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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

I have just turned up for a meet with a guy and gal. All went well I brought some beer, we fucked her everyone was polite and friendly. Then when I got dressed they said thats 30 pounds. I had nothing on me and besides that I WASNT GOING TO PAY.

When I explained I had no money they got aggressive and violent, I was pushed up against the wall by BOTH of them I said I had 20 in the car and we could go the other 20 from cashpoint luckily my car only unlocks drivers door on the first remote click so I could get in and drive off..... not with out some blows to my car.

Problem is these arent the first prostitutes I have come across of FAB and I have reported several WITH evidence and they still on here advertising mets OPENLY for money. I have also found some with adult work pages and again I have provided a link.

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Change you selection and meeting methods?

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

If you're encountering prostitutes, it's your selection process. Admin can't save you from yourself!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I have just turned up for a meet with a guy and gal. All went well I brought some beer, we fucked her everyone was polite and friendly. Then when I got dressed they said thats 30 pounds. I had nothing on me and besides that I WASNT GOING TO PAY.

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

The site already has a means of reporting these people so the site Admins can act. They aren't psychic.

You're an adult. Responsibility for your safety is yours. This site provides a means to contact people and to verify those you've met. Nobody is making any guarantees.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"If you're encountering prostitutes, it's your selection process. Admin can't save you from yourself!

How bloody unreasonable of the site owners not to meet and interview every member personally.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmm they asked for £30, you had £20 in the car and said you'd go to the cashpoint for the other £20

That makes £40!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

This meet went exactly same as last 10, I fail to see how it could vary as 9 others were genuine.

When you see gangbangs advertise at peoples own houses with a 20-30 pount "contribution" you then ask for what you are contributing towards... buffet? hotel? drink? and told nothing just for coming..... thats a brothel end of (plus the same couples are advertising these gangbangs on escorting sites also)

It happens regularly on this site and because it is allowed to carry on every other prostitute is getting in on the act and doing it. To the point they are conning people into vinerable positions.

This wasn't my problem in method or safety, this is some wronguns conning me and maybe others.

This issue NEEDS to be addressed immediately by admin. before someone ends up being found

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

why don't you read thepost again, I have said I have reported obvious hookers and they are still selling sex weeks later..... isnt that an admin issue?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not all escorts use the site like that report it and go to the police about your experience

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

sorry I was a bit panicked after being pushed against the wall fearing for my safety... I like how this turns into a bash the poster thread when he has done nothing wrong

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

the site has a duty of care, Im not n about this incident, but a collection of issues indirectly connected... like reporting obvious hookers for it to be ignored. torrent sites only provide you a way with contacting someone with file but they are still being closed down as they have a duty of care

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"the site has a duty of care, Im not n about this incident, but a collection of issues indirectly connected... like reporting obvious hookers for it to be ignored. torrent sites only provide you a way with contacting someone with file but they are still being closed down as they have a duty of care"

So are you saying anyone that us on a site as an escort shouldn't be allowed or just the ones advertising on here. X

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I can't see why people on here also being on adult sex work sites is relevant either. That doesn't prove they are charging for meets on here.

I've never seen a profile openly charging for meets. If there are as many prostitutes on here as some guys claim, I would have thought I'd have seen one or two.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"This meet went exactly same as last 10, I fail to see how it could vary as 9 others were genuine.

It happens regularly on this site and because it is allowed to carry on every other prostitute is getting in on the act and doing it. To the point they are conning people into vinerable positions.

This wasn't my problem in method or safety, this is some wronguns conning me and maybe others.

This issue NEEDS to be addressed immediately by admin. before someone ends up being found"

So you knew there was a charge for the gangbang? You knew they were escorts?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sorry I was a bit panicked after being pushed against the wall fearing for my safety... I like how this turns into a bash the poster thread when he has done nothing wrong

Report it to the police

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

All that aside. What car have you got? Would love a key like yours.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

Ring the police NOW no messing no issues its a criminal matter and if you don't some poor fucker next in line may get hurt badly. No messing do it now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

Ring the police NOW no messing no issues its a criminal matter and if you don't some poor fucker next in line may get hurt badly. No messing do it now! "

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

ones advertising on here which i stated several times. when you ask for money for nothing but sex in your house and you advertise the same meet on a escorting site for same time and date...... its beyond a doubt in my mind.

