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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Pah! A typical couples reaction!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Pah! A typical couples reaction!!!

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lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've had this but if you post something here, no matter how tiny it may seem to us as the poster, others may find something they don't like, it what happens. females do get comments too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Its very true and would love to know why!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Same response from me regardless whether a poster is male or female.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've had this but if you post something here, no matter how tiny it may seem to us as the poster, others may find something they don't like, it what happens. females do get comments too "

Very true, I suppose posts here can be taken in various different ways depending on the readers mood or life experiences. We just feel that the single fella's get a rough time in these forums at times

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've had this but if you post something here, no matter how tiny it may seem to us as the poster, others may find something they don't like, it what happens. females do get comments too

Very true, I suppose posts here can be taken in various different ways depending on the readers mood or life experiences. We just feel that the single fella's get a rough time in these forums at times "

Yes they do, I meant to include that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central


"I've had this but if you post something here, no matter how tiny it may seem to us as the poster, others may find something they don't like, it what happens. females do get comments too

Very true, I suppose posts here can be taken in various different ways depending on the readers mood or life experiences. We just feel that the single fella's get a rough time in these forums at times "

Agreed. The class system never stopped, it just evolved into a fab version.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agreed as I have had this also,, but on a similar note if you post something non sexual you get very little response from single men yet the slightest sexual mention and you can be inundated with male lewd response

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

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no I treat everyone the same...

..what I'm really saying is I passionately hate everyone equally

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have posted a few topics . Some quite controversial . And had very good feedback and comments . So does not always happen to single guys

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well said. I agree 100% with you....and it strange how its allways the same people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend to.post the same if its male or female I don't always look to see who started thread but avoid the look st me posts or the I'm leaving .........beg me to stay posts as all the females get oh your wonderful don't go and the males get don't let the door hit you on the way out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I disagree. I have seen some posts from single women where they have been absolutely slated. As for single men posts being unfairly attacked alot of the time it is justified. Feel free to slate me for that comment - I have broad shoulders and can take it. In fact I'm off to the gym to get even bigger shoulders lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" I have broad shoulders and can take it."

oh yeah I forgot

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

It's very noticeable there were a couple of recent examples that really highlighted it for me. But it's a complicated issue and will not be resolved in my lifetime

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I said I may leave a while ago, didn't get begged to stay from here. few non forum friends did say don't go

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I give the same opinion whether it be a male or female OP, but yes I have seen posts that were started by female posters getting a completely different response to that posted by males!

Like the " I'm leaving " posts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I tend to.post the same if its male or female I don't always look to see who started thread but avoid the look st me posts or the I'm leaving .........beg me to stay posts as all the females get oh your wonderful don't go and the males get don't let the door hit you on the way out "

In this respect I agree the response is totally different, however when a femme posts many of the replies are from ............ single guys! Small wonder then that they are going to be positive?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Also the reaction if other posters to replies is different eg you reply to a woman saying something other than "you are gorgeous" and a fleet of knights in shining armour ride to her rescue, say something dodgy to a guy and it's a different story. I know that's a bit of an over exaggeration but you get my drift.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Perception is everything.

I don't see single men slated.

I see idiotic comments addressed albeit not always politely.

Sensible , fair minded talk is generally accepted and commented on sensibly regardless of gender.

I do see gender issues playing a huge part in how posts are responded to.

In general females fawn over attractive males or males they think will give them attention and that is equally the same with men.

Even without the sex factor , males tend to go easier on females for many reasons i.e. being perceived as twats, women beaters or bullies.

To some extent SOME women feel safer berating a man than they do a woman as they are less likely to be given it back even if they are totally conscious of it.

Intelligent wiser women and men go easy on either gender where they get the impression that there isn't much going on between the ears.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Perception is everything.

I don't see single men slated.

I see idiotic comments addressed albeit not always politely.

Sensible , fair minded talk is generally accepted and commented on sensibly regardless of gender.

