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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

Ok , I may be watching to many porn movies , but I often see you lovely ladies in porn movies giving there pussies a couple of slaps so my question is :-

Is this just for show or have any of you ladies tried it and is it a turn on ?

Answers on the back of your hand please

Els x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

I like receiving a slap there now and then

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Which women on here have you seen in porn movies?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Which women on here have you seen in porn movies? "

All of them

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Which women on here have you seen in porn movies?

All of them "

Oooh!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Step away from the cat

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

Thanks Evie

So do you think I should warn the misses first or just give it go and see what happens ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes we have done it.

Oh I have had 2 glasses of wine and the secrets are out lol

Nette

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By *essiCouple  over a year ago

suffolk

yes I enjoy this...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes we have done it.

Oh I have had 2 glasses of wine and the secrets are out lol

Nette"

Not you Nette surely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes we have done it.

Oh I have had 2 glasses of wine and the secrets are out lol

Nette"

Me fwb can do it as long as i can do it back to his dick......i have a baseball bat handy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its a yes from me

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

I like mine spanked but then I like most things spanked

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes we have done it.

Oh I have had 2 glasses of wine and the secrets are out lol

Nette

Me fwb can do it as long as i can do it back to his dick......i have a baseball bat handy "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's when you see someone approaching with a croquet mallet that it is time to be glad you didn't go along with the restraints idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's when you see someone approaching with a croquet mallet that it is time to be glad you didn't go along with the restraints idea "

Me hand slipped, honest

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

I take it that's a no then Peaches unless you play ball for the Yankees

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes we have done it.

Oh I have had 2 glasses of wine and the secrets are out lol

Nette Not you Nette surely "

yes good nette)) xx

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

Iv slapt it with my hand then with a leather glove quite hard while she was blindfolded

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take it that's a no then Peaches unless you play ball for the Yankees "

Its a yes with the right fella

.....

Im just in a playful mood tonite, over tired

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

Well so far the ladies are saying a resounding yes , think my lovely squeeze may be getting a surprise some time in the near future , reckon I will make sure shes had a few glasses / bottles of wine first though

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester

Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire

good fun, requires a bit of trust and discussion before..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You'll have the RSPCA after you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have give a sub some good smacks on the clit with a riding crop. and she absolutely loved it so did I are we both a bit too kinky

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

thanks Surrey would never try it with out checking if she fancied it first

Sorry Mr mahogany obviously I am a late starter

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro


"You'll have the RSPCA after you! "

like it

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Nope. In the game of slap and tickle I am more of a tickle type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Iv slapt it with my hand then with a leather glove quite hard while she was blindfolded "
hell wish you was nearer

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

Have wheels can travel. I cant see your pix. Why does your profile say east mids,where do you cum??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You'll have the RSPCA after you! "
how did you know she was a dog .shw wasnt. but boy did she have a lovely pussy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

women in porn films do it to loosen up the collogen down there lol

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By *ingjayMan  over a year ago

exeter

Ha my girl lives a hard slap on her fanny!

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By *elsh n wildCouple  over a year ago

Cardiff area

Makes me squirt when I do it x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can honestly say that I've never slapped my own pussy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think - like a lot of porn - it's mostly for the camera ... but I do find it a turn when I see women doing it and you can see from the look in their eyes that they genuinely enjoy the feeling

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

I think it depends on the woman.... I wouldnt do it on my first date/night unless I knew beforehand that she liked that kind of thing

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield


"I can honestly say that I've never slapped my own pussy "

Does that mean youve slapt a few or like yours slapping

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks Evie

So do you think I should warn the misses first or just give it go and see what happens ? "

Never give warnings, it spoils the moment... but have your running shoes on just in case

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can honestly say that I've never slapped my own pussy

Does that mean youve slapt a few or like yours slapping"

It's been slapped

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im guessing that using a riding crop doesn't count as a 'gentle slap'?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im guessing that using a riding crop doesn't count as a 'gentle slap'?"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've never had mine slapped

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've never had mine slapped "

I'll happily slap anything I can after you laughed at me in the other thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've never had mine slapped

I'll happily slap anything I can after you laughed at me in the other thread. "

Haha! Sorry but it made me chuckle x

I'll assume the position

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just "

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks Evie

So do you think I should warn the misses first or just give it go and see what happens ?

Never give warnings, it spoils the moment... but have your running shoes on just in case "

Well....he might want to 'test the water' first....to be sure she likes that sort of thing...or things could turn out a little unpleasant! I understand your point about not 'ruining the moment' so DEFINITELY not suggesting he gives her a countdown from 10, 9, 8, 7.......lol.....but some indication...over dinner? that she 'might' like the idea????

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By *leasures4Couple  over a year ago

East midlands

I love a few little "slaps" on mine. I want to invest in a little leather crop so I can be teased and slapped. Ooh!