I have reported the user from tonight with links to texts from user giving me abuse after i drove off. thus same number can be found given to me via fab messages..... I tell you the user will still be on here in 4 weeks

can't name and shame though it says so clearly up there ^ as i type this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

All that aside. What car have you got? Would love a key like yours.

Many do Jags, Mazdas, Mercs etc its a safety issue so when you unlock you don't have all doors open for any mugger to jump in.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"To the point they are conning people into vinerable positions."

If you let yourself be conned because you're too horny to think properly, that isn't the responsibility of the admin.

You need to address this, not the site owners!

Duty of care? A contacts site has a duty of care? Dream on.

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By *oundthebendMan over a year ago

wales

"Hmm they asked for £30, you had £20 in the car and said you'd go to the cashpoint for the other £20

That makes £40! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people on this site are so strange its unbelievable

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

i have phoned the police...... i no doubt fab will be contacted somehow. Im pissed off that after weeks of reporting clear cases of site rules being broken prostitutes are clearly still working from fab.

I have to wonder if anyone has reported the people I "met" tonight and has been ignored like other reports

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

All that aside. What car have you got? Would love a key like yours.

Many do Jags, Mazdas, Mercs etc its a safety issue so when you unlock you don't have all doors open for any mugger to jump in. "

All the models of those cars do? Where was I last year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all"

We're all adults on this site and ultimately responsible for our own actions. We put out safety in jeopardy day of the week. Basically when we meet anyone on this site, we're meeting strangers. Admin have posted plenty of safety tips for all of us to read and follow! Report the profile, go to the police if you think that's appropriate but Admin can not vet every single person or every meet. Your safety is your responsibility!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmm they asked for £30, you had £20 in the car and said you'd go to the cashpoint for the other £20

That makes £40!

Hint : the guy had an hairy arse so was only a £10.

I think.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all"

You're an adult. You put yourself in that position and now you're blaming the site admin? You really wonder why we aren't taking you seriously?

If it was as bad as you say, report it to the police. And choose your meets more carefully.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

All that aside. What car have you got? Would love a key like yours.

Many do Jags, Mazdas, Mercs etc its a safety issue so when you unlock you don't have all doors open for any mugger to jump in. "

And modern cheap cars!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all"

This site provides the means to meet people for sex. I don't go to hotel rooms, I don't meet in laybys, woods, on top of grassy knolls or sand dunes. I don't invite strangers into my home. I meet people socially in public places, sometimes a couple of times before getting naked because my safety is paramount and a fuck will NEVER override my safety...but that's just me!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

both of us need to address this, the site owners have been ignoring prostitutes on this site for ages now.

Yes fab does have a duty of care to ensure illegal activity does not go on this site.

I know this for definitely because I have 2 websites myself with forums and have come up against my responsibilities via the legal system before.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ouch, I'm sorry that happened to you mate, I understand your anger. it's not the sites fault but that's a crappy situation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your status update says 'quick easy local meet wanted' maybe be abit more picky with your selection criteria?

Con artists will take advantage of a guy thinking with his dick instead of his brain.

Other than that report it to the police as you say you were threatened and pushed up against the wall, you have a duty of care to report them to make sure it doesn't happen to anyone else? No?

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By *illow PimpMan over a year ago

Midlothian

Any real escorts get the money prior to business more so first time clients.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

ffs not this meet no, im expanding on this problem by giving OTHER examples in recent past of escorts using this site

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"ffs not this meet no, im expanding on this problem by giving OTHER examples in recent past of escorts using this site"

You're an adult. You made a mistake. It's not admins fault. Take some responsibility.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

ive encountered on on a personal meet, ive merely spotted the others via meet adverts and pms which has lead me to cut communications short when it became clear what they were after

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If he reported the profile/profiles on here and nothing was done. Then it is the sites fault if it happens again or even if its happened before and they reported it to admin. If that account is still there its admins fault. When someone reports a profile for whatever reason. It is admins responsibility to remove their profile, etc. Instead it looks like they banned the victim for breaking sites rules

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"so someones safety is put in jeopardy and you all find that funny? shame on you all"

I don't find safety being in jeopardy being funny but admin don't go on meets with any of us. We have to take responsibility for our own safety and for judging the situations we enter.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

not saying it was admins fault, im say9ing admin needs to tighten up on prostitutes using this site which ive given examples of in past and reported but nothing has been done.

