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over a year ago
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I miss being in love but I'm terrified of it too, that's why I came here rather than a dating site. Relationships scare the living heck out of me since my marriage break up. |
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I've seen a couple of posts over the last week from ladies who have and it hasn't ended well.
My advice - of this happens to you don't splash it all over the forum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen a couple of posts over the last week from ladies who have and it hasn't ended well.
My advice - of this happens to you don't splash it all over the forum "
I agree. Ppl tend to jump in feet first before giving themselves time to adjust. Hence why it doesn't work out how they want it too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've seen a couple of posts over the last week from ladies who have and it hasn't ended well.
My advice - of this happens to you don't splash it all over the forum "
This is my first time using the forum lol n been on here for years lol |
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"I miss being in love but I'm terrified of it too, that's why I came here rather than a dating site. Relationships scare the living heck out of me since my marriage break up."
I hope your courage returns some day.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen a couple of posts over the last week from ladies who have and it hasn't ended well.
My advice - of this happens to you don't splash it all over the forum
This is my first time using the forum lol n been on here for years lol"
Ah well welcome to you.
Yes a couple of ladies have posted and not presented themselves In the best light recently. All because of that little four letter word. Hate to see someone else publically out their personal feelings. The forums can give some harsh responses at times. |
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over a year ago
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"it is truly lovely when it happens and you can see how happy people are.
sadly, not so when it doesn't work.
as above: if it doesn't, just move on with dignity. "
Very true |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen a couple of posts over the last week from ladies who have and it hasn't ended well.
My advice - of this happens to you don't splash it all over the forum
I agree. Ppl tend to jump in feet first before giving themselves time to adjust. Hence why it doesn't work out how they want it too!"
Over the last few years I've seen it happen a few times. Some you can spot in the forums, some you find out about through friends or mutual acquaintances.
Those that choose to make it known in here? I respect their choice. If it lasts - great. If it doesn't? Provided both parties don't descend into public bitching and arguments - all good. Relationships either work or don't, when they start both real life and via Fab. The difference being those that commence outside of Fab end up on bookface!
And I speak as someone very happily in a new relationship that started on Fab. Albeit one that's formed over time (it's a year today since our first 'coffee') and not in any way been 'jumped into'.
It can happen on here and can work out as well as any relationship formed elsewhere. And let's face it - if two singles wish to continue enjoying swinging, Fab and all that goes with it as a couple - I reckon it's a lot easier to do so having met on here than trying to integrate someone with no experience in the scene into your fun! |
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fell head over heels in love, best feeling ever. butterflies n constant smiling, aching cheeks was ace..
i enjoyed what i had for the length of time it lasted. no regrets  |
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I have felt love for some of my meets because a few of them I am very close to and now regard as friends.
It doesn't mean I am in a relationship with them, just that once naked and playing, there is little to hide behind and it's bought a closeness that I think is very special.
I've been single for 26 years, and it's highly unlikely that it will ever change but I never say never and in the meantime, I shall continue to leave my heart open for those I have love and respect for. |
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Yes from another site been happy married for 12 years now we was not looking for love or commitment but due to life changes we moved in together and the rest is history as they say so not only have we meet though swinging we also have made some truly amazing friends as well so for us swinging is a win win lifestyle |
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