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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

i need an escape lol

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

D.I.V.O.R.C.E

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's called divorce. Happy to help.

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By *stwoCouple over a year ago

anywhere

Divorce.no point whingeing about being unhappy.easy enough to resolve.try backbone instead of wishbone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i need an escape lol"

Then man up and leave.

Or are you hoping for a sympathy shag?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you cannot resolve your marriage issues... Sort them and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

do your wife a favour and let her find a man that is good for her. give her an easy divorce and go forth and fuck as often as you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hoping for some one in similar position to chat to

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By *unky monkeyMan over a year ago

in the night garden

Yo Tim bro! Long time no speak! Have you considered a hobby such as cheese making?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Tim

I have no interest in why married people end up on here, it truly is none of my business. Just be up front on the profile and let people make an informed choice.

What does grate with me, is when people show disrespect for their other half on the internet. It just seems tawdry to be writing words to strangers that elude to a broken relationship and they are invisible to the person you are writing about.

Just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you... there are many.

and leave the scrapings of dignity intact to your loved one, previous loved one, the person you live with and can't leave or however you decide to describe her.

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"The problem is all inside your head", she said to me

The answer is easy if you take it logically

I'd like to help you in your struggle to be free

There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

She said it's really not my habit to intrude

Furthermore, I hope my meaning won't be lost or misconstrued

But I'll repeat myself, at the risk of being crude

There must be fifty ways to leave your lover

Fifty ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back, Jack

Make a new plan, Stan

You don't need to be coy, Roy

Just get yourself free

Hop on the bus, Gus

You don't need to discuss much

Just drop off the key, Lee

And get yourself free

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Find someone to Rim Tim.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hate is a strong word

If your unhappy. Change it

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"Tim

I have no interest in why married people end up on here, it truly is none of my business. Just be up front on the profile and let people make an informed choice.

Just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you... there are many.

and leave the scrapings of dignity intact to your loved one, previous loved one, the person you live with and can't leave or however you decide to describe her.

Well said! X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Does she make nice chips ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i need an escape lol"

1. Dig an elaborated network of tunnels under your house

2. Find your way to the spine shop

3. Buy a spine

4. Leave your wife

5. ???

6. Profit

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"Tim

I have no interest in why married people end up on here, it truly is none of my business. Just be up front on the profile and let people make an informed choice.

Just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you... there are many.

and leave the scrapings of dignity intact to your loved one, previous loved one, the person you live with and can't leave or however you decide to describe her.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why buy a spine when there are fleshlights to be had?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if you are that unhappy speak to your wife!!!!

not a fab forum, how would she feel about knowing this if she was to find this post

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Get out then..you cant get the years back.....

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By *o1mrtlcMan over a year ago

cannock

If you both are unhappy and you can't sort it out then call it a day and both go your separate ways and move on.

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"Find someone to Rim Tim."

You're a poet,

Granny,

You know it!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I think he meant he needed an escape during the times he can escape.

Not a family bust up , split , parting sort of escape.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I very much doubt finding random strangers so have fun with will make your situation any better or make you hate being married any less.

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By *rnortholtMan over a year ago

Waveney Valley

"i need an escape lol

Then man up and leave.

Or are you hoping for a sympathy shag?"

Do you do them? Only my cat just died and.....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Find someone to Rim Tim.

You're a poet,

Granny,

You know it!"

Take a purple Pill Will

Slap it on a Granny Fanny

This invite is Shite Dwight

Just take it as a Joke Bloke......

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Paul Simon got a fortune for rhyming words..... I missed out somewhere along the line.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tim

I have no interest in why married people end up on here, it truly is none of my business. Just be up front on the profile and let people make an informed choice.

Just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you... there are many.

and leave the scrapings of dignity intact to your loved one, previous loved one, the person you live with and can't leave or however you decide to describe her.

Couldn't have put it better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

its ok for every one who has swinging partners but thats wot im looking for

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

I think he meant he needed an escape during the times he can escape.

Not a family bust up , split , parting sort of escape.

Maybe this would be more appropriate then...