Made a mistake? how was it my fault? I arranged this meet over the space of 2 weeks, probably put more time into the numerous other successful meets ive had yet my fault?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If he reported the profile/profiles on here and nothing was done. Then it is the sites fault if it happens again or even if its happened before and they reported it to admin. If that account is still there its admins fault. When someone reports a profile for whatever reason. It is admins responsibility to remove their profile, etc. Instead it looks like they banned the victim for breaking sites rules

How do you know nothing was done?? If you report a profile Admin will look into it and take appropriate action after investigating the issue!!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

well im glad they were merely violent amateurs. obviously if they asked me for money as i walked in i would of said no and gone thus they having no reason to argue I "owe" them.

Thats the con part..... they hid the fact they wanted money......... Shakes head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh shit. do not, i repeat do NOT read the photography thread.

There are people on there who admit to being pros.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who got banned? I cant keep up with this thread I keep missing stuff!

But yes I agree if he has reported and they are still there then admin Should have removed them.

What people are saying though is meeting people is your own responsibility and the site cannot be responsible for meets that go wrong, be smart about your meets and don't put yourself in a situation where there is room for error and danger.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If admin hasn't acted it's because they aren't satisfied that any rules have been broken.

Otherwise, what's to stop people reporting others they just don't like for this, to get them kicked off the site.

He's already said he's reported people here for having profiles on adult sex work sites. That doesn't break the rules so obviously admin wouldn't act.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

because the same prostitute was offering a gangbang 2 weeks later for a contribution. again i pretended i wanted to come and asked what the contribution was for and they said nothing, just to shag XXXXXX.... then on the escorting site the same peple (pictures match, even says fabswingers on the escorting pictures) they advertise the gangbang and their fees. amazing how the terminology changes between the 2 sites LOL

(this user im on about with gangbangs has been reported 3 times)

Last gang bang I went to in someones house that had a contribution was for drink and buffet.....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"not saying it was admins fault, im say9ing admin needs to tighten up on prostitutes using this site which ive given examples of in past and reported but nothing has been done.

Made a mistake? how was it my fault? I arranged this meet over the space of 2 weeks, probably put more time into the numerous other successful meets ive had yet my fault?"

It is your fault for not choosing your meets with more care and taking precautions to protect yourself and keep yourself safe.

You made the bad choice. Your responsibility.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"because the same prostitute was offering a gangbang 2 weeks later for a contribution. again i pretended i wanted to come and asked what the contribution was for and they said nothing, just to shag XXXXXX.... then on the escorting site the same peple (pictures match, even says fabswingers on the escorting pictures) they advertise the gangbang and their fees. amazing how the terminology changes between the 2 sites LOL

(this user im on about with gangbangs has been reported 3 times)

Last gang bang I went to in someones house that had a contribution was for drink and buffet..... "

Two weeks later?? Hold on you said this meet happened tonight!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"not saying it was admins fault, im say9ing admin needs to tighten up on prostitutes using this site which ive given examples of in past and reported but nothing has been done.

Made a mistake? how was it my fault? I arranged this meet over the space of 2 weeks, probably put more time into the numerous other successful meets ive had yet my fault?"

To be honest fella you are not reacting in the normal manner. Most people if they had been in that position with " no money they got aggressive and violent" they wouldn't have logged on to here they would have gone to the police. Playing devils advocate without police intervention admin will just have it as your word against theirs and It could be perceived as being bitter about someone who WOULDN'T meet you. Can you get my drift! So as said before if it really did happen contact the police rather than ranting on here its the responsible thing to do and the police can contact the site over it.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

really? again i ask you when the last 9 meets have all been the same build up etc how I fucked up?

if you got raped on a meet would you appreciate me saying well is your own fault tough?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Ah, you have your knickers in a knot because some people charge a cover fee for organising a party, OP. I see.

If you object to that, just don't go.

