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over a year ago
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"Ladies ,would you date a younger guy?"
date? as in not just shag but have a relationship with? a little younger yes not to much younger though, I would shag men much younger than I would date |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said  "
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents? "
No |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents?
No"
good for you, though if I took a guy home in his 20s my kids would be horrified and as their opinion means more to me than any man I would never date anyone that age
shag yes as I don't take my shags home to meet my kids
guess we are all different |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents?
No
good for you, though if I took a guy home in his 20s my kids would be horrified and as their opinion means more to me than any man I would never date anyone that age
shag yes as I don't take my shags home to meet my kids
guess we are all different "
True ,you should all ways put your kids before anyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies ,would you date a younger guy?
oh yes! Especially if they were sexy, witty and as great as you woody! I love my bestie xxx  "
What you doing friday night?  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I took my (then) 63 year old boyfriend home to meet my parents and they got really well, he's 18 months older than my mum. The lowest I would go for for a meet is no lower than 32
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies ,would you date a younger guy?
oh yes! Especially if they were sexy, witty and as great as you woody! I love my bestie xxx
What you doing friday night? lol "
getting down and dirty with you?! Lol. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents?
No
good for you, though if I took a guy home in his 20s my kids would be horrified and as their opinion means more to me than any man I would never date anyone that age
shag yes as I don't take my shags home to meet my kids
guess we are all different
True ,you should all ways put your kids before anyone "
I think that should depend on the age of your children. In my case my children are adults aged 25-30 and I would hope that if I met someone who made me happy they would accept that irrespective of his age - that said I would not date someone as young as them but I would certainly consider someone in their mid 30s if we were a good match! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if a connection was met then yes.
illrelevant the age
Well said
so you would have no problem taking your 55 year old girlfriend home to meet your parents?
No
good for you, though if I took a guy home in his 20s my kids would be horrified and as their opinion means more to me than any man I would never date anyone that age
shag yes as I don't take my shags home to meet my kids
guess we are all different
True ,you should all ways put your kids before anyone
I think that should depend on the age of your children. In my case my children are adults aged 25-30 and I would hope that if I met someone who made me happy they would accept that irrespective of his age - that said I would not date someone as young as them but I would certainly consider someone in their mid 30s if we were a good match!"
To be honest I don't think my kids would approve of anyone I took home, that's why I've been single since I split with their dad 6 years ago  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother me"
I understand what your saying but you shouldn't worry about what people think or say ,as long as your happy then thats the main thing |
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother me"
but if you really loved someone you would forget about the age gap. The only time I refer to jays age is on here when a relevant thread comes up, never mention it apart from when I tell him he's going senile
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies ,would you date a younger guy?"
Younger yes, but not young enough to be my son  - age is not just a number. Would you go for someone of 88 say? Methinks I have proved a point  |
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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I seem to get on a lot better with guys younger than me but I'd draw the line at under 40. My daughter wouldn't be too happy and I think deep down if it was a relationship I'd always worry that they'd eventually move on to someone younger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would the OP take a girl 12 years younger than him home to meet his family?  "
If he was a foster father then yes.
Keeping the subject to consensual adults is advisable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother mebut if you really loved someone you would forget about the age gap. The only time I refer to jays age is on here when a relevant thread comes up, never mention it apart from when I tell him he's going senile
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Teasing apart tho that can be a serious issue in large age gap relationships and one easily overlooked early on. I have a good friend whose husband is 20 years her senior and now in his early 70s and suffering from the early stages of Alzheimer's. She loves him very much but is struggling and misses the affection and sexual side of their relationship which he no longer has an interest in. I'm not saying that it should stop anyone having such a relationship, only that it is a consideration that not all of us think of when entering into one. Obviously ill health can be a risk regardless of age but the odds are higher if one partner is significantly older. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ladies ,would you date a younger guy?
