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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hi people and evening am curious to what other people think and say ? I am a fond believer that if people in a relationship were more open with each other then there wouldn't be no need to cheat or lie to each other ? which I feel would then cut the amount of relationship break downs am I right or wrong ?

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By *icked weaselCouple over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Just Guessing - But - Your probably Right and Wrong !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is all to do with trust and values that you were brought up with

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"hi people and evening am curious to what other people think and say ? I am a fond believer that if people in a relationship were more open with each other then there wouldn't be no need to cheat or lie to each other ? which I feel would then cut the amount of relationship break downs am I right or wrong ? "

I think you're right to a great extent but both people need to be ready to accept openness and there needs to be a lot of trust and love...a chicken and egg situation in some ways.

Also there will always be people who thrive on lies and deceit.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

not at all.

if ALL couples were open with each other, one half may well find out the person they are in love with arent the person they thought they were at all.

if you think just being open and honest then everything you say will be taken on board and accepted, then you are very much mistaken.

relationships, as with life, is all about give and take.

little white lies that keep everyone happy.

as long as they dont turn into big black lies, then keeping things from each other is always healthy.

just because you have little secrets doesnt mean you will cheat.

if you cheat its always in you to cheat, and nothing or no one will ever change that, except you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everybody lies

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

We couldn't be more open, we tell each other everything. If you can't have complete openness and trust and need to lie about things your heading for a downward slope

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Everybody lies"
wrong

I have absolutely no reason to lie about anything in my relationship

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Everybody lies"
No they don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"Everybody lies"

I don't know about everyone but nearly everyone certainly.

Except me......or do I?

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By *exycleanerWoman over a year ago

pontefract

"Everybody liesNo they don't."
i not either .thats why i fell for my ex cos he not tell lies but he turned into a lying cheating scumbag ,who doesnt know the meaning of been open and honest

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Everybody liesNo they don't.i not either .thats why i fell for my ex cos he not tell lies but he turned into a lying cheating scumbag ,who doesnt know the meaning of been open and honest "
Well I will stick to what I said not everyone lies.

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