If someone is hosting a party then that's not the same as prostitution.

For one thing, they are providing the venue. A gangbang takes a lot of organising.

I don't know what the site rules on asking for a fee for a party are but if you've reported it and admin haven't acted then they must have decided no rules were broken.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"really? again i ask you when the last 9 meets have all been the same build up etc how I fucked up?

if you got raped on a meet would you appreciate me saying well is your own fault tough?"

And I tell you again that you need to look at your selection criteria.

How did you arrange this meet? What process did you follow? Were they verified? What steps did you take to try to ensure your safety?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really? again i ask you when the last 9 meets have all been the same build up etc how I fucked up?

if you got raped on a meet would you appreciate me saying well is your own fault tough?"

So are you saying you've been to 9 previous meets all asking for money? Im really getting confused here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"really? again i ask you when the last 9 meets have all been the same build up etc how I fucked up?

if you got raped on a meet would you appreciate me saying well is your own fault tough?"

You are focusing on some replies not others why bring in rape I thiught the issue was extortion have you contacted the police have you passed the crime no on to admin. This is a serious issue for the police not admin but you seem to be hateful of someone not scared and that doesn't fit the circumstances you claim occurred.

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By *am Bam and PebblesCouple over a year ago

Westerham

Geezer u said it all what are u going to do about it ok taking the money lets see ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who got banned? I cant keep up with this thread I keep missing stuff!

But yes I agree if he has reported and they are still there then admin Should have removed them.

I think he said he did for naming and shaming them on here. He got assaulted and probably was frightened too and his adrenaline was probably very high afterwards. So wouldn't any normal person talk about an assault they've just been in and do what they can to protect other from it happening again?

Any illegal activity shouldn't be on this site or any for that matter. He noticed it and reported it and nothing got done about it. Also what's to say other people haven't witnessed this in some form and reported it and it hasn't been sorted then either and maybe that's why people come and leave this site so quickly as they spot these hookers and think "what site I am on" and then they leave?

I agree with you and some people on here about safety, etc. Bit surely the risks of it happening would be cut down if people advertising prostitution on here didn't go unpunished? Also if someone got beaten up in the night whilst walking home from the shop? Would you have a go at them or if it was a relative? Just because he may have made one mistake on here. He doesn't need everyone saying its his fault.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

no im saying 9 previous meets have gone as they should. no where in the build up and communications was this one any different..... so i cant see how people are saying my meet selection methods are flawed..... obviously its the victims fault when duped and assaulted by someone!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

no thats another issue.....

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By *am Bam and PebblesCouple over a year ago

Westerham

Geezer you said it all what they going a do about it ok taking the money lets see ?

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

im on about several other examples not tied down just to what happened tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

should have reversed and hit one of them or both!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a pro panel beater - can I offer my services?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Keep your replies on here thanks OP. I've no desire to discuss this by PM and wouldn't say anything different there than I'd say here.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

lol, luckily no damage

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

well i wondered what part of it you failed to follow as I cant explain how me being assaulted is my fault.... do we blame victims nowadays..... next time I read of someone getting mugged or assaulted I'll know to cheer on the criminal as they was entirely i n the right

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By *rednkatieCouple over a year ago

orlando

sad sad sad

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"im on about several other examples not tied down just to what happened tonight"

Examples apparently of people charging a fee for organising a party. Not really prostitution as far as I can see.

I think this sounds like sour grapes from someone who can't get what he wants for free and is having a strop because someone wanted to charge guests for attending a party they had organised.

I wonder if he thinks that clubs charging is a problem too, since they don't offer free drinks and a buffet either.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"well i wondered what part of it you failed to follow as I cant explain how me being assaulted is my fault.... do we blame victims nowadays..... next time I read of someone getting mugged or assaulted I'll know to cheer on the criminal as they was entirely i n the right"

I've told you several times what you did wrong.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"really? again i ask you when the last 9 meets have all been the same build up etc how I fucked up?

if you got raped on a meet would you appreciate me saying well is your own fault tough?

And I tell you again that you need to look at your selection criteria.

How did you arrange this meet? What process did you follow? Were they verified? What steps did you take to try to ensure your safety?"

Going to answer this one OP?

