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over a year ago
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"Is it just me or is there anything wrong with been totally honest on here. Im starting to think NOT.............. but thats not me ."
There is a large portion of smoke and mirrors on here and in the main its acceptable. There is a lack of honest on age, location names, size, sexual past, history of safe play and many other elements. BUT and its a big but there is a lot of it in life in general if you think about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better to be honest and let people make an informed choice. More chance than someone covering up their extra marital status and then getting found out later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont think being honest can ever be wrong..
sometimes people say white lies in order to protect others feelings though, deception by not telling someone something which might be in their best interests might be wrong though |
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Id like to say im honest on here but i can't.
I can't even remember where it is that fabs has me listed as living without checking my own profile.
That's for my own peace of mind though. Other than that, what you see is what you get  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or is there anything wrong with been totally honest on here. Im starting to think NOT.............. but thats not me ."
People aren't its sad at times but there is little you can do about it just learn to spot deception early.
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I am a 47 years old larger lady and I have pics to prove it, so for me there isn't anything to hide.
People will be dishonest because over a keyboard you can be whoever you fancy being, some it will catch them out if they get meets, some will never meet and don't intend to so they can keep up the pretence.
There are always people that will meet people no matter what
age/size/race/height so I never really get the whole telling lies thing  |
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It's not just honesty about who you are, it's honesty in dealing with people too - being open about what you want and how you feel on an ongoing basis. I wish the culture of 'Say whatever you think she wants to hear' could be discarded more fully on here - and I don't just mean 'to get into her knickers' I mean on an ongoing basis.
Just don't bullshit me, I don't need the angst of trying to interpret all the time! |
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"Is it just me or is there anything wrong with been totally honest on here. Im starting to think NOT.............. but thats not me ."
Am I to assume you're referring to the fact women are not buying the married but playing with permission statement on your profile, choosing instead uncomplicated fun with single guys hmmmm?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have never been anything other than honest. It makes life so much simpler and a lot more fun.
Try it - it might surprise you. X"
I have always been honest when talking to people. I'm not on here for single guys......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you honest in rejecting people..
There are ways of saying things without causing offence.
A simple np thanks there's no attraction is enough.
Are you rude to people. |
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