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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Mums thay can be a pain in the bum when you are a kid but as you grow up you realise thay are your best friend. Thay will forgive you no matter how many times u mess up. Always give her a kiss and a huge and tell her you love her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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mine left when i was 5, but my stepmother and i now trust each other totally.
was not so good at first, lol, evil stepmom syndrome, well in my mind.
did not realise the sh*t my real mum had left my dad in (debts etc). see thread on being poor for other details lol. |
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"Mums thay can be a pain in the bum when you are a kid but as you grow up you realise thay are your best friend. Thay will forgive you no matter how many times u mess up. Always give her a kiss and a huge and tell her you love her. "
wholeheartedly agree and if only then i would..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum is really old school, old fashioned but moves with the times.
She is a best mate to me I can tell her anything " as such" lol.
I'm doing the same with my daughter, we " are mates" but she still knows I'm her mother, so if I get firm she knows who is boss.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i hope i already am my daughters best friend..
and me and my own mum have had tough times but we are like an elastic band.. no matter how much we get stretch we always come back to normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I no longer have my mum... But my kids tell me I'm cool, although should grow up and settle down, and if they are as fun as me at my age they will be happy.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wish my so called mother fitted that description 
I am however trying my best to achieve this for my own daughter. how old is she
Teenager "
teenager god help u thay think thay know everything lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i hope i already am my daughters best friend..
and me and my own mum have had tough times but we are like an elastic band.. no matter how much we get stretch we always come back to normal "
that's a really nice quote |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My mum and I have had a fairly tempestuous relationship over the years. But the last few months have seen things change, she is my best friend.
I don't understand why women can abandon their children, but kudos goes to those who step into a stepmother role and succeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having lost my mum and dad, I'm glad I have such good memories to keep hold of and very much feel sad for those who don't have a good relationship with their parents.
My kids and I have a really good relationship  |
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My mum is the most amazing woman I know...if I'm half the mum to my kids when I have them that my mum was to us I'd be happy. My mum has been my rock through some dark moment...My dad well he fucking rocks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mine left when i was 5, but my stepmother and i now trust each other totally.
was not so good at first, lol, evil stepmom syndrome, well in my mind.
did not realise the sh*t my real mum had left my dad in (debts etc). see thread on being poor for other details lol."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"mine left when i was 5, but my stepmother and i now trust each other totally.
was not so good at first, lol, evil stepmom syndrome, well in my mind.
did not realise the sh*t my real mum had left my dad in (debts etc). see thread on being poor for other details lol."
Re the stepmum bit x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Mums are human beings with the same insecurities and emotions as anybody else. That said the mother child bond, which is ideally about total trust and acceptance, can and should withstand some serious challenges as children grow up.
I d like to think that it is a life long bond and judging by the way I am with my own mother and in turn how my kids are with me... it will last a life time, with ups and downs, but ultimately one of the strongest, if not THE strongest bonds I have experienced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They can be hard work at times lol lol - you do have a point
But i still love her lol Absolutely! It is part of the relationship - love does not mean you always see eye to eye or never fall out "
Cant live with them and cant live with out them lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They can be hard work at times lol lol - you do have a point
But i still love her lol Absolutely! It is part of the relationship - love does not mean you always see eye to eye or never fall out
Cant live with them and cant live with out them lol "
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i moan about mine a lot and feel that i am 3rd in the line of favourite kids a lot of the time as i am the eldest (youngest one will always be the baby and stayed with her when my parent split, middle one is the prodigal daughter who bore her grandchildren) but i know in the grand scheme of things she isnt that bad really.
She love me and never really means to play favourites etc |
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