I do see gender issues playing a huge part in how posts are responded to.

In general females fawn over attractive males or males they think will give them attention and that is equally the same with men.

Even without the sex factor , males tend to go easier on females for many reasons i.e. being perceived as twats, women beaters or bullies.

To some extent SOME women feel safer berating a man than they do a woman as they are less likely to be given it back even if they are totally conscious of it.

Intelligent wiser women and men go easy on either gender where they get the impression that there isn't much going on between the ears. "

Especially the last sentence.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

Granny speaks the truth.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Granny speaks the truth."

But then she is a woman

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Granny speaks the truth.

But then she is a woman "

So rumour has it ....

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By *nigmatic1Woman  over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Incidentally .... the last paragraph should say ... Even if they are NOT totally aware of it.

If I use the word 'generally' or 'in general' again shoot me.

I have been up twenty mins and im off for a swim xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx "

I totally agree, it happens all the time. I guess there are a few sycophants who are scared of upsetting the women and couples

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

It makes me smile it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx

I totally agree, it happens all the time. I guess there are a few sycophants who are scared of upsetting the women and couples "

only a few.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx

I totally agree, it happens all the time. I guess there are a few sycophants who are scared of upsetting the women and couples

only a few. "

and they aren't scared of upsetting them they're hoping for a shag

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It makes me smile it is what it is.

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that's true as well. You and Granny shoudl write a book

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Intelligent wiser women and men go easy on either gender where they get the impression that there isn't much going on between the ears. "

Ahhh, so that's why people are nice to me!

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Same response from me regardless whether a poster is male or female. "

this.......

but it could also be that there aren't the amounts of "white knights" in those threads trying to make themselves look good as well.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's true men write a post and get slated, a women can write a similar post and get everyone to agree, all the women stick together, and all the blokes creep to them, 'I totally agree love' ' you're so right darling' ' I think you look hot babe'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Same response from me regardless whether a poster is male or female.

this.......

but it could also be that there aren't the amounts of "white knights" in those threads trying to make themselves look good as well.....

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True, you can spot them a mile off

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's true men write a post and get slated, a women can write a similar post and get everyone to agree, all the women stick together, and all the blokes creep to them, 'I totally agree love' ' you're so right darling' ' I think you look hot babe' "

You are so right love, I totally agree with you.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"It's true men write a post and get slated, a women can write a similar post and get everyone to agree, all the women stick together, and all the blokes creep to them, 'I totally agree love' ' you're so right darling' ' I think you look hot babe' "

That isn't entirely true I have noticed that if I post disagreeing with a woman some (& I emphasise some) men will turn on me. I don't get all the white knights because I don't set myself up for it. I think it's a mutual thing and those engaging in it actively encourage it.....no harm in that if that's what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

couples can be right twats as well as single women.

the largest group will show up more idiots than the lesser groups...

the larger group IS men, single men.

all of the groups above can bring negative aspects to the scene, sometimes its good to help out..then sometimes there is no hope and just let the twats carry on the way they are doing things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

* oh I will add some guys over the past few weeks have made right CUNTS of themselves..thank fuck I sensed the usernolongeronsite would be coming soon afterwards

Thank fuck they left, but hopefully might come back once grown up a little

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Also depends on if the poster is a regular or a newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Types of forum post where females definitely get an easier time than males, IMO (list not exhaustive):

- I'm leaving Fab

- A stranger was mildly unpleasant toward me

- I'm playing without my partners knowledge

- 'Look at me!'

- Am I unattractive?

Examples not supplied, but they're easy enough to find.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx "

I agree with u totally !! I had some great giggles with single fellers alway polite and they even carry on chatting even when they know we not meeting singles at me xx so to all my single men who I have chatted too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I agree. But single guys are to blame as well. Far too many of em are using the forum as a way to "introduce" themselves to a potential meet. So strategy agree with what she says no matter how shite it is in the hope she reads and a window of opportunity is made.

personally I post what I want don't like it ? Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Types of forum post where females definitely get an easier time than males, IMO (list not exhaustive):

- I'm leaving Fab

- A stranger was mildly unpleasant toward me

- I'm playing without my partners knowledge

- 'Look at me!'