Younger yes, but not young enough to be my son - age is not just a number. Would you go for someone of 88 say? Methinks I have proved a point "
Haha yeh good point ,but i don't think there would be many 80 year olds i would be attracted to |
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"I seem to get on a lot better with guys younger than me but I'd draw the line at under 40. My daughter wouldn't be too happy and I think deep down if it was a relationship I'd always worry that they'd eventually move on to someone younger "
I always think about the future when looking at guys much younger
If I dated a guys 20 years younger than me in 30 years time when he was still only 49 and I was pushing 70 and could no longer keep up and do all the things he wanted would he still be interested in me? |
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother mebut if you really loved someone you would forget about the age gap. The only time I refer to jays age is on here when a relevant thread comes up, never mention it apart from when I tell him he's going senile
Teasing apart tho that can be a serious issue in large age gap relationships and one easily overlooked early on. I have a good friend whose husband is 20 years her senior and now in his early 70s and suffering from the early stages of Alzheimer's. She loves him very much but is struggling and misses the affection and sexual side of their relationship which he no longer has an interest in. I'm not saying that it should stop anyone having such a relationship, only that it is a consideration that not all of us think of when entering into one. Obviously ill health can be a risk regardless of age but the odds are higher if one partner is significantly older. "
I probably should have stated this on the age gap thread, but I would worry about a very much younger adult and a 20+ year age gap. Older adults have, if they have a mind to, learned how to manipulate.
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother mebut if you really loved someone you would forget about the age gap. The only time I refer to jays age is on here when a relevant thread comes up, never mention it apart from when I tell him he's going senile
Teasing apart tho that can be a serious issue in large age gap relationships and one easily overlooked early on. I have a good friend whose husband is 20 years her senior and now in his early 70s and suffering from the early stages of Alzheimer's. She loves him very much but is struggling and misses the affection and sexual side of their relationship which he no longer has an interest in. I'm not saying that it should stop anyone having such a relationship, only that it is a consideration that not all of us think of when entering into one. Obviously ill health can be a risk regardless of age but the odds are higher if one partner is significantly older. "
I understand completely what you are saying, when I realised we where more than good friends I did take these factors into account. You can become I'll or die at any age. I could pop my clogs before him, but I now know if anything happened I could look after him, but also I would still be free to have sex with whoever but I probably wouldn't by then. I would sooner spend lesser time with my soulmate than longer with someone whose not. You never know who your going to fall in love with
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By *nigmatic1Woman
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"I seem to get on a lot better with guys younger than me but I'd draw the line at under 40. My daughter wouldn't be too happy and I think deep down if it was a relationship I'd always worry that they'd eventually move on to someone younger
I always think about the future when looking at guys much younger
If I dated a guys 20 years younger than me in 30 years time when he was still only 49 and I was pushing 70 and could no longer keep up and do all the things he wanted would he still be interested in me?"
You and me both...I try to imagine them assisting me with my zimmer ...ermmmm not a good thought hahah!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I seem to get on a lot better with guys younger than me but I'd draw the line at under 40. My daughter wouldn't be too happy and I think deep down if it was a relationship I'd always worry that they'd eventually move on to someone younger
I always think about the future when looking at guys much younger
Lol
If I dated a guys 20 years younger than me in 30 years time when he was still only 49 and I was pushing 70 and could no longer keep up and do all the things he wanted would he still be interested in me?
You and me both...I try to imagine them assisting me with my zimmer ...ermmmm not a good thought hahah!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think I would date anyone that I felt stood out and would make people look, if I was with a guy where people had to keep asking if he was my lover or my son that would bother mebut if you really loved someone you would forget about the age gap. The only time I refer to jays age is on here when a relevant thread comes up, never mention it apart from when I tell him he's going senile
Teasing apart tho that can be a serious issue in large age gap relationships and one easily overlooked early on. I have a good friend whose husband is 20 years her senior and now in his early 70s and suffering from the early stages of Alzheimer's. She loves him very much but is struggling and misses the affection and sexual side of their relationship which he no longer has an interest in. I'm not saying that it should stop anyone having such a relationship, only that it is a consideration that not all of us think of when entering into one. Obviously ill health can be a risk regardless of age but the odds are higher if one partner is significantly older. I understand completely what you are saying, when I realised we where more than good friends I did take these factors into account. You can become I'll or die at any age. I could pop my clogs before him, but I now know if anything happened I could look after him, but also I would still be free to have sex with whoever but I probably wouldn't by then. I would sooner spend lesser time with my soulmate than longer with someone whose not. You never know who your going to fall in love with
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Can't argue with that, my soulmate is almost ten years my junior and has a potential health issue which may impact on us in the future, I would not change things unless it was to allow him good health. |
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"I seem to get on a lot better with guys younger than me but I'd draw the line at under 40. My daughter wouldn't be too happy and I think deep down if it was a relationship I'd always worry that they'd eventually move on to someone younger
I always think about the future when looking at guys much younger
If I dated a guys 20 years younger than me in 30 years time when he was still only 49 and I was pushing 70 and could no longer keep up and do all the things he wanted would he still be interested in me?"
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