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"I won't meet people in the same town as me, I don't mind meeting people that live near where I work, it's quite handy! " I work with the public so best for me to avoid it. It could prove embarrassing. | |||
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"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better "It's not really about where people come from. | |||
"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better "This... | |||
"I couldn't give two hoots where anyone comes from, the nearer the better
This..."Like I said, it's not really about where people come from. I avoid where I work as I work with the public there. In my job I need discretion. | |||
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"What I meant was they can come from near where I work or near where I live, it matters little to me "Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. | |||
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"Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. " Well I work on building sites and usually tell the lads in the canteen I'm on here anyway  | |||
"What I meant was they can come from near where I work or near where I live, it matters little to me
Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. "And some people don't. It looks like Superramfan is one of them. I am certainly more careful about meeting people where I work, but I have done so and its gone fine. I think the only time I'll turn people down is when they are obviously too far away for a meet. | |||
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"Some may have jobs where they need to be a little more cautious. Well I work on building sites and usually tell the lads in the canteen I'm on here anyway "Which is precisely why some people have to be more cautious. | |||
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"Home town or near work. No one would recognise me from my look, but if my car is seen then that can create problems "Buy a Tina car with big headlights | |||
"Home town or near work. No one would recognise me from my look, but if my car is seen then that can create problems
Buy a Tina car with big headlights "That has crossed my mind  | |||
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"We don't mind to be honest. But we're always a little careful when first contacting people from our home town. Particularly those that don't have any pics on their profiles " | |||
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"Being a gay man, back in the 50's, 60's practising homosexuality was illegal, men met in secret, never with local people, in case they were recognised, people who worked in public jobs, or " sensitive "jobs, lived in fear, loss of job, prison, ridicule. Homosexual men decided enough was enough and they had a right to meet and live their life as they wanted to, it took a riot in USA, The Stonewall riots, to spark change around the world, about 1973 I got involved with CHE, campaign for homosexual equality, and spent most weekends marching in one university town or another, sleeping on floors, getting Glammed up and becoming part of the visible face of being gay, Slowly laws were changed, some people were killed, some lost their family, jobs and friends, by coming out. Now being gay is more widely accepted, the age of consent is 16, some people will never come out, that's their choice, if every gay person had green hair, it would surprise many, just who is gay ! Swinging isn't illegal, it isn't something to hide, unless you think it is wrong, by keeping it behind closed doors that will never change, maybe people think it is just about sexual gratification, and is selfish, unlike being gay, which isn't a choice, it is genetic. If every swinger had yellow hair, We would be surprised by the numbers, Unless you stand up for your right to freedom of choice, you will never find out what goes on behind closed doors. "I agree with you. However, it is in my contract that, due to the sensitive nature of my job, I cannot be seen to be doing anything 'they' deem to bring the profession into disrespect. Hence my wish for discretion. | |||
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"We have had a meet where the couple walked to our house it was that close " I walk to a lot of my meets | |||
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