minutes later, it's unsafe until the debris settles |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering??? "
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me! |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering??? "
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering???
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me!"
it might save my arse if you do!!!!! lol |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering???
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me!
it might save my arse if you do!!!!! lol "
NOTHING can save your ARSE!!! Not even Clever Trevor! But I feel kind tonight so.....here is a little slap on that wonderful rump! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering???
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me!
it might save my arse if you do!!!!! lol
NOTHING can save your ARSE!!! Not even Clever Trevor! But I feel kind tonight so.....here is a little slap on that wonderful rump! "
Little had better have been the operative word there ... I felt your hand before |
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering???
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me!
it might save my arse if you do!!!!! lol
NOTHING can save your ARSE!!! Not even Clever Trevor! But I feel kind tonight so.....here is a little slap on that wonderful rump!
Little had better have been the operative word there ... I felt your hand before "
I was only playing bongo's at the time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"blend... offer seat... blend... change seat again.... blend.... change seat again....
The Ostrich trick only works once!!! Raise your head...face the boobs and go with the flow...your mind is not longer your own once you've walked into that 'room'....You have been warned! he he
Still recovering???
Dont want to hijack thread... pm me!
it might save my arse if you do!!!!! lol
NOTHING can save your ARSE!!! Not even Clever Trevor! But I feel kind tonight so.....here is a little slap on that wonderful rump!
Little had better have been the operative word there ... I felt your hand before
I was only playing bongo's at the time! "
nope u never got me like u did them ... u snucked up behind me and whacked it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try and hide ASAP as I get very nervous......saying that not been to a club for 5 years, considering dipping the toes back in but the hairs on my arms stand up just thinking about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In total defense of me .... the last Club I attended have personally invited me back again ... and that is with them knowing about the toaster as well!!!! |
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"Try and hide ASAP as I get very nervous......saying that not been to a club for 5 years, considering dipping the toes back in but the hairs on my arms stand up just thinking about it."
*whispers...28th june at Jaydees* make your entrance in Masquerade style he he! Xx |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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In a work situation I often have to be the centre of attention.
In a social situation I prefer to greet people individually and just mix with small groups. I am too short and deaf see and hear what is being said or happening.
I am sociable but not Ta Dah! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends where I am, who I'm with and the situation. If I feel comfortable with the people, around me I can get quite giddy! And a little lairy. The other half often has to slap me to keep me in order! |
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I vary, I'm a bit of an attention whore so frequently expect people to be giving me their attention - probably my insecurities or neediness. If I'm tired, then slipping in would be preferable, unless I know most of the people and some smiles would be uplifting.
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's odd with me - when I'm on duty I can walk into a room and take command immediately. When I'm not working, I'm petrified of rooms full of people and will not go in unless forced too - I am koinoniphobic/agoraphobic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in work: a mix of them both
socially: the latter, I would need to suss people out first."
I do this I like to figure people out before saying much to anybody |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's odd with me - when I'm on duty I can walk into a room and take command immediately. When I'm not working, I'm petrified of rooms full of people and will not go in unless forced too - I am koinoniphobic/agoraphobic."
Im what she said lol.
Have to talk presentation style to hundreds of people every year and they're strangers. Have no fear of delivering information for several hours with no notes, getting to know them, making jokes and taking control.
Socially totally the opposite of it involves large numbers. I shake!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try and hide ASAP as I get very nervous......saying that not been to a club for 5 years, considering dipping the toes back in but the hairs on my arms stand up just thinking about it.
*whispers...28th june at Jaydees* make your entrance in Masquerade style he he! Xx"
Lol, I don't think anyone else heard you.
I'll have a look at that........thank you |
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"Try and hide ASAP as I get very nervous......saying that not been to a club for 5 years, considering dipping the toes back in but the hairs on my arms stand up just thinking about it.
*whispers...28th june at Jaydees* make your entrance in Masquerade style he he! Xx
Lol, I don't think anyone else heard you.
I'll have a look at that........thank you "
Please do...and you know you want to make an entrance...don't you!! I'll be the shy one holding onto the DJ hoping for 'voulez-vous aha...' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it totally depends on my mood. Sometimes I can feel high in self esteem and be happy to be centre of attention.
Other times I'm can be shy and slide under the radar. It normally eases and I settle into the crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try and hide ASAP as I get very nervous......saying that not been to a club for 5 years, considering dipping the toes back in but the hairs on my arms stand up just thinking about it.
*whispers...28th june at Jaydees* make your entrance in Masquerade style he he! Xx
Lol, I don't think anyone else heard you.
I'll have a look at that........thank you
Please do...and you know you want to make an entrance...don't you!! I'll be the shy one holding onto the DJ hoping for 'voulez-vous aha...' "
Being Alan Partridges second biggest fan, I'll be looking forward to that too!
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I am really keen on being there I tend to be a little shy and want to slip in without fuss strangely if its somewhere I am not really bothered about being I make much more of an entrance. |
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