I was tired of my lady, we'd been together too long

Like a worn-out recording of a favorite song

So while she lay there sleepin', I read the paper in bed

And in the personal columns there was this letter I read

'If you like Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain

If you're not into yoga, if you have half a brain

If you like making love at midnight in the dunes on the cape

Then I'm the love that you've looked for write to me and escape'

I didn't think about my lady, I know that sounds kinda mean

But me and my old lady had fallen into the same old dull routine

So I wrote to the paper, took out a personal ad

And though I'm nobody's poet, I thought it wasn't half bad

"Yes, I like Pina Coladas and getting caught in the rain

I'm not much into health food, I am into champagne

I've got to meet you by tomorrow noon and cut through all this red tape

At a bar called O'Malleys where we'll plan our escape"

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"its ok for every one who has swinging partners but thats wot im looking for"

I don't have a swinging partner. I also was married and miserable, so I did something about it, now I get to life my life how I want. He's happier now too. Move on and live your life. No point moaning about it and not doing anything about it!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its ok for every one who has swinging partners but thats wot im looking for"

But even people in a similar situation to you, do not come online and put in writing their hatred of being married, not just once or twice either. Don't you have any consideration to how your wife would feel if she read what you write in forums here?

Mind you might get a quick resolution to your problem then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hit the road jack

And don't you come back no more no more no more no more

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Hit the road jack

And don't you come back no more no more no more no more"

Whadda you say ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fella, don't think you're going to get much sympathy here - think you've misjudged things posting that on these forums, it's very unlikely you're going to get a "there there dear" response here matey! #justsayin..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

From the males.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Tim

I have no interest in why married people end up on here, it truly is none of my business. Just be up front on the profile and let people make an informed choice.

Just do your thing with people who will do their thing with you... there are many.

and leave the scrapings of dignity intact to your loved one, previous loved one, the person you live with and can't leave or however you decide to describe her.

Wise words and nicely written as always View

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By *issHottieBottieWoman over a year ago

Kent

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

From the males."

Agreed. I won't comment any different.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would like to know what's going on in your marriage. Can't you sort it out somehow

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can't be that easy to suggest a divorce.

I imagine in many cases, one partner is not happy with the relationship. However, they are considerate enough to not want to hurt the other partner. So how do you deal with such a situation ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

From the males."

Lol just about to say I wouldn't change my opinion !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Show some respect for your wife and leave her some dignity

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"It can't be that easy to suggest a divorce.

I imagine in many cases, one partner is not happy with the relationship. However, they are considerate enough to not want to hurt the other partner. So how do you deal with such a situation ?

You carry on hurting each other 24/7 for life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its ok for every one who has swinging partners but thats wot im looking for"

Sounds to me like you are looking for an affair presumably because however much you claim to hate your marriage having someone else to move on to is a much easier option than being alone.

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

"if you are that unhappy speak to your wife!!!!

not a fab forum, how would she feel about knowing this if she was to find this post "

Or the fact he's on a swingers site at all. Maybe he hates being married because it gets in the way of his fab activities.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"It can't be that easy to suggest a divorce.

I imagine in many cases, one partner is not happy with the relationship. However, they are considerate enough to not want to hurt the other partner. So how do you deal with such a situation ?

as difficult as a divorce may be to face up to and go through, surely its preferable in the short term to living with no respect for someone else and for yourself..

as usual View is spot on..

disclaimer, same applies to females in the same position..

funny thing is they tend to keep schtumm about such stuff..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i need an escape lol"
Is the grass greener on the other side.? Everything in life a risk and its if you wish to take it really and at what cost to you and family. ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Show some respect for your wife and leave her some dignity"

Perhaps he is showing her respect by not breaking her heart through divorce.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"its ok for every one who has swinging partners but thats wot im looking for

Sounds to me like you are looking for an affair presumably because however much you claim to hate your marriage having someone else to move on to is a much easier option than being alone.

this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As harsh as this is going to sound, man up, grow a set of balls and leave either fab to work on your marriage or your wife.

Having a swinging partner will not help your situation!!!

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By *illwill69uMan over a year ago

moston

"As harsh as this is going to sound, man up, grow a set of balls and leave either fab to work on your marriage or your wife.

Having a swinging partner will not help your situation!!! "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Show some respect for your wife and leave her some dignity

Perhaps he is showing her respect by not breaking her heart through divorce."

or he could do her a favour..

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By *he_original_poloWoman over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Choke her on your cock, bury her in the garden, get sent down.... and have all the sex you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As harsh as this is going to sound, man up, grow a set of balls and leave either fab to work on your marriage or your wife.

Having a swinging partner will not help your situation!!! "

And change those shorts!

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple over a year ago

midlands

"As harsh as this is going to sound, man up, grow a set of balls and leave either fab to work on your marriage or your wife.

Having a swinging partner will not help your situation!!! "

I agree

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

You seem to only like to talk about being married......and normally I dont care what married people get up to but I find your thread very disrespectful to the woman you once loved and I think you should do her a favour and divorce her as you are so unhappy so she can get on with her life.