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By *leasures4Couple  over a year ago

East midlands


"Im guessing that using a riding crop doesn't count as a 'gentle slap'?"

It depends how hard you slap it?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I love a few little "slaps" on mine. I want to invest in a little leather crop so I can be teased and slapped. Ooh! "

we have a leather paddle, about an inch wide, quite stiff which hits the spot just right..

was'nt that expensive either..

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By *leasures4Couple  over a year ago

East midlands


"I love a few little "slaps" on mine. I want to invest in a little leather crop so I can be teased and slapped. Ooh!

we have a leather paddle, about an inch wide, quite stiff which hits the spot just right..

was'nt that expensive either.."

That sounds just right for the job. Thanks

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple  over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I love a few little "slaps" on mine. I want to invest in a little leather crop so I can be teased and slapped. Ooh!

we have a leather paddle, about an inch wide, quite stiff which hits the spot just right..

was'nt that expensive either..

That sounds just right for the job. Thanks "

your welcome..

enjoy..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just "

I heartily agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I heartily agree with you "

Why?????? He is asking a question to learn more...

If you already know it all....good for you!

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich

Hehe I wouldn't want that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I heartily agree with you

Why?????? He is asking a question to learn more...

If you already know it all....good for you!"

You're right I have loads yet to learn...some of us 40-50 year olds have lead sheltered lives

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By *eminiman61Man  over a year ago

mansfield

Ive got a riding crop,ruler and whip too.... Only used once..... Sofar

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By *rtemisiaWoman  over a year ago

Norwich


"Ive got a riding crop,ruler and whip too.... Only used once..... Sofar "

Yowzers!!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Which women on here have you seen in porn movies? "

Okay I confessssssss I was swatting flies

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By *ls1773 OP   Man  over a year ago

Truro

Thank you little kitten

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!! "

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never slapped a pussy but once patted dog

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be."

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me! "

He has not said he WOULDN'T speak to her too....he is simply asking others experience. I think thats a good thing!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just "
Must be great to know everything

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me! "

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just Must be great to know everything "

See above

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OK OP this is a very rare moment when I will give a serious bit of advice...

Almost every woman does indeed like to have her pussy slapped, BUT there are two things to get right

1 Get the timing right, it is vital that she is feeling very horny.

2 Every woman will have a different impact requirement, always start very gentle and let her tell you if she wants it harder.

Start with 2 fingers GENTLY slap either side of, and not on the clitoris do a couple of slaps then back to whatever you were doing before, then a couple more, let her tell you if she wants it harder, then use 3 fingers slightly curved so that there is less impact from the middle finger that will land on the most sensitive area.

Have fun,

n.b. Neither Fabs not the poster or anyone related to the poster in any way accept any responsibility should the above advice be implemented at the wrong time or the wrong level of impact.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

"

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love it when Lee slaps me on my pussy.... Although will say the crop makes me go ouch... But the flogger is mmmmm xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OK OP this is a very rare moment when I will give a serious bit of advice...

Almost every woman does indeed like to have her pussy slapped, BUT there are two things to get right

1 Get the timing right, it is vital that she is feeling very horny.

2 Every woman will have a different impact requirement, always start very gentle and let her tell you if she wants it harder.

Start with 2 fingers GENTLY slap either side of, and not on the clitoris do a couple of slaps then back to whatever you were doing before, then a couple more, let her tell you if she wants it harder, then use 3 fingers slightly curved so that there is less impact from the middle finger that will land on the most sensitive area.

Have fun,

n.b. Neither Fabs not the poster or anyone related to the poster in any way accept any responsibility should the above advice be implemented at the wrong time or the wrong level of impact."

Very good advice! It is an obviously VERY sensitive area of the body so you can do damage if you are careless....and get 'slap happy'...sorry! Couldnt resist!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love it when Lee slaps me on my pussy.... Although will say the crop makes me go ouch... But the flogger is mmmmm xx "

I am the same. ..I think the flogger when used lightly can feel like a shiatsu massage! Wheras the crop just stings...which I don't like x

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to????? "

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

"

You didnt make yourself clear at all and contradicted yourself and I quote you below....

'Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?'

'a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with,

'I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with'

So make your mind up!!!

Personally I dont see ANYTHING in his post that suggested he would or would not be capable of asking a woman he was with...he was simply asking a question of the ladies in here and whether we find it a turn on! Whether he is 20 or 80 years old....should not matter! Simple!

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

You didnt make yourself clear at all and contradicted yourself and I quote you below....

'Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?'

'a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with,

'I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with'

So make your mind up!!!

Personally I dont see ANYTHING in his post that suggested he would or would not be capable of asking a woman he was with...he was simply asking a question of the ladies in here and whether we find it a turn on! Whether he is 20 or 80 years old....should not matter! Simple!"

Well, if you use the first quote you site in it's entirety and not cut it to suit your purposes you'll find that all three do in fact support each other.

