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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Has anyone had any nasty messages?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

yes.... I was once called a haggis lover.

I was outraged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep. I always got it.

..which used to be a bit disheartening knowing that swingers were meant to be openminded and laid back.

I used to get a lot of abuse before, so didn't organise many meets and avoided the club scene (it's these very same people that are going to be there as well aren't they?).

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I got abuse off a guy cause he basically thought he owned a woman cause he met her a few times, got called all sorts honky etc..

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"I got abuse off a guy cause he basically thought he owned a woman cause he met her a few times, got called all sorts honky etc.."

always report abuse

, there is no need for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I want know women's _iews they must get loads when they reject some ego head

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"Yep. I always got it.

..which used to be a bit disheartening knowing that swingers were meant to be openminded and laid back.

I used to get a lot of abuse before, so didn't organise many meets and avoided the club scene (it's these very same people that are going to be there as well aren't they?)."

That's not on. I've met you. You are lovely.

Any nasty messages should be reported.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Being called honky is annoying. I don't even have a big nose.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I been called an Indian ho. I have had people retract party invitations because of my colour but I rarely get racist abuse for saying no. That usually focuses on my size and age with the added bonus of not being sexy/attractive enough.

The last one gave me a perfect new name though; just call me Diva Wannabe.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yep. I always got it.

..which used to be a bit disheartening knowing that swingers were meant to be openminded and laid back.

I used to get a lot of abuse before, so didn't organise many meets and avoided the club scene (it's these very same people that are going to be there as well aren't they?)."

I hope the social showed you that not everyone on here is like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep. I always got it.

..which used to be a bit disheartening knowing that swingers were meant to be openminded and laid back.

I used to get a lot of abuse before, so didn't organise many meets and avoided the club scene (it's these very same people that are going to be there as well aren't they?).

That's not on. I've met you. You are lovely.

Any nasty messages should be reported. "

Yeah, hasn't been a great help to my confidence on here. But, all good - what's done is done. That's what happens when you send face pics with your messages. Now i don't even send any messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

People seem to turn a blind eye when a white person is racially abused, it seems if is any other race all hell breaks loose

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The last one gave me a perfect new name though; just call me Diva Wannabe.

Now I'm liking that username! Might keep that in storage!

On the other side, yes, I have received abuse in the past for doing things my way and not jumping at their very kind offer, I get the usual 'this is a sex site you know' sprouted at me quite frequently!

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By *or Fox SakeCouple over a year ago

Thornaby

Racism and racists are scum bags.

I've suffered it and when I was young and stupid I would say at best I was offensive andat worst just plain racist.

My only defence was ignorance.