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Couples. Fewer pics of men.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wonder why it is that very often, but by no means always,on a couples profile there are quite a number of pics of the fem and none of the man.
You can get a very good idea of what the lady looks like but are left guessing about the bloke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think it depends on what they looking for , single guys then what the m of couple looks like isn't an issue , other couples then there has to be a 4 way attraction. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I wonder why it is that very often, but by no means always,on a couples profile there are quite a number of pics of the fem and none of the man.
You can get a very good idea of what the lady looks like but are left guessing about the bloke. "
We notice the same.
And often pass by !  |
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On public we have put a couple on of my fella but definitely need more. Privately there are more.
I personally like to see the man as much as the woman as potentially I would be playing with both.
Come on ladies...show us your men!  |
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why spoil a photo by putting me in it ,,,, our profile is fairly honest and for that reason we get little interest ,,,, if I was to put a picture of me up then I may as well just go and wind up the ladies on Netmums  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're guilty of this - the reason being, he doesn't like having his photo taken and likes taking pictures of me! Having said that, we're going to take some more tonight hopefully I can encourage him to be less camera shy! It's not for the want of trying! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why spoil a photo by putting me in it ,,,, our profile is fairly honest and for that reason we get little interest ,,,, if I was to put a picture of me up then I may as well just go and wind up the ladies on Netmums "
Spoil a photo putting u in it ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a lot more of hubby in friend pics. Some profiles have no pics of the man, I want to see who I am going to be meeting. This includes couples who send us private pics, always loads of the female. Some taken from such a distance I need a magnifying glass or perhaps it is just my age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because in general there is no interest in guy pics given the probable ratio of M/F?
On this, and other sites we are on, the 'fab' ratio of pics with my OH in to ones with me in is about 50:1 lol
I have also noticed that pics even with my cock in (as a stunt cock) get subsequently less 'votes' lol
I think it's down to guys not wanting the fantasy spoilt with another cock.... That or I have a crap todger lol
Not just this site, as I said...same on two others
(interesting also that the same pics get similar percentage votes)....fet site slightly different
Pics of me available if needed etc but we are more interested in finding a woman to play with my OH so my pics arent really needed tbh
May make a good study for Sydney Uni lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are more of me but I hope enough of mr. He loves taking my photo and putting them on here. When I look at other couples I would like to see a couple at least of the mr. Just so I have an idea
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if anyone is really interested in meeting us then we will send a pic and that normaly does the trick 
but this is why we like to make casual meets at clubs , then couples can get to know us for who we really are and can make an informed decision on that alone |
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Were guilty of this, Mr isnt too keen on having his pictures on here and prefers photos of me. However if people are genuinely interested they can always ask for some (and we stay this on our profile). |
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Guilty.
Purely because hubby doesn't play, just me, however we meet or cam/Skype first anyway so if people want to see him they can. However if we both did full swap then we would of course have eual photos. |
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"If it's a couple only looking to meet guys fair enough. But if they want to meet couples...
I find it a bit respectful really. Women used as bait.... men that think people are happy for a 'blind date' and will shag anything...?? "
This is what I think: I'd simply pass such profiles by. |
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"Had an issue with this today. No pics of the guy on the profile. When they eventually sent some of him he wasn't what we're looking for. I politely said no thanks and got a load of abuse back. Basically asking how come the male was happy but the female (me) wasn't.....!
So obviously some guys think that women's opinions don't matter.  "
They don't: probably why SOME use the woman as bait and can't understand the dynamics of couples who make joint decisions on potential playmates. |
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Of a couple contact us and there are no pictures of the man we don't take things any further, I as the female appreciate the courtesy of being able to see who I might be meeting.
I have recently come across a few couples profiles with only pictures of the man though......funny that |
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We fully understand that the lady wants to know who she is meeting and would never ever lead a couple up the garden path ,so we always say 'go back and read our profile again ' ,,,,, surprising how many winks and friend requests we get yet on their profile they say they only want to meet slim couples ,,,, fair enough and we have no problem with that at all ,,, just read our profile
hence I stand by my meet at a club theory ,,,, then at least with in a few minutes you know if the chemistry is there and if not at least you can wander of into the club and do what ever
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We fully understand that the lady wants to know who she is meeting and would never ever lead a couple up the garden path ,so we always say 'go back and read our profile again ' ,,,,, surprising how many winks and friend requests we get yet on their profile they say they only want to meet slim couples ,,,, fair enough and we have no problem with that at all ,,, just read our profile
hence I stand by my meet at a club theory ,,,, then at least with in a few minutes you know if the chemistry is there and if not at least you can wander of into the club and do what ever
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Have to admit that we are guilty as well. The problem is that what has a man to show? Cock? OK but one is enough. Torso? I suppose. Arse? maybe. Sexy underwear? I think not. Face? yes, but (for us) not on public pics.