Maybe we could advise you how to meet more safely then.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've told you several times what you did wrong. "

as have many others but the OP chooses to ignore and obviously wants someone else to take the blame for his own actions

Plus there are two sides to every story.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's not about being at fault but taking responsibility for reducing potential risks. Be seen in public with your meets. Check out veris... If they're hidden ask to see them. Ignore web cam and single veris, oh and ancient ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This story has more holes than Harry Belafontes bucket.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

no clubs provide a licenced venue which has chargeable overheads, someones house doesnt have this. I have been happy to contribute towards buffets and drink at peoples houses, but if you charge for access to you "home venue" then you actualy need a sex licence like chams and xtasia hold. if you dont hold one you are a mere brothel, which im afraid IS against site rules. Maybe you would like some links to sex venue licencing laws?

I got what I wanted and it may of cost me more that 30 poxy quid but you still fancy a bash at me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"no im saying 9 previous meets have gone as they should. no where in the build up and communications was this one any different..... so i cant see how people are saying my meet selection methods are flawed..... obviously its the victims fault when duped and assaulted by someone!

It appears you`ve been the victim of a very nasty experience !

Hope you get the right result both here and with the police

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

I don't need to because i have been using the same criteria sucessfully for 9 years and had ONE issue.... which was tonight.

Again I ask you would you blame a girl if she got raped? of man got assaulted having a quiet drink?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would love to see someone who are giving negative replies here actually know a victim. Opinions will change rapidly then

as most victims can be blamed if you are that pessimistic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It appears you`ve been the victim of a very nasty experience !

Hope you get the right result both here and with the police

See is welshies can talk sense. I admit I have come out with stupid stuff, but I would never blame a victim for an unprovoked attack.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

i could see several veris, I met them earlier this week for a drink and have had a phone number off them.

I understand there are risks..... but I never banked on being charged after and being threatened for it.

Some aspects are unaccountable for.... im not saying admin should arrange my meets or interview everyone. Im saying i have NOOOOOOO faith in admin taking action this time because i have provided clear unarguable reports in the past and the same thing happens again with the same users.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

who got banned? I cant keep up with this thread I keep missing stuff!

But yes I agree if he has reported and they are still there then admin Should have removed them.

Yo be honest I can't keep up with what's going on but basically if you go to meet someone off the internet there is a level of risk involved, how you evaluate the level of risk and how risky it's gonna be is down to you.

If you are going to a strangers house then you are putting yourself in more danger than have a social meet first in a public place etc. Therefore people are simply saying maybe not put himself in such a risky situation and be more careful with who he meets.

I'm not saying it's his fault he was pushed up against the wall but he did allow himself to be in a situation where that could happen. Just the same as you weight up the risk of walking home alone in the dark at night, its more risky than sharing a cab with friends or getting a bus etc etc etc

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

it has no holes because it happened end of

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

I will also say if o.p was a woman who had been roughed up or misstreated in any way. The fems would be telling to get straight down the cop shop and the male "falsies" would be sucking up her.arse saying "awe hun' thats awful....can I help you through it.....blah blah"

Gives me the dry boak.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well as I see it you have three options if it really happened as you have said..

1/Report it to the police in the hope they believe you and actually take action.

2/Put it down to experience and move on.

3/Get yourself a posse together and ride on into town and beat the living daylights out of them.

Please keep us all updated with the outcome !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you had 20 in the car, why offer to pay an extra 20 when they only wanted 30?

Was she that good she deserved a reward?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This story has more holes than Harry Belafontes bucket. "

Tell me about it! I can't keep up!

And for that reason, im out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well as I see it you have three options if it really happened as you have said..

1/Report it to the police in the hope they believe you and actually take action.

2/Put it down to experience and move on.

3/Get yourself a posse together and ride on into town and beat the living daylights out of them.

Please keep us all updated with the outcome !!! "

3 sounds very good, but don't post it on here for legal reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

Gives me the dry boak.....

He HAS been told several times to report it to the police!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

Gives me the dry boak.....

Unlike me who will feel for the person whether its a man or woman doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you had 20 in the car, why offer to pay an extra 20 when they only wanted 30?

Was she that good she deserved a reward?"

