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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the very least he is bi curious if it was once but didn't like it so never did it again, but if he liked it and did it again and again then yes I'd say bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any same sex contact is a homosexual act. If one of the parties also has opposite sex contact then they are bi-sexual.
I don't understand how a guy can cry out "I'm straight" with his dick shoved down another guys throat! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I think it is a sliding scale, psychologically speaking. I think there is a lot of difference between wanting to play with a cute well turned out TG (not me, obviously!) and an 18 stone hairy miner.  |
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"I think it is a sliding scale, psychologically speaking. I think there is a lot of difference between wanting to play with a cute well turned out TG (not me, obviously!) and an 18 stone hairy miner. "
18 stone miner.... thats one fat kid... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to you all iv nowt against bi men each to there own but when you get one arguing the fact because he wants to join us and we not interested in bi men then jus wantd to clear it up thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hairy miner has a dick, TV has a dick so both are men. Man on man equals gay/bi, simple as that.
Transexual (post op) is a completely different field."
Why is it? They're legally women before the OP.and after the OP they still have a dick it's just a different shape.
Don't see why it matters really though. Bi men seem to get a lot of stick whereas women are just expected to be bi it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to you all iv nowt against bi men each to there own but when you get one arguing the fact because he wants to join us and we not interested in bi men then jus wantd to clear it up thanks again"
Out of curiosity if he'd only.been with men outside of fab or had his veris hidden how would you know?
And what difference exactly would it make? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is a sliding scale, psychologically speaking. I think there is a lot of difference between wanting to play with a cute well turned out TG (not me, obviously!) and an 18 stone hairy miner.
18 stone miner.... thats one fat kid..."
To the younger members of the site. This country used to have a mining industry where coal a valuable fossil fuel resourse was extracted from seams below ground. Miners used to do the work!!
Ps I got the joke....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hairy miner has a dick, TV has a dick so both are men. Man on man equals gay/bi, simple as that.
Transexual (post op) is a completely different field."
Also if say a man who's with a male to female TS is straighter than a man who's with a female to male TS.
As in that case it's the mind that matters in that case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can be conned like anyone else, but I find the idea of men on men nauseous. It's not a reaction I engineer, it is a reflex. I have actually thrown up on a guy who was in bed with me after he decided to be "clever" and confess.
Is that a big enough difference for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems very simple.......if a guy has a dick in his mouth, then he is sucking dick. What the dick is attached to is irrelevant (and no, I don't mean non-human). If a guy has his dick in a pussy, he is fucking.
One is a homosexual/Bisexual act, one isn't. If the guy "thinks" sucking a dick is straight, it doesn't alter the reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction"
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male!"
Seems perfectly understandable to me. There is no argument if you are bi yourself that you have to like all bi people ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your post was rather pointed don't you think?
And I have no inclination to argue."
Not do I. I asked if your post was in reply to my post.
Perhaps you misunderstood - I was agreeing with you ....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your post was rather pointed don't you think?
And I have no inclination to argue."
And if you ARE replying to someone's post it helps if YOU quote the post you are replying to.
Saves me having to waste time querying wtf you're talking about.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"I can be conned like anyone else, but I find the idea of men on men nauseous. It's not a reaction I engineer, it is a reflex. I have actually thrown up on a guy who was in bed with me after he decided to be "clever" and confess.
Is that a big enough difference for you?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As this is February, and it's raining mostly outside then I am pretty sure you can have a dick in both ends and still be a straight male, as long as your soft furnishings don't match your wallpaper 
Of course if you don't then get to have actual sex with an actual woman before the rain stops then you have to re-classify your profile to gay, and only look at women if they have full beards  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the very least he is bi curious if it was once but didn't like it so never did it again, but if he liked it and did it again and again then yes I'd say bi"
If someone can maintain an erection during a homosexual act, is that not a bit of a clue?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male!
Seems perfectly understandable to me. There is no argument if you are bi yourself that you have to like all bi people !"
Why the conclusion that she doesn't like bi people?! She just doesn't like the thought of having sex with them. I am like her. I have gay and bi male friends. I would never have sex with any bi person. Does that mean I don't like them or I am begoted?! Certainly not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a bloke last week sitting on some mans face as he was getting his balls licked as the black man was pounding the woman, i would never do bi as it's not in my my cup of tea to do it just sick.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks to you all iv nowt against bi men each to there own but when you get one arguing the fact because he wants to join us and we not interested in bi men then jus wantd to clear it up thanks again
Out of curiosity if he'd only.been with men outside of fab or had his veris hidden how would you know?
And what difference exactly would it make?"
