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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

if admin can change my status from 'single' to couple after being reported & investigated..allegedly...perhaps they should do the same with the 'single'males with are married

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm confused. What are you fem male couple animal vegetable or mineral

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

To be fair, you do want your play partners to interact with the man in your life, even if you don't meet with him.

So there are two of you that they interact with in one way or another.

The married "singles" meet alone and don't want their play partners to have anything to do with their wives!

I think that's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A valid point.....but my profile has been the same since I joined & what I object to is that I have been tried & judged when they are not in control of the full facts
"To be fair, you do want your play partners to interact with the man in your life, even if you don't meet with him.

So there are two of you that they interact with in one way or another.

The married "singles" meet alone and don't want their play partners to have anything to do with their wives!

I think that's the difference."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"A valid point.....but my profile has been the same since I joined & what I object to is that I have been tried & judged when they are not in control of the full facts."

Presumably your profile was used as a basis, along with whatever you'd said to whoever reported you.

From your profile it looks to me like you are both involved in some way with the meet and therefore are a couple, albeit a non-traditional one.

You wrote your profile, so if it doesn't accurately reflect your situation then that's down to you, no?

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By *iss-PinkWoman over a year ago

Gloucester

I'd say it should be a single fem profile. The male in the OP's life doesn't appear to be involved in any way other than knowing about and being happy with the extra fun. So why should it be a couple's profile? All the single guys who say 'you can speak to my wife to verify' on their profiles (and there are some) should surely then be re-classified as couples.... doesn't make sense to me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Exactly Miss Pink!.....I suspect after having a friends cull this has resulted
"I'd say it should be a single fem profile. The male in the OP's life doesn't appear to be involved in any way other than knowing about and being happy with the extra fun. So why should it be a couple's profile? All the single guys who say 'you can speak to my wife to verify' on their profiles (and there are some) should surely then be re-classified as couples.... doesn't make sense to me!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Exactly Miss Pink!.....I suspect after having a friends cull this has resulted I'd say it should be a single fem profile. The male in the OP's life doesn't appear to be involved in any way other than knowing about and being happy with the extra fun. So why should it be a couple's profile? All the single guys who say 'you can speak to my wife to verify' on their profiles (and there are some) should surely then be re-classified as couples.... doesn't make sense to me!

Just contact admin and explain that your partner is never present, involved etc

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"if admin can change my status from 'single' to couple after being reported & investigated..allegedly...perhaps they should do the same with the 'single'males with are married"

Hi, firstly if the admin have changed your status its because your profile was reported and either your profile said you were a couple or did not make it clear that although your in a relationship it was your singles profile. Of course if you disagree with the decision made you can always appeal against it and ask for it to be reversed.

Secondly, admin do change the profile status of single guys claiming to be couples when they are told about them, but they have to be told about them before they can change them.

So please everyone if you find a profile that is the wrong sex dont waste time complaining on the forums/chat, report it and help admin improve the site for everyone

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

Let's out those pesky single 'married' men again, hahaha..... ooops, think I better foooooook off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

your profile suggests you dont meet on your own, but any prospective meet has to work in a circus and be happy interacting with your partner.

thats a couple in any sense of the word, whether he be in the same room or not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"if admin can change my status from 'single' to couple after being reported & investigated..allegedly...perhaps they should do the same with the 'single'males with are married"

Well no if they swing alone to many single women who will only meet with their bf on here!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"your profile suggests you dont meet on your own, but any prospective meet has to work in a circus and be happy interacting with your partner.

thats a couple in any sense of the word, whether he be in the same room or not"

That's the way I see it too.

It sounds like the meets have to be in contact with the male half, rather than it just being that he knows about it and is ok with it.

Anyone meeting a lady and having to have contact with her partner is, in effect, playing with a couple.

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By *renchbambi xWoman over a year ago

Need to know basis

I'm confused. What are you fem male couple animal vegetable or mineral

Am I mineral?

Am I vegetable?

Am I mineral?

Am I animal?

Nooooooo

I am sexual

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive already answered this on the other thread that you have about the same thing. As advised there if you think a mistake has been made contact Admin and they will review.

Marital/relationship status has got nothing to do with a profile category.

If no-one else is involved then its a single profile.

If someone else is involved/watches/joins in/takes pics/uses the profile etc its a couples profile.

If you see a single profile that you think should be a couples profile then report it and Admin will review

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