Now what can the ladies show?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to admit that we are guilty as well. The problem is that what has a man to show? Cock? OK but one is enough. Torso? I suppose. Arse? maybe. Sexy underwear? I think not. Face? yes, but (for us) not on public pics.
Now what can the ladies show? "
He's got every bit as much as the woman, barring any face pics.
This sort of thing irritates J a lot. When we're both looking at profiles, I'll say that they look nice and she always says 'SHE looks nice, there's none of the guy!'
Leaving aside face pics, which we totally understand, there doesn't seem to be many excuses for a couple to only have pics of the woman other than the man is butt ugly and they're hoping that a charming personality will win through if they get to meet. A guy saying 'the wife is much better looking than me' doesn't wash. If you're a couple looking to meet a couple, get clear pics of you both on there!
I'm (S) not all that body confident but I put a full length pic on there so people get a clear idea of what I look like as well as J and make up their own minds but more importantly, there are no surprises. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wonder why it is that very often, but by no means always,on a couples profile there are quite a number of pics of the fem and none of the man.
You can get a very good idea of what the lady looks like but are left guessing about the bloke. "
Women are more attractive and that's what draws people in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to admit that we are guilty as well. The problem is that what has a man to show? Cock? OK but one is enough. Torso? I suppose. Arse? maybe. Sexy underwear? I think not. Face? yes, but (for us) not on public pics.
Now what can the ladies show?
He's got every bit as much as the woman, barring any face pics.
This sort of thing irritates J a lot. When we're both looking at profiles, I'll say that they look nice and she always says 'SHE looks nice, there's none of the guy!'
Leaving aside face pics, which we totally understand, there doesn't seem to be many excuses for a couple to only have pics of the woman other than the man is butt ugly and they're hoping that a charming personality will win through if they get to meet. A guy saying 'the wife is much better looking than me' doesn't wash. If you're a couple looking to meet a couple, get clear pics of you both on there!
I'm (S) not all that body confident but I put a full length pic on there so people get a clear idea of what I look like as well as J and make up their own minds but more importantly, there are no surprises."
Saying that men have less body parts to show is ridiculous. Tits torso arse. Chest torso arse. By my maths it's the same.
Saying that women will see the man when they meet... so if the woman doesn't like the guy, then what?! Surely it's better to know from pics before a meet.
Sounds like some guys think the woman won't dare say no when they meet in person. It would be very embarrassing all round.
I really hope some guys in couples have a rethink about this. If you seriously think you are so awful that you can't show pics of your body... don't you think it's disrespectful to just show up and put a woman through that in person? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We fully understand that the lady wants to know who she is meeting and would never ever lead a couple up the garden path ,so we always say 'go back and read our profile again ' ,,,,, surprising how many winks and friend requests we get yet on their profile they say they only want to meet slim couples ,,,, fair enough and we have no problem with that at all ,,, just read our profile
hence I stand by my meet at a club theory ,,,, then at
least with in a few minutes you know if the chemistry is there and if not at least you can wander of into the club and do what ever
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I agree with this and to be honest the majority of couples we have played wifh have been in clubs or parties
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"I wonder why it is that very often, but by no means always,on a couples profile there are quite a number of pics of the fem and none of the man.
You can get a very good idea of what the lady looks like but are left guessing about the bloke.
Women are more attractive and that's wharf draws people in. "
Not me it doesn't. I'm straight and although I can appreciate an attractive woman I have no interest in sexual contact so why would I be interested in meeting a couple when I hadn't seen the man? Mr N wouldn't consider meeting a couple if he hadn't seen the woman.
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"Have to admit that we are guilty as well. The problem is that what has a man to show? Cock? OK but one is enough. Torso? I suppose. Arse? maybe. Sexy underwear? I think not. Face? yes, but (for us) not on public pics.
Now what can the ladies show? "
Nothing to interest me. |
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Many times white will ask what I think of a couple. The lady will look attractive, alluring. which is great, but I wonder if the guy is, well less than pleasing. Surely if its a 4 way thing you need yo see all parties |
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"Many times white will ask what I think of a couple. The lady will look attractive, alluring. which is great, but I wonder if the guy is, well less than pleasing. Surely if its a 4 way thing you need yo see all parties "
Exactly! I can't see any reason at all why a man wont post a picture of himself if he is going to be taking part in any potential meet. |
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