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It clearly states on his profile he looking for TV/TS which we personally have no interest in and is stated on our profile and when told we not looking for bi men after his admitted he likes TV/TS sucking him and playing with him when dressed as a woman he doesn't think it's classed as bi and won't except we not into that sort of thing. Like we said we have nothing against bi or gay blokes each to there own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the very least he is bi curious if it was once but didn't like it so never did it again, but if he liked it and did it again and again then yes I'd say bi"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to you all iv nowt against bi men each to there own but when you get one arguing the fact because he wants to join us and we not interested in bi men then jus wantd to clear it up thanks again"
If you don't want to play with someone that is your right. You don't have to defend your choice. If he was being disrespectful and trying to argue about it, just don't reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male!
Seems perfectly understandable to me. There is no argument if you are bi yourself that you have to like all bi people !"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My take on this is quite simplistic. If I have no interest in any sort of sexual play with another guy then I'm straight. If I am interested in trying it I'm bi-curious. If I try it, like it and want to continue doing it I'm bi. If I try it, dont like it and decide not to do it again I'm straight. If I try it and I'm still unsure but wantvto try it again I'm bi-curious until I finally make a decision. I think this definition also includes if I am only interested when with a couple or getting lost in the moment. If it's not for me straight, not sure either way curious, happy to do it again bi
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"My take on this is quite simplistic. If I have no interest in any sort of sexual play with another guy then I'm straight. If I am interested in trying it I'm bi-curious. If I try it, like it and want to continue doing it I'm bi. If I try it, dont like it and decide not to do it again I'm straight. If I try it and I'm still unsure but wantvto try it again I'm bi-curious until I finally make a decision. I think this definition also includes if I am only interested when with a couple or getting lost in the moment. If it's not for me straight, not sure either way curious, happy to do it again bi
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you are far too sensible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blackadder: Not really, no.
Doctor Leech: Bloody Hell. I would be. Still, why should I complain. Just leaves more rampant totty for us real men, eh?
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It's up to you who you play with. No need justify yourself. A polite no thanks and move on if youre not interested.
You'll never know someones past sexual experiences unless they choose to tell you. |
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". . . I would never do bi as it's not in my my cup of tea to do it just sick. "
You remind me of some of those Russians I keep hearing about. Someone may have a differing sexuality to you, but it makes them no less healthy and perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just quick Q if a man lets another man weather a tv ts or a cd or not suck his cock is he bi or not"
I would say if you have a cock they have a cock and one of you spurts spunk no mater how you are dressed that's a bit of bi action (you could even say spunk not necessary) and if its bi action then its bi guys involved . But who cares its only a name in the bigger picture it is immaterial. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just quick Q if a man lets another man weather a tv ts or a cd or not suck his cock is he bi or not
I would say if you have a cock they have a cock and one of you spurts spunk no mater how you are dressed that's a bit of bi action (you could even say spunk not necessary) and if its bi action then its bi guys involved . But who cares its only a name in the bigger picture it is immaterial."
lol true .... Fellow guys if you want fun with couples and are bi then state on profile as it's a big turn off and you're not likely to get a meet with bi couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take on this is quite simplistic. If I have no interest in any sort of sexual play with another guy then I'm straight. If I am interested in trying it I'm bi-curious. If I try it, like it and want to continue doing it I'm bi. If I try it, dont like it and decide not to do it again I'm straight. If I try it and I'm still unsure but wantvto try it again I'm bi-curious until I finally make a decision. I think this definition also includes if I am only interested when with a couple or getting lost in the moment. If it's not for me straight, not sure either way curious, happy to do it again bi
you are far too sensible "
Post of the thread . You cant put more simple, clear and logic. Are you a mathematician or something? Lol
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"At the very least he is bi curious if it was once but didn't like it so never did it again, but if he liked it and did it again and again then yes I'd say bi"
This: straight, then bicurious, then tried same sex sex, didn't like it straight, liked it bi, exclusively liked it gay. Basically.
I was straight, tried it, liked it, bi, don't do much of it now. My lines are going parallel again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My take on this is quite simplistic. If I have no interest in any sort of sexual play with another guy then I'm straight. If I am interested in trying it I'm bi-curious. If I try it, like it and want to continue doing it I'm bi. If I try it, dont like it and decide not to do it again I'm straight. If I try it and I'm still unsure but wantvto try it again I'm bi-curious until I finally make a decision. I think this definition also includes if I am only interested when with a couple or getting lost in the moment. If it's not for me straight, not sure either way curious, happy to do it again bi
you are far too sensible
Post of the thread . You cant put more simple, clear and logic. Are you a mathematician or something? Lol
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My defintion is pretty straightforward but working out where I fit that is less so... |
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male!
