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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.
He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.
This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....  
Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a single dad come in the ladies with his daughter. He obviously didn't want to take her in the gents. All the women in the ladies loos gave him admiring glances. No-one gave him a hard time. He was very respectful.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've seen a single dad come in the ladies with his daughter. He obviously didn't want to take her in the gents. All the women in the ladies loos gave him admiring glances. No-one gave him a hard time. He was very respectful. "
Good for him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with that at all. I think my son will of been around 8 when I let him go to the gents for the first time on his own and then I hung around the entrance waiting for him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My son always come with me, until he got a bit older
I was almost taken from a toilet myself when I was eight by a woman
Never leave them unattended anything can happen as you know. $- )
Her |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It must be difficult for single dads with little girls,wondering what to do. Ive been asked many times to take a little girl in to the loos by a dad with a desperate child. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Isn't there a toilet for disabled folk which would solve the problem?"
Well most public disabled loos are locked , they are in my town anyways,. the disabled have to apply for their own key and have to pay for it to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my son does and will continue to go in the ladies with me for as long as possible. i am fine withstanding the misdirected judgement of others for the sake of his safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It must be difficult for single dads with little girls,wondering what to do. Ive been asked many times to take a little girl in to the loos by a dad with a desperate child. "
I'm a single dad, I take me youngest into the men's, but if she's with her sister they both go to ladies, I'm always waiting outside, |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Isn't there a toilet for disabled folk which would solve the problem?
Well most public disabled loos are locked , they are in my town anyways,. the disabled have to apply for their own key and have to pay for it to. "
There is always someone with a key to let them in....shopping centres....they buy their own so they dont have to ask/wait....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if there was a single dad and his daughter id imagine its acceptable for him to pop into the ladies.. just a polite shout through the doors to ask i its ok. doubt anyone would object. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So when should i stop going into the Ladies ? 
Him
When ya grow a pair... 
I had a pair but the ex took em with the House  "
Mine too...
But I grew some more... Bigger... Better... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair most public toilets don't have the correct facilities for boys as the uninals are too high, we see no reason why mums shouldn't take boys into the ladies, they have cubicles who's going to see?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"children should go with their mum in the ladies I don't see whats wrong with it"
Or their dad's.... There are cubicles for privacy...
I always went into whichever adult I was with... Or a kindly shop assistant... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x
Yes.....
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Exactly...
I'm not offended by kids using the same public loos as I do. After all, they use male cleaners which come in unannounced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"children should go with their mum in the ladies I don't see whats wrong with it
Or their dad's.... There are cubicles for privacy...
I always went into whichever adult I was with... Or a kindly shop assistant... "
Problem is the dirty ass seats, hence bacterial wipes, hand gel and a good dry off with paper before sitting em down, or just holding her mid air hoping it goes down the toilet, problem is with my daughter she puts both hands on the seat ans holds herself up, but I never let her do it in public loos |
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"Wasn't there a young boy raped in public loos recently? x"
There was a 4 year old boy sexually assaulted in my local supermarket about a year ago... He had gone into the gents alone while his mum waited outside  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.
He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.
This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....
Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ? "
I did exactly the same thing and very rightly so in this twisted world we live in.
Be proud you care that much that you think this way.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When my son was little and he needed the loo when we were out and about, i never let him enter a male toilet on his own and would take him into the ladies with me.
He would only go into the mens when he was with my dad or one of my brothers.
This was discussed on "the wright stuff" this morning and it came across like it was wrong....
Would you do the same as me or just point them in the direction of the nearest loo ? "
I did this with my son when he was younger. Too risky not to |
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