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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not sure if I am alone but I find that 80% of planned socials don't happen as they either cancel or go awol once realising that it will be a social and I won't guarantee dropping my knickers. (usually the unverified guys)
I know that when arranging sex parties many may invite 20 in the hope that 5 will turn up. How many of you on here arrange to meet more than one guy at a time for a social meaning one may go through with it and turn up? Is this acceptable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only used to arrange socials if I was already going to be somewhere - either lunchtime or straight after work.
That way if someone wasn't to show (it never happened!  ) it was no biggie!!
Doubt it would have gone down well if I'd invited more than one - but could have been interesting!! |
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When I arrange to meet... It will always be somewhere public for a drink first time, with the understanding that nothing is guaranteed but happy to have fun that night if both / all happy to do so.
I wouldn't even think of 'double booking' this in case someone didn't show.... although I've never had a no show in a 1to1 situation.
When I organise a party... If I want 20 people, I invite about 30.. Usually get around 20 turning up. I had a very busy house the one time everyone I invited did show lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My idea is quite tongue in cheek but it was an idea I had after yet another cancellation.
Sods law all of them would turn up. Could just imagine the situation
I make it clear my first meet will just be a social, I no longer put myself out too much or travel due to the bottlers which ruins it for the genuine guys.
The bottlers then start moaning they can't get meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm completely new to all of this and have to say nervous for my first meet!! Hopefully something like a meet at there/her place or a social meet but certainly won't be bottling it!!! Risk is part of the fun nerves to positives! |
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At one time it was fairly common for a few guys to be invited to meet socially in one go... especially if the likelihood was more than a 1-2-1 was going to be arranged.
It gave guys a chance to get to feel a bit more comfortable with each other in case two or more were invited around sometime.
Having said that it wasn't unheard of for more than one woman to be invited there either.... two birds, one stone and all that.
The trouble is, now so many seem to be looking for nothing more than a bit of vanilla 1-2-1.... or worse still to be the apple of someone's eye.
When arranging such things in the past, I have found myself being at the least weary of any guy who claimed to be into the swinging scene who got uppity about a social meeting with other guys there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'd like to arrange a mmf so would invite both guys to meet at the same time but there appears to be an influx of bottlers so not sure it will happen. |
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i would for you