- Am I unattractive?

Examples not supplied, but they're easy enough to find. "

My personal favourite is my meet just cancelled or stood me up. Some of the replies when a woman posts it always make me chuckle and cringe at the same time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's true men write a post and get slated, a women can write a similar post and get everyone to agree, all the women stick together, and all the blokes creep to them, 'I totally agree love' ' you're so right darling' ' I think you look hot babe' "

If the bloke wrote that it's utter bollocks. If the female wrote it you are soooooo right sweet tits xxxxxx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Types of forum post where females definitely get an easier time than males, IMO (list not exhaustive):

- I'm leaving Fab

- A stranger was mildly unpleasant toward me

- I'm playing without my partners knowledge

- 'Look at me!'

- Am I unattractive?

Examples not supplied, but they're easy enough to find. "

I'll agree with anything you say

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I noticed this after being on the forum for a few weeks. I was lurking in my week of not being able to post. I noticed it's the same people jumping on the single men and either belittling them or calling them sexual deviants for wanting sex. Married men get slaughtered too. Unfortunately you can't stop people commenting on your posts and the poster ends up in a long drawn out argument where he feels he has to defend himself from people who are mostly using the site to fill boredom in their lives

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Hmmm due to this post you might find more fake profiles, as people try this experiment for themselves.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple  over a year ago

North Yorkshire

naw if the subject is straight out of the muppets we will taake piss no matter what gender lol only joking mods honest!!!!!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hmmm due to this post you might find more fake profiles, as people try this experiment for themselves."

you only have to look at threads to see the evidence

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Types of forum post where females definitely get an easier time than males, IMO (list not exhaustive):

- I'm leaving Fab

- A stranger was mildly unpleasant toward me

- I'm playing without my partners knowledge

- 'Look at me!'

- Am I unattractive?

Examples not supplied, but they're easy enough to find.

I'll agree with anything you say"

Always good to have an ally

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

I reply to threads that are from guys, girls and couples alike, some are fun and some are serious topics but I don't think I have ever attacked or been mean to anyone.

Some of the more acidic remarks I have seen I have read as banter and not necessarily a personal attack at the poster

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's true men write a post and get slated, a women can write a similar post and get everyone to agree, all the women stick together, and all the blokes creep to them, 'I totally agree love' ' you're so right darling' ' I think you look hot babe'

If the bloke wrote that it's utter bollocks. If the female wrote it you are soooooo right sweet tits xxxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think its quite sad that there are a few keyboard warriors and literature police on here with the sole intent on slating people constantly . The daft thing is these people also think they are gods gift when infact they are just avarage! Single guys do get battered on here by couples, single fems that feel tgey hold the power and a few guys that kiss butt in the hope of getting some. I could never be that desperate. I do ok out side of fab .there are also clubs too. Anything that comes from fab is a bonus but no way will I beg which is what some on here unfortunately feel us single guys ahould do. Rant over feel better for that. Dashed my chances now with a few but hey ho plenty of beautiful women out there still lol.

Im waiting here for the bashing on me to commence lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think its quite sad that there are a few keyboard warriors and literature police on here with the sole intent on slating people constantly . The daft thing is these people also think they are gods gift when infact they are just avarage! Single guys do get battered on here by couples, single fems that feel tgey hold the power and a few guys that kiss butt in the hope of getting some. I could never be that desperate. I do ok out side of fab .there are also clubs too. Anything that comes from fab is a bonus but no way will I beg which is what some on here unfortunately feel us single guys ahould do. Rant over feel better for that. Dashed my chances now with a few but hey ho plenty of beautiful women out there still lol.