Seems perfectly understandable to me. There is no argument if you are bi yourself that you have to like all bi people !
Why the conclusion that she doesn't like bi people?! She just doesn't like the thought of having sex with them. I am like her. I have gay and bi male friends. I would never have sex with any bi person. Does that mean I don't like them or I am begoted?! Certainly not.
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Hence why she said dragon doesn't have to like 'all' bi people - as in she likes some and not others. Presumably the way she will like some straight, gay or bi people and will choose to sleep with, or not, some of them. She was agreeing with dragons statement, not arguing with her. The argument being you do not have to like everyone, but will like some! |
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I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexuality is a big old grey area.
But I look at it like this - no straight people would entertain having same sex play.
In my humble opinion "
Well said. |
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And in response to op - we believe that if you have played with a same sex partner, and would do so again then at the very least you are bi curious. It may not be your main sexual preference, but it is an element of it. It does not however mean you have to sleep with same sex partners on every meet, bi and bi curious people are capable if controlling their urges and if joining straight partners do not have to ravish them just because they' themselves have bi predilections! Each to their own, being bi doesn't mean you can't be straight with bi partners but it does mean you may play with bi partners if all consent. Everyone has their preferences, so there are plenty to choose from, it's a shame people hide their likes to pretend in order to 'sneak in' a shag with people who's preferences state they'd prefer not to play with bi men. Move on, find women/couples who will instead! |
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Oh wow. It's the sexual orientation and definitions thread for this week. I think it is the first so far. Mandatory content - someone feeling or actually being sick=check ; someone needing the complexity of humans in a near binary format = check; someone outraged = check; evidence provided of absolute heterosexuality = check; indignation =check; copious vomit = check; confusion = check; seeming ignorance and intolerance = Full house. Always space for people not to get over themselves and needing to assert something that possibly might be more insightful to themselves rather than others, if some introspection and research was followed instead. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting given you yourself are.bi.
And the throwing up thing just reminds me of the racist old lady in little Britain who throws up when she eats anything touched by a black person.
That is probably.something you should.see someone about as it's a pretty extreme reaction
As I said, it is not something I control, it's a reflex easily controlled by my avoiding bi-guys. If one of them thinks I should be conned (and a lot do) then he can't blame me for my reaction.
I might add that I have gay friends (of both sexes) so I am not bigoted as you suggest. I simply can't countenance a sex act with a bi-male!
Seems perfectly understandable to me. There is no argument if you are bi yourself that you have to like all bi people !
Why the conclusion that she doesn't like bi people?! She just doesn't like the thought of having sex with them. I am like her. I have gay and bi male friends. I would never have sex with any bi person. Does that mean I don't like them or I am begoted?! Certainly not.
Hence why she said dragon doesn't have to like 'all' bi people - as in she likes some and not others. Presumably the way she will like some straight, gay or bi people and will choose to sleep with, or not, some of them. She was agreeing with dragons statement, not arguing with her. The argument being you do not have to like everyone, but will like some!"
Hooray - sometimes I may as well be writing in friggin Swahili Thank you for interpreting for the people above what I actually meant . Too many people on here too quick to jump down your throat, assuming that everyone that posts is on the attack.
I'm not - yes we are a bi couple - and shock fucking horror we are sensitive and can appreciate that others are not into our lifestyle. Next time I'll keep quiet and let others accuse you of homophobia |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tried being straight once - but I just felt so dirty and perverted, so ashamed of myself for having such feelings....
Now I've found my way back to what I feel is my own path of righteousness - as an honest, sensible, and quite respectable out bi girl.....
Happiness is deciding what you are, and not letting anybody else try to define it for you...!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question.... "
If you wanted a relationship with a man that makes you gay I think. You are trying to say that you could be a complicated combination between feeling for someone and having sex with someone. So lets say if you:
have sex with both genders but only have an hetero relationshionship that dosen't make you a sexually-bi-straight person. That doesn't make sense. You fall into the definition of bisexual. In my opinion.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A BJ is a BJ, if you close your eyes or use a glory hole you can't tell if it's a man or a woman. So it has nothing to do with either sex, just a way for the bloke to get his load shot by someone else.
Now, if he only wanted a BJ from a blokes well, that's another question.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I drift up and down a little bit of the bisexual spectrum continuum. Oddly, when I'm at the gym and see sweating women, I think 'phwooaar' when I see sweating men, I think 'disgusting pig'.
