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hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? ive made suggestions but her answers give the impression of she wants me to decide everything...and im clueless haha help please haha all ideas welcome but any that are local...ish to rochdale are extra welcome :D |
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over a year ago
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A walk around local parks, beauty spots, country parks followed by a Sunday Lunch somewhere nice and warm?
Will give the two of you time and space to talk to each other. |
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over a year ago
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"i did suggest a meal but the question would be where to go...but another problem i personally have for this kinda thing is also the what to wear issue haha"
Buy a dog, less decisions to make and they're simpler to please. |
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funny you should mention signing her up here...showed a pic of her to the only actual friend i met off here and she thinks shes seen her on here before...i doubt it but who knows. oh and wouldnt want a dog for my love life thanks :P |
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"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? "
Mcdonalds ftw  |
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"Shes already decided that drinking isnt really gonna happen on first date...that was my first idea"
well why don't you go somewhere that's a combination of the two, somewhere that's nice to eat but also has a good bar scene. |
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"Nope no condoms as that aint gonna happen...not even sure I will go as far as a kiss on first date"
You judge the mood and if it's right have a kiss, doesn't have to be full on tongues lol  |
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some really great suggestions :D thanks :D you have no idea how much this is helping  i just need to find a decent place thats local enough. after this it should become at least a lil easier as its not just my first date with her...in reality its my first date...ever |
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"some really great suggestions :D thanks :D you have no idea how much this is helping i just need to find a decent place thats local enough. after this it should become at least a lil easier as its not just my first date with her...in reality its my first date...ever"
awww . best of luck mate .. just ve yourself and it will go fine .. ask your date what she wants .. be attentive . keep the conversation simple and listen . then listen some more |
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I think it all depends when the date is, if it's an evening date then you don't really have many options really but pictures or a bite to eat, if it's a day time meet a nice walk round hollingworth lake and they into the fish for a bit of pub grub and a nice chat |
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ok i found a place on the lake but its not italian...it seems nice but they recommended a different place not to far away from them that is italian and owned by the same company...it also seems like the better quality and more romantic place as well but it lacks the romanticness of the lake. not sure which of the 2 to go for now  romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant. |
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"ok i found a place on the lake but its not italian...it seems nice but they recommended a different place not to far away from them that is italian and owned by the same company...it also seems like the better quality and more romantic place as well but it lacks the romanticness of the lake. not sure which of the 2 to go for now romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant."
Splash out and take her for a long weekend to Lake Como. It will be worth it.
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"ok i found a place on the lake but its not italian...it seems nice but they recommended a different place not to far away from them that is italian and owned by the same company...it also seems like the better quality and more romantic place as well but it lacks the romanticness of the lake. not sure which of the 2 to go for now romantic lake or fave food and romantic restaurant."
Go with the fave food |
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really? i never thought of a zoo as a prime date location before...it always seemed more like a place to take kids to stop them being brats for a day...as far as i can tell...but as far as i know no there isnt one nearby |
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"really? i never thought of a zoo as a prime date location before...it always seemed more like a place to take kids to stop them being brats for a day...as far as i can tell...but as far as i know no there isnt one nearby"
They're often, but not always, a Primate location.
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I love that your asking! You need to be able to talk- laugh as well if possible! Believe it or not the zoo is a great day time date. It gives you something to talk about if nothing else.
If its evening then let her decide between the lake (more romantic) or the Italian (fav food) it shows her you've thought about it & what she would like. Offer your preference- shows you're decisive but care about her opinion. |
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By *eamgbukCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? "
Up the arse! |
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and what can i say? im asking because i want it to go perfect :D so any and all input is welcome...just a shame i know that there are always some people that dont take it seriously and give annoying answers...but easy enough to ignore them |
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"hmm ok so a girl from work is trying to set me up with a friend of hers...and is going rather well i guess as the "first date" is happening soon. any idea where to take her? ive made suggestions but her answers give the impression of she wants me to decide everything...and im clueless haha help please haha all ideas welcome but any that are local...ish to rochdale are extra welcome :D"
I like to take a girl to a comedy club for first date. Enough breaks to chat have drinks etc but it also takes a huge pressure off me to bring my A game.
After it always gives us topics to talk about and generally are both in a good mood! |
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