Im waiting here for the bashing on me to commence lol"

Well said,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think its quite sad that there are a few keyboard warriors and literature police on here with the sole intent on slating people constantly . The daft thing is these people also think they are gods gift when infact they are just avarage! Single guys do get battered on here by couples, single fems that feel tgey hold the power and a few guys that kiss butt in the hope of getting some. I could never be that desperate. I do ok out side of fab .there are also clubs too. Anything that comes from fab is a bonus but no way will I beg which is what some on here unfortunately feel us single guys ahould do. Rant over feel better for that. Dashed my chances now with a few but hey ho plenty of beautiful women out there still lol.

Im waiting here for the bashing on me to commence lol"

it will come plus the I know who I'm adding to my block list comments

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think its quite sad that there are a few keyboard warriors and literature police on here with the sole intent on slating people constantly . The daft thing is these people also think they are gods gift when infact they are just avarage! Single guys do get battered on here by couples, single fems that feel tgey hold the power and a few guys that kiss butt in the hope of getting some. I could never be that desperate. I do ok out side of fab .there are also clubs too. Anything that comes from fab is a bonus but no way will I beg which is what some on here unfortunately feel us single guys ahould do. Rant over feel better for that. Dashed my chances now with a few but hey ho plenty of beautiful women out there still lol.

Im waiting here for the bashing on me to commence lol

it will come plus the I know who I'm adding to my block list comments "

I can take the bashing and blocking if people are that shallow

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

But how bland would it be if we all agreed to post in the same way. The differences are what make things interesting for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But how bland would it be if we all agreed to post in the same way. The differences are what make things interesting for me"

I disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"But how bland would it be if we all agreed to post in the same way. The differences are what make things interesting for me

I disagree. "

Clever.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is true, single males are not as much liked here x.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is true, single males are not as much liked here x."

I honestly don't feel that way at all. I think Keenfucktographer explained it well:


"couples can be right twats as well as single women.

the largest group will show up more idiots than the lesser groups...

the larger group IS men, single men.

all of the groups above can bring negative aspects to the scene, sometimes its good to help out..then sometimes there is no hope and just let the twats carry on the way they are doing things."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

its all you saps that stick anything with a fanny up on a pedestal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This is true, single males are not as much liked here x.

I honestly don't feel that way at all. I think Keenfucktographer explained it well:

couples can be right twats as well as single women.

the largest group will show up more idiots than the lesser groups...

the larger group IS men, single men.

all of the groups above can bring negative aspects to the scene, sometimes its good to help out..then sometimes there is no hope and just let the twats carry on the way they are doing things."

Ah yes missed that one and it does.

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By *aucy3Couple  over a year ago

glasgow

I'm seeing it simular to the difference between,

Slut,and stud.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"This is true, single males are not as much liked here x."

I don't think that is the case at all... otherwise what would all those couples and single women who do like single men do....

what I will say it that I strongly believe that especially single men can be masters of there own fate on here....

you don't have to be a white knight, licking people arses and sliming up to all the women/couples..... conversely I don't think it helps if you are a "grade a arse" either....

the other problem is that people are very quick to go into "victim mode"... oh woe is me... and the last time I check sympathy didn't people many meets..

if you are different, then show you are different! I would like to meet someone who would at least stand up for their own convictions.. whether I agreed with them or not....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its all you saps that stick anything with a fanny up on a pedestal "

The "any hole's a goal" attitude does seem quite prevalent on here.

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

and before anyone takes offense... "grade a arse" is meant as a general term!!! don't want people getting sensitive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"and before anyone takes offense... "grade a arse" is meant as a general term!!! don't want people getting sensitive "

I'm only a grade b at the moment so it's cool.

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn


"This is true, single males are not as much liked here x."

I have never ever felt that because I have self belief and would never feel less than anyone else on here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I disagree.