However, I now find myself asking do I actually care what someone thinks who is determined to put their own spin on the words (and rolling icon) I have explained on more than one occasion. Answer? No

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Kin el man been doing this for years!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

You didnt make yourself clear at all and contradicted yourself and I quote you below....

'Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?'

'a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with,

'I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with'

So make your mind up!!!

Personally I dont see ANYTHING in his post that suggested he would or would not be capable of asking a woman he was with...he was simply asking a question of the ladies in here and whether we find it a turn on! Whether he is 20 or 80 years old....should not matter! Simple!

Well, if you use the first quote you site in it's entirety and not cut it to suit your purposes you'll find that all three do in fact support each other.

However, I now find myself asking do I actually care what someone thinks who is determined to put their own spin on the words (and rolling icon) I have explained on more than one occasion. Answer? No"

I dont ask you to 'care' and your posts are here for all to read in their entirety. ..should there be any question.

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By *r Mahogany70Man  over a year ago

Leicester


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

You didnt make yourself clear at all and contradicted yourself and I quote you below....

'Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?'

'a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with,

'I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with'

So make your mind up!!!

Personally I dont see ANYTHING in his post that suggested he would or would not be capable of asking a woman he was with...he was simply asking a question of the ladies in here and whether we find it a turn on! Whether he is 20 or 80 years old....should not matter! Simple!

Well, if you use the first quote you site in it's entirety and not cut it to suit your purposes you'll find that all three do in fact support each other.

However, I now find myself asking do I actually care what someone thinks who is determined to put their own spin on the words (and rolling icon) I have explained on more than one occasion. Answer? No

I dont ask you to 'care' and your posts are here for all to read in their entirety. ..should there be any question. "

I get it. You're one of those must have the last word types even though the conversation is at an impasse. Go on then...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It does nothing for me and its on porn movies for visual effect, so people tend jump on the bandwagon don't they - if its in porn movies its got to be the thing to do....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Whenever I see questions like the OP's I always check the age of the poster. Invariably it's from a lad in his early 20s so I think fair enough, he's young, he'll learn. But when a question like that comes from a man in his 40s I just

I think that's a rather arrogant statement actually. The OP has asked a perfectly good question and is entitled to ask the opinion of ladies who enjoy this. One of the things I enjoy about the forums is it is a place where people should feel comfortable to ask questions they might not feel able to in other situations. At least he didnt just smack her first and then ask!!!

Why is it arrogant? I at a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with, however limited that number may be.

Its arrogant because you suppose that someone at his age SHOULD know everything....as if you do??? There is nothing wrong with people seeking information and advice before speaking to their partner because they want to. Personally if I found someone had gone to the effort of trying to equip themselves with some knowledge about something new to them first...I would be delighted they were wanting to please me!

Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?

Read what I've actually written and not what you would like me to have said.

The implication is in your suggestion he shouldn't ask such a question because of his age??! and your 'rolling eyes" icon! Don't get pedantic about it. You clearly didnt think he should ask a question like that because he should already have 'learnt'...unlike someone who is young and still needs to?????

The rolling eyes icon indicates that I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with.

I've made it perfectly clear what I mean but if you wish to see hidden meanings then go right on ahead.

You didnt make yourself clear at all and contradicted yourself and I quote you below....

'Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?'

'a man over 40 asking such questions because I'd hope he'd be mature enough to ask the question to females he's actually been with,

'I think a man in his 40s should be mature enough to discuss sexually related topics which the person he's engaging in coitus with'

So make your mind up!!!

Personally I dont see ANYTHING in his post that suggested he would or would not be capable of asking a woman he was with...he was simply asking a question of the ladies in here and whether we find it a turn on! Whether he is 20 or 80 years old....should not matter! Simple!

Well, if you use the first quote you site in it's entirety and not cut it to suit your purposes you'll find that all three do in fact support each other.

However, I now find myself asking do I actually care what someone thinks who is determined to put their own spin on the words (and rolling icon) I have explained on more than one occasion. Answer? No

I dont ask you to 'care' and your posts are here for all to read in their entirety. ..should there be any question.

I get it. You're one of those must have the last word types even though the conversation is at an impasse. Go on then..."

My last word..funny!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?"

is somewhat different than:

"Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?"

It WAS taken out of context.

But enough of this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


""Did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?"

is somewhat different than:

"Did I say he should know everything or did I say he should be mature enough to ask the women he's with what they like?"

It WAS taken out of context.

But enough of this."

Yeah..I know. All done now. Back to topic. Promise!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Ok , I may be watching to many porn movies , but I often see you lovely ladies in porn movies giving there pussies a couple of slaps so my question is :-

Is this just for show or have any of you ladies tried it and is it a turn on ?

Answers on the back of your hand please

Els x"

Lourrrrve it! But only one man is allowed to do it ( Mr A ) ... Anyone eles would get a swift, sharp slap back!!

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