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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And be nice to know answer.. Curve girl or BBW like we are called ..can be or are sexy for you guys?
After pregnant my hubby over the years kept telling me I should do something with it..mean my weight. Cos he likes me when I was slim.
Of course I did. I get divorce. 
Months of hard work at gym. Daily swim..slowly I build up my confidence. Now its ok. I can't change too much cos my curves don't want to leave me he he.
But today I saw a few profiles of guys who definitely says only slim girls. And I wondered... i should feel worst cos im not a model or what?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all...we are celebrated by many, even worshipped by some lol...go with it, avoid those who don't prefer us, ignore the ones who want to make you feel bad and most of all have fun xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hun I did 17 years with a guy a could never be thin enough for after the kids were born and believe me I tried....
Almost destroyed me, I have learned to like me but it was not till I joined here that I came to understand that he was in the minority....
Men, love curves but most of all they love a woman who allows herself to feel sexy in her own skin.
Celebrate your body and enjoy it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But today I saw a few profiles of guys who definitely says only slim girls. And I wondered... i should feel worst cos im not a model or what?
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You are not going to be what everyone is looking for. Focus on people who's preferences include rather than exclude you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's only bin in the last couple of hundred years that we started to go for skinny girls as back then being a bbw was the in thing as I ment u had the money to eat good food so bring on the good old days as bbw rule |
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By (user no longer on site)
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".
But today I saw a few profiles of guys who definitely says only slim girls. And I wondered... i should feel worst cos im not a model
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definitely not, in fact there's a whole bunch of us who just live curves, personally they're way sexier than "model" looks, for me anyway. different strokes for different folks I guess, but trust me, you look awesome.
" Focus on people who's preferences include rather than exclude you."
most definitely. excellent advice. your looks are first rate, keep doin' what you're doin' x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I see im not alone. Thank you for your reply and warm words.
When I read some profiles ... in one second all my past was back.
Even now, when I like my body..felling sexy.. this thing is in my head..hidden somewhere on the corner lol. I need glass of wine lol. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hun I did 17 years with a guy a could never be thin enough for after the kids were born and believe me I tried....
Almost destroyed me, I have learned to like me but it was not till I joined here that I came to understand that he was in the minority....
Men, love curves but most of all they love a woman who allows herself to feel sexy in her own skin.
Celebrate your body and enjoy it "
You tell em sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well from your photo you look dam hot to me. I take you out to dinner anytime.
Be happy as you are I say we are all different as some will like you who you are not what you look like.
Me I like both Curve women and slim women. but if there to slim it is big turn off. I had to pick smil or BBW well it would be BBW every time.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lonely as a cloud....
There are possibly more chaps on here who prefer a girl with curves than without. You've got plenty of verifications, so don't worry about it. "
Awww Tina.. Ive got veryfications ..hope was honest but also I meet here one guy..when we had chat on Skype, cam, looks like that
First question : what size are you Agnes?
Me: rude question but I will tell you my rich personality doesnt fit for size less than 22 
Him : its not. Ur bigger
Me : babe go to hell pick up strawberries..if you will find them just back
I hate that question lol. But at the mo he tries to back to me he he |
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"curves are very cool. make no mistake, girls with curves are very very veerrryyyy ok mmmmmmm x"
He he you forget ? Grey squirrel vs orange squirrel? Lol
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Well from your photo you look dam hot to me. I take you out to dinner anytime.
Be happy as you are I say we are all different as some will like you who you are not what you look like.
Me I like both Curve women and slim women. but if there to slim it is big turn off. I had to pick smil or BBW well it would be BBW every time.
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And yet again the white knights have to slag off one type to hype up the other! Every bloody time! |
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"Lonely as a cloud....
There are possibly more chaps on here who prefer a girl with curves than without. You've got plenty of verifications, so don't worry about it.
Awww Tina.. Ive got veryfications ..hope was honest but also I meet here one guy..when we had chat on Skype, cam, looks like that
First question : what size are you Agnes?
Me: rude question but I will tell you my rich personality doesnt fit for size less than 22
Him : its not. Ur bigger
Me : babe go to hell pick up strawberries..if you will find them just back
I hate that question lol. But at the mo he tries to back to me he he"
Do you want cream on your strawberries? it would be a bit hot for them in hell as well. I just pick them in field not far from me will that be okay?  |
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"curves are very cool. make no mistake, girls with curves are very very veerrryyyy ok mmmmmmm x
He he you forget ? Grey squirrel vs orange squirrel? Lol
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hehe, no definitely not forgotten  and ive suddenly got a new appreciation for those orange squirrels.. hoping I see one again soon sigh.. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" And yet again the white knights have to slag off one type to hype up the other! Every bloody time! "
heh.. personally, I'm just attracted to women that I happen to find attractive.. I don't even know what my "type" is as I've been lucky to meet all kinds.. lucky me, eh! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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" And yet again the white knights have to slag off one type to hype up the other! Every bloody time!
heh.. personally, I'm just attracted to women that I happen to find attractive.. I don't even know what my "type" is as I've been lucky to meet all kinds.. lucky me, eh! "
But I didn't quote you! Everyone is entitled to be attracted to who they want to be, my quote was aimed at the usual white knights!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" But I didn't quote you! Everyone is entitled to be attracted to who they want to be, my quote was aimed at the usual white knights! "
oops, I wasn't being clear.. yeah I know you weren't quoting me , I was just adding my 2 cents to what you said. hehe!
Rock on! x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think saying that women that are too slim aren't attractive to him is slagging anyone off. It's not like he called anyone a bag of bones or anything. He just stated a preference. He's not even been specific about what is too slim for him.
Everyone is allowed a preference.
It's fair enough for guys to say that women who are too large aren't attractive to them. As long as they aren't using derogatory terms or being insulting.
I could equally well say men that are too tall/short/fat/thin/young/old aren't for me. It's not an insult, I just like what I like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And be nice to know answer.. Curve girl or BBW like we are called ..can be or are sexy for you guys?
After pregnant my hubby over the years kept telling me I should do something with it..mean my weight. Cos he likes me when I was slim.
Of course I did. I get divorce.
Months of hard work at gym. Daily swim..slowly I build up my confidence. Now its ok. I can't change too much cos my curves don't want to leave me he he.
But today I saw a few profiles of guys who definitely says only slim girls. And I wondered... i should feel worst cos im not a model or what?
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Should never change for anybody but yourself, if you're happy but the men don't like it then stuff them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you for all answers.. also wait for more. Ps. Im after bottle of barolo wine
 so.. all comments about me .. I will take with smile "
good choice.. barolo is excellent.. I recommend malbec too! x |
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