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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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I guess 'kissing chemistry' between two people comes down to personal taste. Someone I find a really sexy kisser paid me a great compliment on mine recently, and it made me think.
Guys I find are either good kissers or, um, not. And if not, there's not a lot I can do 'on the fly' to change their technique!
I wondered if men find the same - do women respond more to what you are doing and change much, or do they mostly stay how they are when they walked through the door??
What 'kissing qualities' thrill you most?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good kissing is pretty hard to pin down I think as it's like a work of art that you build as you go along and both parties should probably be responding to each other rather one trying to match up with the other?
A good kiss can be amazing, but if you are not in sync or can't respond to each others subtle queues then yes it's usually hard to pull things back.  |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.
Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the same can go for women.
In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves.
God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A pair of warm soft lips gets me every time when I kiss a woman.Ive had some in the past where they come at you with a wide open mouth immediately followed by a tongue being rammed down you throat YUK it puts me off straight away.A good woman kisser is when you kiss the sensation goes right down to your cock with a nice feeling of wanting to wrap your arms around her and protect her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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easy answer, i dont know lol
dont think kissing, the same good sex, si something that can be worked out with a pencil, as it were.
see, with some meets, soft sweet tender kisses have been the order, others, hard passionate ones, and its the same between us.
its just kind of what the time calls for.
i tend to change technique dependant on who is kissing me and how they are doing it, ie, hard closed mouth, then i do the same, little pecks, similarly, tongues and dancing in the mouth hall, then so be it.
have been told im a good kisser, but who knows.
obviously those that compliment you on something at the time are after something.
all i know is its kissing that really gets my motor runnin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the dance thing is a good analogy. You need to have the chemistry and both be able to adapt to each other. I think everyone changes how they kiss, depending on who they are kissing. Which is no bad thing.
I don't think I kiss everyone the same way. The same way that everyone has to adapt to different people when it comes to sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A pair of warm soft lips gets me every time when I kiss a woman.Ive had some in the past where they come at you with a wide open mouth immediately followed by a tongue being rammed down you throat YUK it puts me off straight away.A good woman kisser is when you kiss the sensation goes right down to your cock with a nice feeling of wanting to wrap your arms around her and protect her. "
Its normally guys who come at ya with an open mouth and try and remove any makeup off you maybe wearing ..then dive in with a very wet tongue....yuck yuck    |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the same can go for women.
In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves.
God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing "
Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!). |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the same can go for women.
In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves.
God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing
Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!)."
That has been my experience. I also think there is then a close correlation to how much they let go during foreplay and sex and allow the dance to move to other parts of the body |
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"I think the same can go for women.
In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves... THATS THE WAY TO DO IT!
God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing
Hmmm, I think you may have hit the nail on the head there - the responsive ones ARE the good kissers (and conversely the ones that don't, aren't!)."
 ,.... kissing is a private silent conversation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.
Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically...."
I totally agree with you. A good kiss can change my mood instantly |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff  "
Ah, but then someone would have to post and 'verify' them ....oh, wait a minute...... |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I like kissing. I hope I'm good at it. Someone I've kissed will have to post and tell everyone if I'm right or a deluded kissoff "
I don't kiss and tell (well, not about the kissing anyway). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That is true for me. It may be quite bad on my part (maybe) but sometimes that first kiss dictates the whole meet.
I'm a bit weird maybe. But the way someone's kiss me i think shows if they're interested in me and have that 'lust'.
Kissing is what turns me on. So, that would be the make it or break it element.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess 'kissing chemistry' between two people comes down to personal taste. Someone I find a really sexy kisser paid me a great compliment on mine recently, and it made me think.
Guys I find are either good kissers or, um, not. And if not, there's not a lot I can do 'on the fly' to change their technique!
I wondered if men find the same - do women respond more to what you are doing and change much, or do they mostly stay how they are when they walked through the door??
What 'kissing qualities' thrill you most?
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We remember kissing as a route to what we really wanted when were young, then forgot about it when we had our daily portion on a plate...as it were. It took me a while to realise and re-discover the sheer intimacy of it...as the perfect preamble and accompaniment to 'the joy of sex'! |
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I lurve kissing,Ive had women say you take my breath away. Last year I met this girl outside a nightclub and we chatted and had a snog. We didnt meet up that night I was gutted. I told my friend on here about what happened. She said to me couldnt she tell by how you kissed her that youd be amazing in bed. I thort that was a nice compliment Two days later I found the girl again and we fell in love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.
Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love a passionate kiss and someone who can take me on a sensual journey with their mouths..
Once had a guy who's idea of kissing was to open his mouth, limpet it to my face, wiggle his tongue as far down my throat as possible and dribble large amounts of saliva.......most unpleasant it felt like I was drowning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing with someone I'm comfortable and attracted to is something that can turn me on so much.
Without a lush kiss I'm not interested in play... A lovely snog gets me ready mentally and physically...."
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.
Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong."
I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there. |
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By *risky_Mare OP Woman
over a year ago
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"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.
Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong.
I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there."
It works the other way round for me too though - a fabulous kiss can 'transport' me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the same can go for women.
In my opinion good kissers respond to the way you kiss them. Good kissing is like a very erotic dance of the mouth and tongue....when deeply connected the erotic dance just flows with both people initiating and responding to different moves.
God it's got me all horny just thinking about it....I love kissing "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.
Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong.
I sort of agree with that - which is why I am bad at kissing. Anyone that has got to know me gets kisses (whether they like them or not) but for me it's difficult to start there.
It works the other way round for me too though - a fabulous kiss can 'transport' me."
That's true. I did meet someone and all we did for the first three meets was kiss. And kiss for hours. My legs would be jelly. The sex was bloody awful though.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"EWWW kissing, has no place in random sex, kissing is special for someone you love and should be kept special.
Licking and nibbling an arse, sucking a cock, all fine and perfectly acceptable, but kissing is intimate, I don't know how anyone could kiss a stranger.... its so so wrong."
it took one of my regular men 2 years to kiss me. When he did it made everything feel different and I wanted him more. Now he kisses me passionately, sucks on my tongue and tells me to put my tongue deep in his mouth. I still don't know what prompted him to kiss me the first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We both love kissing and also want it with people we meet However we do not kiss our meets the way we kiss each other.
Meets are hot n horny , where as when we kiss its more about a sensual and deep connection we have with each other
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy can't kiss it's game over! True . I think . Forget socials . Meet . Kiss . If its good stay . Not good . Go home "
Get you're coat, you're a crap kisser! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A good kiss is when you both tease with
Tongue . Nothing worse then a mouthful of tongue
Take note - easy on the tongue  "
I've always had an admiration for your tongue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kisses are very important to me. Some I have met like to really go for it and stick their tongues down your throat, but I don't like this.
For me I like just enough tongue to flick theirs, now and then brush across the top of their teeth, flick their lip little, gently tug their bottom lip, always have my hand on there cheek, stroking their ear, on their neck circling either side just behind their ear or gently running my hand through the back of their hair. I get a few compliments which is nice to hear |
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