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

I have no interest in your ridiculous line of questioning here. Ireduced the risks as much as I could.... everything slotted in well like any other sucessful meet I have had till I was about to walk out. AGain I could not account for that.

p.s for your info, their number and adress and time of meet and time i would text my brother was in fact with my brother. I had met this couple earlier in the week for a drink. I gave them a lift home and she gave me a bj in a carp park on way and i didnt had to pay.

They worked methodologically to ensure I felt no pressure on a second meet. at some point if you are going to have sex with your meet you have to either go outdoors, hotel or either yours or theirs. unless i fucked her in the bullring tuesday afternoon so i was always in a pubic safe place?

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

she was very good in fairness

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

and i said several times I have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A social meet first isn't going to stop anyone with evil intent. Having a drink with someone isn't going to tell you they have plans to do something bad. It's a risk we take whenever we meet. As for clubs that don't charge single women but single men pay more than couples, another form of pimping in my opinion. Dress sexy so the men can wank if they don't get a fuck. If they do get a fuck then money well spent. Private house parties? I've never charged anyone to come to a party at my house why should I just because some people are going to be fucking?? Sorry you had such a terrible experience. I can think myself lucky I have not had anything like this happen to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i could see several veris, I met them earlier this week for a drink and have had a phone number off them.

I understand there are risks..... but I never banked on being charged after and being threatened for it.

I hope you used that number, the police can trace the owner.

You've been very unfortunate especially as it does sound as though you've taken measures to reduce risk.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And yet you won't tell us what steps you took to check out the other people or how you acted to protect yourself.

Telling. Very telling.

You made a mistake OP. Your safety is your responsibility, not that of the site owner.

Yes, you are allegedly a victim but that isn't admin's fault like you are trying to make out.

And do stop harping on about rape and how other people would feel. I suspect most would not try to blame the site.

Nobody is saying it's ok to attack people. We're saying it's your responsibility to ensure your own safety and it's not the fault of the site.

People would probably have been more sympathetic if you weren't trying to make out that this is all the fault of this site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

Gives me the dry boak.....

He HAS been told several times to report it to the police!!"

If you read his posts he says he has informed the police

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

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birmingham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"she was very good in fairness

Now thats flipped the coin for me. If this had happened to me, last thing I would do would be cracking jokes despite my frivolous nature.....my last words on subject are keep safe its a jungle out there.....

Seems there are some mischievous monkeys in the jungle too.....

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Why are you being contacted by so many escorts...what this couple done is a criminal offense so go to the police.

Lots of girls do have adult sites & Adult Work profiles but unless they have mailed you asking for money they have done nothing wrong, they do have a life when not working so their outside interests shouldn't effect them unless they flaunt the rules.

I think Fab does its best to stop people asking for money but even with the best will in the world it will happen, just report them when asked for pay & keep all messages, emails, text etc.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

Gives me the dry boak.....

My problem is him blaming the site.

Being assaulted is dreadful but starting a convoluted and, at times, incomprehensible rant blaming the site just got a lot of backs up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP - sorry to hear about what happened to you.

But, from a legal point of view. A site like this does not owe you a duty of care. Once you've clicked that you agree to their terms and conditions, their duty has been discharged. The burden is on you now.

..you just have to be careful who your meeting. I'm not a fan of the gangbang scene, and if i was ever involved in one. It would be with those whom i've got to know over a while or in a club.

You may just have to try a different approach. Appears to me your falling in to the same whole twice.

Just be careful who you are meeting and go from there. Your own safety is paramount before the safety of you putting on a condom for the gangbang.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmm they asked for £30, you had £20 in the car and said you'd go to the cashpoint for the other £20

That makes £40! "

Yeah i thought that but hey come on it only nice to leave a tip

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"Why are you being contacted by so many escorts...what this couple done is a criminal offense so go to the police.

I think Fab does its best to stop people asking for money but even with the best will in the world it will happen, just report them when asked for pay & keep all messages, emails, text etc."

LMAO can anyone read? I never said I haven contacted by numerous escorts, I said I have seen many obvious examples of escorting occuring from this website

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"OP - sorry to hear about what happened to you.

..you just have to be careful who your meeting. I'm not a fan of the gangbang scene, and if i was ever involved in one. It would be with those whom i've got to know over a while or in a club.