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By *ucky1Man over a year ago

a straightjacket

I suggest you take a bath, then slap copious amounts of veet on ya nads. Hope you found your thread helpful

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It can't be that easy to suggest a divorce.

I imagine in many cases, one partner is not happy with the relationship. However, they are considerate enough to not want to hurt the other partner. So how do you deal with such a situation ?

Finding out they've been cheating would, I expect, hurt more. Do you think the lady in question would thank him for doing it to save her the hurt of asking for a divorce?

Would you want to stay with someone who is just going through the motions rather than being able to move on and, perhaps, find somebody who genuinely loves you?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"You seem to only like to talk about being married......and normally I dont care what married people get up to but I find your thread very disrespectful to the woman you once loved and I think you should do her a favour and divorce her as you are so unhappy so she can get on with her life."

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Show some respect for your wife and leave her some dignity

Perhaps he is showing her respect by not breaking her heart through divorce."

Respect?

He's discussing his personal life with all and sundry but not the woman he made a vow to. A woman who, presumably, trusts him.

There are people on this site who were celibate for years when in an unhappy relationship which they didn't feel they could leave, for one reason or another.

Humans don't die without sex.

If you were to ask the lady in question whether she'd prefer a divorce or her husband sneaking around, lying, fucking other people and slagging off their marriage to a bunch of strangers, which do you think she'd choose.

If she caught him, do you think she'd feel respected and thank him for going to such lengths to be able to bear staying with her?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Salvation isn't found in others. Take responsibility for your part in why you hate your marriage and either sort it out, live on in misery or get out.

I also rather hope your wife is out enjoying herself on a Wednesday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i need an escape lol"

Your wife said the same thing to me last night while we were messaging dirty things to each other

You know she's on here, right??

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

He's barely said three sentences.

He's not said anything about his wife.

He has said he doesn't like being married.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's barely said three sentences.

He's not said anything about his wife.

He has said he doesn't like being married.

"
well gran you know how it is here, They look at his old posts and then make their minds up . That green arrow has a lot to answer for .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

ooooooo old posts......

I must go and see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ooooooo old posts......

I must go and see

I got into trouble last year for commenting on one thread when he was off to some show and had a stall there with his wife. He was posting to get people to go along and meet him

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By *c-ukMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

Here Here... A famous person once said

"Whoever undertakes to set himself up as judge in the field of truth and knowledge is shipwrecked by the laughter of the Gods." Albert Einstein.. Think it was pretty much a given that he was maybe a little smarter than the Supreme Court of the Forumites!! What do think

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tim, Tim, buy some Vim

To clean up your life

Before your wife

Leaves you for him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

Here Here... A famous person once said

I think if you don't want to be judged, don't start threads inviting judgement.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

.....sensing a band wagon to jump on....

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By *c-ukMan over a year ago

Sevenoaks

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

Here Here... A famous person once said

I think if you don't want to be judged, don't start threads inviting judgement."

I totally agree... My point was there was no effort to find out any circumstances.. People just respond with sound bites like "Man Up", "I did this", "I did that"...

I agree that the message was not thought out and invited that kind of response and if he is looking for sympathy then he was ill advised...

I just cannot condone people who pass judgement without knowing the facts.. His wife could be struck down with Celluloid, Fannyitus of the lymph gangles.. Yet people just say!! Leave her, I did cos I'm super johnny big ego.. He's better off cos my ego left him etc etc!!

Just my Anne Robinson.. POV!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was in the same position, took me 18 months from telling him I no longer loved him to finding the courage to leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's barely said three sentences.

He's not said anything about his wife.

He has said he doesn't like being married.

just what I was thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You have been tried and judged by the Fab Forumites. My tip, create a female profile, come back on the forums and say the same thing and you'll get huge amounts of sympathy and offers for a shag.

Here Here... A famous person once said

I think if you don't want to be judged, don't start threads inviting judgement.

I totally agree... My point was there was no effort to find out any circumstances.. People just respond with sound bites like "Man Up", "I did this", "I did that"...

I agree that the message was not thought out and invited that kind of response and if he is looking for sympathy then he was ill advised...

Just my Anne Robinson.. POV!!

As all ready mentioned on the thread the green arrow shows multiple threads on this topic and I suspect this is a factor in the tone of the responses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"He's barely said three sentences.

He's not said anything about his wife.

He has said he doesn't like being married.

just what I was thinking.

Read all the other threads he's put on then.......

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Think we can leave it there

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