I think it depends entirely on the subject being posted about.

For example, I'd say 99% of the many utterly stupid threads like"whats wrong with my profile/why won't anyone meet me/who else likes rubber gloves" are started by men. They are much more numerous and therefore you'll notice them being torn into more often.

I've yet to see a single woman ask if there's anything wrong with her profile as she can't get a meet. But if she did I'd be equally as scathing.

What you do see on here a lot is the Knight in Shining Armour syndrome, where when a woman is being an arse and someone calls her on it, many would-be suitors jump in to protect her honour in vain hope of a favour.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've seen a few girls get torn into, but by and large these have been girls who haven't protected the security of their images.... and then post threads asking for detailed fantasy fodder.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"its all you saps that stick anything with a fanny up on a pedestal "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Single men have to remember to ask the correct questions if they are new and haven't been to a club or social. So what if they think with their dicks. All men do, some take the trouble to hide it. Any man who isn't on here to find a fuck must be very lonely and need friends

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Single men have to remember to ask the correct questions if they are new and haven't been to a club or social. So what if they think with their dicks. All men do, some take the trouble to hide it. Any man who isn't on here to find a fuck must be very lonely and need friends "

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"and before anyone takes offense... "grade a arse" is meant as a general term!!! don't want people getting sensitive "

I happen to like a grade a arse....all the better for squeezing.

(Sorry couldn't resist....)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you are woman and a potential shagg then you are always right no matter how stupid you sounds .

If you are a man then you are a potential competitor and I have to make you look ridiculous .

When I got the balls to join the forum I started off in the Scotish forum for getting to know locals but after few weeks I noticed that there are some individuals (mainly single guys) who think the forum is theirs and any newbie guy to the forum should be slated. So I gave up and found joining the general forums where most participant women are too much far is more interesting. Cause it makes the environment more objective and my compliments won't be taken as an attempt to hook anyone. When I am looking for a potential meet I'd ruther use the search engine.

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Those who become deeply engrossed by the forum to a point of dependency also tend to develop a fucked up perspective on life... this whole "I can put men down for wanting sex unless they pamper to my every need" from some women and the "I must defend the honour of every scuzzer I wouldn't normally look twice at in order to be accepted" from the needy to please XY's.

Once someone has morphed into this, they are going to find pulling in real life an immense challenge.

It's a good job so many claim they want to be single.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"But how bland would it be if we all agreed to post in the same way. The differences are what make things interesting for me

I disagree. "

Lol! So do I

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please too see I wasnt slated to much for my rant lol. The thing to remember is we are all equal and have needs. No one sex should hold the upper hand. We are all here for the same reason and that is we like sex. Enjoy I say and if ya read something you dont like maybe just ignore it.each to their own

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By *oulou45Woman  over a year ago

Bucks

I have noticed it at times as well .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Having just been flicking through the forum subjects and reading lots of different posts by both males/females and couples we find it fascinating how most (not all) posts by single guys, the op is ridiculed and torn to pieces by some individuals and couples. But, when the same or very similar post is made by a fem, wow, the difference in attitude towards her is unbelievable!

This is only from our observations, we just feel that some people should cut the single fella's a little slack on this site

Please be nice, it is a Sunday xx "

It would be hard to miss how people are treated differently depending on sex I have heard a few theories from guys sucking up to women in the hope of a meet and putting other guys down who could be compensation and with women I have heard its the bitter twisted ones who have been let down by men who are scathing with men and with women they are nice openly but different in private its all a little sad really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Those who become deeply engrossed by the forum to a point of dependency also tend to develop a fucked up perspective on life... this whole "I can put men down for wanting sex unless they pamper to my every need" from some women and the "I must defend the honour of every scuzzer I wouldn't normally look twice at in order to be accepted" from the needy to please XY's.

Once someone has morphed into this, they are going to find pulling in real life an immense challenge.

It's a good job so many claim they want to be single."

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