You may just have to try a different approach. Appears to me your falling in to the same whole twice.

Just be careful who you are meeting and go from there. Your own safety is paramount before the safety of you putting on a condom for the gangbang.

you are wrong, terms and conditions agreement doesnt over ride english common law. I refer you to a recent incident on a website called ask fm where a girl was being bullied on her profile. It was reported and ask did nothing. Ask fm changed their policy after that girl killed herself, and if they didnt the law was about to change it for them as the law clearly stated they had a duty of care regardless of their terms and conditions.

also tonights incident wasnt a gangbang, never said it was. i WAS pointing out girls charging for sex. if they was charging for their "venue" namely their house then without a sex licence they are a brothel therefore a hooker/escort therefore breaching site rules

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"I'm not going to say too much.re the alleged incident but the o.p has fortunately come out of it unscathed.

What I find disappointing is the attitude of some people. Safety is everyones responsibility and.any doubts about profiles esp' possible sex workers should be flagged up end of....

Gives me the dry boak.....

My problem is him blaming the site.

Being assaulted is dreadful but starting a convoluted and, at times, incomprehensible rant blaming the site just got a lot of backs up."

didnt blame the site, merely pointed outi have reported the user to the site but doubt they will do anything as they should because in the past they have failed it...

i have posted a link to a profile currently advertising sex for money that has been reported before yet still active advertising for yet another chargeable exepirience... yet you nor anyone else will discuss it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no interest in your ridiculous line of questioning here. Ireduced the risks as much as I could.... everything slotted in well like any other sucessful meet I have had till I was about to walk out. AGain I could not account for that.

So you've had a BJ and sex of this woman and she wanted £30. Taking into account the social meet and the play meet this is probably the cheapest brass in the uk. A crack whore at kings cross would charge more than that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The link is not a profile on this site!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP - sorry to hear about what happened to you.

..you just have to be careful who your meeting. I'm not a fan of the gangbang scene, and if i was ever involved in one. It would be with those whom i've got to know over a while or in a club.

You may just have to try a different approach. Appears to me your falling in to the same whole twice.

Just be careful who you are meeting and go from there. Your own safety is paramount before the safety of you putting on a condom for the gangbang.

Some things have terms and conditions and most of them are really long to read. However most of them (but not all) can be ignored as the law would over rule them. Its like parking in asda car park for example. If blokes trips over bits of rubbish and If the car park is anything to do with asda like they own it or charge for the public to use it. Then the law states that it is Asdas responsibility regardless if they say people park there at their own risk.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a pro panel beater - can I offer my services?

Okay, my final offer;

£75 per panel - my final offer!

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

least your charges are in advance......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing"

people are entitled topay and charge for sex. I don't want to see it on fab as it will bring problems along with it.

At least on an escort site you know they are likely to be thinking money first so you know what environment you are entering.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people"

So how can a man advertise gang bangs with a woman on a gay site?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

that is a crappy situation mate. A word to the wise, people often charge for gbs. Next time just ask if there is a charge before you agree to go, then you can make an informed choice... that being said they should have at least told you when you arrived and not got shitty with you afterwards....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP - sorry to hear about what happened to you.

..you just have to be careful who your meeting. I'm not a fan of the gangbang scene, and if i was ever involved in one. It would be with those whom i've got to know over a while or in a club.

You may just have to try a different approach. Appears to me your falling in to the same whole twice.

Just be careful who you are meeting and go from there. Your own safety is paramount before the safety of you putting on a condom for the gangbang.

Let's not forget that your an adult on a sex site. The law isn't going to provide you with a blanket of safety where you have the ability to exercise your own due diligence in selecting who you meet and what goes on between you two. Albeit consensually.

The example that you provide of the girl is a totally different scenario to the one you are involved in. Your not being cyber bullied are you?

I think it's good you're reporting those profiles that are providing escort services openly. But, how are those running the site meant to know that once you've met someone they will ask for a payment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing"

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people

Going off on a tangent, why would you as a straight guy be on a site for gays? Also why would a man think he can sell sex with a woman for £20 on a site for gays?