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That's because women don't sweat, we glow... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks to you all iv nowt against bi men each to there own but when you get one arguing the fact because he wants to join us and we not interested in bi men then jus wantd to clear it up thanks again"
I think the fact the gentleman is bi is irrelevant as he is showing lack of consideration to your preferences and asking you to drop them so you will meet him. I would be focusing on that point with him rather than the fact he describes himself as bi-if he is not what you're looking for, that should be the end of the discussion and as he's being pushy, that shows disrespect in my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really don't understand the problem here, there are too many people in denial about their sexuality. Same sex sex is a homosexual Act and by definition implies that an individual is gay. If the person also has sex with the opposite sex that makes them Bi. Quite simple really.
Bi curious is exactly what it says on the tin, an individual may question whether they really are attracted sexually to another individual of the same sex. If they act on this curiosity they will find out if they are straight gay or Bi. Trying it and liking it means they are no longer curious as they know the answer that they are Bi. Trying it and not liking it means they are not Bi or gay, their curiosity has been satisfied. They are no longer curious.
Too many people are in denial and choose to reject the label because of their own religious/social beliefs and the stigma it may bring.
Incidentally, by reading this and either agreeing or disagreeing will not make you gay or straight in any way but it might bring out your latent tendencies  |
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"I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question....
If you wanted a relationship with a man that makes you gay I think. You are trying to say that you could be a complicated combination between feeling for someone and having sex with someone. So lets say if you:
have sex with both genders but only have an hetero relationshionship that dosen't make you a sexually-bi-straight person. That doesn't make sense. You fall into the definition of bisexual. In my opinion. "
Wanting a relationship with a man does not make you gay. When a man is only interested in having a relationship with a man, sexual or emotionally, that makes him gay.
In my opinion, being bisexual means you _iew both sexes equally in terms of being open to sex and developing an emotional connection.
I much prefer the sexual orientations I have available on another site I'm on as I am able to describe myself as hetero-flexible. I am flexible with my sexuality but not bisexual as I would not have a relationship with a woman. To me, the scenario you've quoted makes the man hetero-flexible, in my opinion, not bisexual.
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over a year ago
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i think as soon as some people see bi on a mans profile they automatically think you're a raving queen that spends his evenings getting gangbanged by 20 blokes the truth is usually way off that, I for instance love playing with couples, mmf is basically why i joined, over the years i've had a few and one couple had a bi chap, contact got closer than I was used to but I didn't mind, I met them again and had no objection to him touching me again, a blindfold fantasy was discussed and I knew what that would entail agreed and enjoyed it, I put bi in my profile but that is the extent of my tenduncies.
I think because bi is such a broad scale discuss it with the individual if you like the gent but are put off by the assumption that hes had more in the tradesmans entrance than you have then find out if its true before you make your mind up
not aimed at anyone in particular but alot of sexually free people are really judgemental! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"i think as soon as some people see bi on a mans profile they automatically think you're a raving queen that spends his evenings getting gangbanged by 20 blokes the truth is usually way off that, "
I'm normally at work in the evening  |
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"I drift up and down a little bit of the bisexual spectrum continuum. Oddly, when I'm at the gym and see sweating women, I think 'phwooaar' when I see sweating men, I think 'disgusting pig'.
That's because women don't sweat, we
glow... "
That must be it! And the more tight and clingy the kit they wear, the better. Hurrah for mirrors! |
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"It's a moveable feast...."
I like the spectrum theory and we may move based on situations, experiences and our own evolving sense of our sexuality. At least that seems to be what happens to me. |
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"I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question....
If you wanted a relationship with a man that makes you gay I think. You are trying to say that you could be a complicated combination between feeling for someone and having sex with someone. So lets say if you:
have sex with both genders but only have an hetero relationshionship that dosen't make you a sexually-bi-straight person. That doesn't make sense. You fall into the definition of bisexual. In my opinion.
Wanting a relationship with a man does not make you gay. When a man is only interested in having a relationship with a man, sexual or emotionally, that makes him gay.
In my opinion, being bisexual means you _iew both sexes equally in terms of being open to sex and developing an emotional connection.
I much prefer the sexual orientations I have available on another site I'm on as I am able to describe myself as hetero-flexible. I am flexible with my sexuality but not bisexual as I would not have a relationship with a woman. To me, the scenario you've quoted makes the man hetero-flexible, in my opinion, not bisexual.
crystal "
Clearly you want to be straight when people are looking for a straight guy and bi when they are looking a bi guy and so on. You can't be both I am afraid. A straight guy cannot be bi or gay at the same time or chose to switch when he feels thats what will get him a shagg. You are either straight or bi. Make a choice in your life. |
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"A BJ is a BJ, if you close your eyes or use a glory hole you can't tell if it's a man or a woman. So it has nothing to do with either sex, just a way for the bloke to get his load shot by someone else.
