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just been turned down for meet as not slim.. I have a 30inch waist
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chatted to a guy for a while on here, exchanged numbers, text and spoke on the phone. Arranged a meet, social at first and randomly, out of the blue, he asked my dress size. When I said 18 he said he would never consider anyone over a 14 and I never heard from him again. Nowt queer as folk!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "
to be honest I don't think telling you they don't see you as slim is rude, we all have our own ideas of what is and isn't slim, curvy, big after all, your idea of slim just may not be theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I'm the opposite. I get told every bloody day how skinny I am . put some weight on lanky all the time. Getting sick of it now it's getting me down....   Then I wake up and open a new packet of jaffa cakes like the fat bastardo I am and normal service was resumed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol"
so physical looks do not matter to you? |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "
I'm far from slim but i get this for being to fat as i have a 50"chest & a 36-38" waist & at 6'3" i am in proportion but big, if i was 5'8 & the same build i would be average by comparison.
Let it go over your head mate lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "
Maybe you should post a pic with a tape measure for clarification - it's hard to tell 'size' simply from looking at a pic with nothing to compare!
Do you have sky?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude.
Maybe you should post a pic with a tape measure for clarification - it's hard to tell 'size' simply from looking at a pic with nothing to compare!
Do you have sky? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "
Fuck me - my thighs are 27". 
Stand next to me - you'll look thin then.  |
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"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience?
Fuck me - my thighs are 27".
Stand next to me - you'll look thin then. "
If we can drift aside from the topic slightly for a post or two - that's a damn good stormtrooper outfit! I want one!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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29' inch waist is the smallest I ever managed to diet down to, 30 is very lean for an average sized male, but I think chest/waist ratio is more important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol
so physical looks do not matter to you?"
if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts. |
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"I chatted to a guy for a while on here, exchanged numbers, text and spoke on the phone. Arranged a meet, social at first and randomly, out of the blue, he asked my dress size. When I said 18 he said he would never consider anyone over a 14 and I never heard from him again. Nowt queer as folk!!!"
I met a playmate on another site who had been on his profile "under size 16". He contacted me to say I sounded arrogant and up my own arse because I had 6ft plus only (he's 5ft 6). I pointed out he had his preferences I had mine.
Long story short we ended up meeting for a drink. He's un educated, writes in text speak, short, not a sub...everything I don't like and he ended up a brilliant shag!
Nowt as queer as folk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a 32!
Me too!
...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.
(Sighs)
Cake problem?
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It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a 32!
Me too!
...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.
(Sighs)
Cake problem?
It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol
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If you're spending £4 on a single cake each time then soon you won't have enough money to eat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol
so physical looks do not matter to you?
if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts."
I suppose we are all different, personally I couldn't get turned on by someone I was not physically attracted to no matter how much of a nice person they are
I alway's find it very odd when people will say they will literally shag anything so long as they get along, good for them but personally I couldn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At this rate everyone will be sticking their fingers down their throat after each meal.
Don't! There's a fetish niche for that! "
that's a new one for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a 32!
Me too!
...and to think i was a 28" just a couple of years ago.
(Sighs)
Cake problem?
It's that £4 Chocolate Gateaux cake from Iceland. Will be the death of me lol
If you're spending £4 on a single cake each time then soon you won't have enough money to eat!"
It's been a while since i've got back on the cake. And have you seen the size of the cake? It would alone last me a month lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think im about 48"
it wasn't your waist that was the problem, they just wanted an excuse."
I totally agree. 30" is slim, its only 4" bigger than my thigh lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far no one has ever turned me down because I am too fat, usually they see my pic, message me and want sex, I have never been asked the size of my waist, or cock come to that.
Then again, I have never messaged someone and asked if they want to meet me.
If anyone was petty enough to let age or size determine who they will meet I certainly wouldn't want to meet them.
Life is wonderous, colours, shapes, ages, everyone is unique and special, by restricting your choices you will miss out on soo much. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience?
Fuck me - my thighs are 27".
Stand next to me - you'll look thin then. "
I was thinking the same lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up."
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes. "
Do you eat the biscuity sides and chocolate only to be left with the orange on your finger?
...or is it just me?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes. "
indian lonely meal for one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.
indian lonely meal for one."
Ah can't scab some of yours then. I suppose I will have to go and forage for my own dinner. Gutted.... Plus side I can grab some more jaffa cakes for the morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.
Do you eat the biscuity sides and chocolate only to be left with the orange on your finger?
...or is it just me?
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No that's just you! They fit in my mahoosive mouth in a oner. No messing here. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
This is why I have a totally unglamorous and honest body pic on public. Anyone who wants to see how big I am can take a look and decide for themselves.
PS I have the body of a 20year old cheerleader.
PPS It's buried in my back garden.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im going eat as much cake biscuits and chocolate then order a takeaway tonight and try pushing the weight up.
What take away you getting? I'm getting hungry again now and I've ran out of jaffa cakes.
indian lonely meal for one.
I would bring you a pack of Jaffa cakes and have a idea when I could put them and you could eat them off me? can you guess where?
Ah can't scab some of yours then. I suppose I will have to go and forage for my own dinner. Gutted.... Plus side I can grab some more jaffa cakes for the morning. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I have a totally unglamorous and honest body pic on public. Anyone who wants to see how big I am can take a look and decide for themselves.
PS I have the body of a 20year old cheerleader.
PPS It's buried in my back garden.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I told them to take a look at my pictures no need to be so rude. "
To be fair, and I mean this constructively and not as an insult, your body pictures make it difficult to tell. Perhaps it's the angle but you look like you have a bit of a pot belly in them. Maybe that was the problem. |
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Because your one of these sad blokes that hang around every week hoping someone will shag him or ask him to join in. Screams of desperation to me
I got this two days ago
Oh well I no I'm no tom cruise just Bob the builder I still sleep well |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain
show off
Actually, I just noticed a protruding lump. Think it is a peanut I ate earlier "
I had to read all the thread and can't believe no-one's said it...Are you sure it's a peanut? Could it possibly be that you've got an erection? |
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"I thought it was a persons personality and attitude that made you want to meet. Not the size of their waste....lol
so physical looks do not matter to you?
if a person has a good personality or attitude then no their looks don't bother me. Mama always said it's what is on the inside that counts.
I suppose we are all different, personally I couldn't get turned on by someone I was not physically attracted to no matter how much of a nice person they are
I alway's find it very odd when people will say they will literally shag anything so long as they get along, good for them but personally I couldn't "
To be fair it's usually blokes you see saying it's all about the personality, hoping to increase their chances by appearing to be nice, non-judgemental and not at all fussy. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"I'm 30. If I get much slimmer I'll fall down a fookin drain
show off
Actually, I just noticed a protruding lump. Think it is a peanut I ate earlier
I had to read all the thread and can't believe no-one's said it...Are you sure it's a peanut? Could it possibly be that you've got an erection? "
You know what? I think you may be right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Woo never knew a 30 inch waist wasnt classed as slim. How rude are people? Anyone had any similar experience? "
Fuck them. They're obviously not worth it, if they're that fussy. |
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Oh, the luxury of a single guy being given not just a 'no thanks' but also a reason, instead of just being blocked! Some people may be slightly flabby at 30w, others ultra lean. They should have gone by topless photos, as it would be a clear indication of how you look. That said, they were honest, even if they could have said it a little differently. |
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