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You discover your significant other has been meeting a couple for some balls-deep action whilst you thought they were out at work. Do you:
a) Congratulate them on not coming home with jizz on their work clothes.
b) Check the dates on their condom stash to see how many they have used.
c) Do nothing because you're scared of losing them. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Polo! Where ya been?
My answer is, if we weren't in an agreed open relationship I'd kick them in the genitals and dump them.
If we were in an open relationship, I'd kick them in the genitals for lying to me and seriously consider dumping them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."
if the question was aimed at me, any significant other would be male as im straight
you'd answer the question as if it was a female |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends if its vanilla or swinging?
really? why would it matter?
sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless"
doesnt mention cheating chick!
never assume x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."
I was going to ask that too but decided it was because it was women answering the "your partner" bit of the question and they don't have or consider having female partners.
My response is d) talk to them about it before deciding on any action.
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If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details 
I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends if its vanilla or swinging?
really? why would it matter?
sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless
doesnt mention cheating chick!
never assume x"
if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)
id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"depends if its vanilla or swinging?
really? why would it matter?
sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless
doesnt mention cheating chick!
never assume x
if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)
id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying "
I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?
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"If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details
I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar"
 Good way of putting it.
“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ? Friedrich Nietzsche |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"depends if its vanilla or swinging?
really? why would it matter?
sure he's cheating on you and betraying your trust regardless
doesnt mention cheating chick!
never assume x
if someone was meeting another couple without telling me, (letting me believe they were at work)
id class that as being dishonest, secretive and lying
I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?"
It would to me. In an open relationship there should be no reason to lie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can agree slightly but in a open relationship would it matter?
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absolutely.. its so open that a significant other couldnt tell me he was meeting someone else..
id be pissed off for sure, so in my eyes its cheating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"open relationship can meet when they wish to
that's how i have always saw it
but what do i know ha
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well if that works for you
but if i were to have an open relationship there would still be communication between myself and my partner and id not do anything without telling him first, and id expect the same in return.
If your in a relationship when you play ignorant to each others sexual ventures and it works fair play.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"D: Smear a cut up Scotch Bonnet chilli on their genitals while they sleep."
That is a bit harsh and to easy to get caught out rub it on toothbrush instead lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And why is everyone assuming it's the male half of the couple.."
assuming the ladies that commented are straight I would assume their other half was male. Am I wrong?  |
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"open relationship can meet when they wish to
that's how i have always saw it
but what do i know ha
well if that works for you
but if i were to have an open relationship there would still be communication between myself and my partner and id not do anything without telling him first, and id expect the same in return.
If your in a relationship when you play ignorant to each others sexual ventures and it works fair play.. "
I'd go with that too. An open relationship is still a relationship. I would expect my partner to tell me when and where he was meeting and I would do the same for him. An open relationship doesn't mean you carry on as if you are single. You'd just be fuck buddies if that was the case. |
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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago
Darlington |
"You discover your significant other has been meeting a couple for some balls-deep action whilst you thought they were out at work. Do you:
a) Congratulate them on not coming home with jizz on their work clothes.
b) Check the dates on their condom stash to see how many they have used.
c) Do nothing because you're scared of losing them."
I had this very same thing. However he didn'tuse our couples profile but used a seperate single profile. We are now split because of it. Lying and cheating is the same no matter how you split it. |
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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago
Darlington |
"If not an agreed open relationship I would make him pay big time. If it is then I would make him suffer for lying to me and not sharing details
I live my life in such a way that I give no one a reason to lie to me. The truth I can forgive but I do not tolerate a liar
Good way of putting it.
“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” ? Friedrich Nietzsche"
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