Now, if he only wanted a BJ from a blokes well, that's another question...."
Waw! In a million years I would want a BJ from a guy and I wouldn't want a bj from any female either and closing my eyes wouldn't make it work. Tgats your personal perseption about BJ. Doesn't reflect other guys sexuality. |
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"I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question....
If you wanted a relationship with a man that makes you gay I think. You are trying to say that you could be a complicated combination between feeling for someone and having sex with someone. So lets say if you:
have sex with both genders but only have an hetero relationshionship that dosen't make you a sexually-bi-straight person. That doesn't make sense. You fall into the definition of bisexual. In my opinion.
Wanting a relationship with a man does not make you gay. When a man is only interested in having a relationship with a man, sexual or emotionally, that makes him gay.
In my opinion, being bisexual means you _iew both sexes equally in terms of being open to sex and developing an emotional connection.
I much prefer the sexual orientations I have available on another site I'm on as I am able to describe myself as hetero-flexible. I am flexible with my sexuality but not bisexual as I would not have a relationship with a woman. To me, the scenario you've quoted makes the man hetero-flexible, in my opinion, not bisexual.
crystal
Clearly you want to be straight when people are looking for a straight guy and bi when they are looking a bi guy and so on. You can't be both I am afraid. A straight guy cannot be bi or gay at the same time or chose to switch when he feels thats what will get him a shagg. You are either straight or bi. Make a choice in your life. "
I don't know how or why I would want to be a straight guy or a bi guy as I can't be either without undergoing some serious surgery-I signed off as crystal to indicate that it was the female half of the couple who wrote the post |
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"I wonder if I could describe myself as sexually bi, instead of bisexual? Insofar as I don't fancy men, don't want a relationship with them but if a guy is there with his wife, I like sucking his cock and he mine. Another unanswerable question....
If you wanted a relationship with a man that makes you gay I think. You are trying to say that you could be a complicated combination between feeling for someone and having sex with someone. So lets say if you:
have sex with both genders but only have an hetero relationshionship that dosen't make you a sexually-bi-straight person. That doesn't make sense. You fall into the definition of bisexual. In my opinion.
Wanting a relationship with a man does not make you gay. When a man is only interested in having a relationship with a man, sexual or emotionally, that makes him gay.
In my opinion, being bisexual means you _iew both sexes equally in terms of being open to sex and developing an emotional connection.
I much prefer the sexual orientations I have available on another site I'm on as I am able to describe myself as hetero-flexible. I am flexible with my sexuality but not bisexual as I would not have a relationship with a woman. To me, the scenario you've quoted makes the man hetero-flexible, in my opinion, not bisexual.
crystal
Clearly you want to be straight when people are looking for a straight guy and bi when they are looking a bi guy and so on. You can't be both I am afraid. A straight guy cannot be bi or gay at the same time or chose to switch when he feels thats what will get him a shagg. You are either straight or bi. Make a choice in your life.
I don't know how or why I would want to be a straight guy or a bi guy as I can't be either without undergoing some serious surgery-I signed off as crystal to indicate that it was the female half of the couple who wrote the post "
Oops. You got me there
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"As long as its fun why label? "
Because it's significant for others to make a decision wether they want to play with you or not. If I were gay and I don't state it in my profile I will attract people who are not compatible with my sexuality. Same applies to straight, bi, bi-curious ect... |
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"As long as its fun why label?
Because it's significant for others to make a decision wether they want to play with you or not. If I were gay and I don't state it in my profile I will attract people who are not compatible with my sexuality. Same applies to straight, bi, bi-curious ect..."
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Ha ha yea strait lads that iv been with are in denial . Few weeks ago I pulled a lad off here said he was strait but would try most things after half an hour with me I'd lubed my cock an fingered his ass then pushed my big hard bi sexual cock rite up him an fucked his strait ass like a whore I was fuckin him hard an fast an I kept shouting woo hoo who's a dirty little HOMO now then |
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"As long as its fun why label?
Because it's significant for others to make a decision wether they want to play with you or not. If I were gay and I don't state it in my profile I will attract people who are not compatible with my sexuality. Same applies to straight, bi, bi-curious ect..."
that is why people should be honest if we get contacted and say's str8 on profile then in msg say's oh yea but were bi ... will not get a meet from us!! I don't see the hang up of putting on profile "Bi-cur " surely pro's out weigh con's!!!!!!!!!!!  |
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