And yes the profile needs removing if he's a repeat offender."

if im honest, im on there in a curious way. also i believe once warned second offence should be a ban for this thing..... fact this is a 3rd offence after 2 reports doesnt do admin a good deal of credit does it? that is mmy issue that yes its a police matter what happened tonight but admin should also be concerned about any rule breach as rules are there for user enjoyment AND safety.

Thirdly... i no idea why a woman is being offered..... maybe he is bi and plays with you as well as her?

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory. "

you have pointed nothing out, just made some remark. this is no story telling fib for your info. so please stick to cluedo because not much good past this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people

Going off on a tangent, why would you as a straight guy be on a site for gays? Also why would a man think he can sell sex with a woman for £20 on a site for gays?

And yes the profile needs removing if he's a repeat offender.

Thirdly... i no idea why a woman is being offered..... maybe he is bi and plays with you as well as her?"

He's far too old for me

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"OP - sorry to hear about what happened to you.

..you just have to be careful who your meeting. I'm not a fan of the gangbang scene, and if i was ever involved in one. It would be with those whom i've got to know over a while or in a club.

You may just have to try a different approach. Appears to me your falling in to the same whole twice.

Just be careful who you are meeting and go from there. Your own safety is paramount before the safety of you putting on a condom for the gangbang.

The example that you provide of the girl is a totally different scenario to the one you are involved in. Your not being cyber bullied are you?

the scenario is exactly the same as any website/company has a right to ensure people who use it's property be it land or website services can do in a safe as can be manner. Allowing escorts on this site isnt doing that

I never said admin would know this about tonight or should know it, im stating that in the past from my experience that when they receive a report about the user i met tonight i doubt they will do anything to try to stop them using this site to abuse someone else based on the fact they ignore openly advertising escorts in the past

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

Apart from fee's for parties I have never seen fee's asked for anything else, you have had a bad experience so report it and carry on.

Try changing the types of girls, couples you usually go for to avoid being asked for money.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people

Going off on a tangent, why would you as a straight guy be on a site for gays? Also why would a man think he can sell sex with a woman for £20 on a site for gays?

And yes the profile needs removing if he's a repeat offender.

Thirdly... i no idea why a woman is being offered..... maybe he is bi and plays with you as well as her?

He's far too old for me

maybe hes trying to pay for his oil of ulay?

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"Apart from fee's for parties I have never seen fee's asked for anything else, you have had a bad experience so report it and carry on.

Try changing the types of girls, couples you usually go for to avoid being asked for money.

dont need to change anything as ive only been asked once, and as for fees to parties at peoples houses... towards drink buffets or other consumables fair... for shagging in their house... unlawful... google sex venue licences they are merely a brothel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The link is not a profile on this site!

site is OWNED and run bye exactly same people

Going off on a tangent, why would you as a straight guy be on a site for gays? Also why would a man think he can sell sex with a woman for £20 on a site for gays?

And yes the profile needs removing if he's a repeat offender.

Thirdly... i no idea why a woman is being offered..... maybe he is bi and plays with you as well as her?

He's far too old for me

maybe hes trying to pay for his oil of ulay?"

It's not ulay, melay or gaylay. It's been olay for years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must zzzzzlay.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"also tonights incident wasnt a gangbang, never said it was. i WAS pointing out girls charging for sex. if they was charging for their "venue" namely their house then without a sex licence they are a brothel therefore a hooker/escort therefore breaching site rules "

Not, as I pointed out, if they were charging for arranging a party and not for the sex.

Clubs aren't brothels because they charge for the facilities and for organising events, not for sex.

The point still stands that if these parties bother you, don't go.

Gangbangs are bloody hard work to organise. I can see why organisers might charge a fee.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"dont need to change anything as ive only been asked once "

Then why are you making such a fuss about the site failing to protect you from prostitues?!

You've encountered it once. You've had a problem once. Yet the site has failed to protect you?!

I agree there are some huge inconsistencies in this story and a lot of things that make no sense.

You're not taking anyone's points on board, so what's the point?

I'm out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory.

you have pointed nothing out, just made some remark. this is no story telling fib for your info. so please stick to cluedo because not much good past this!"

So you think it's believable that a woman and her boyfriend would meet you twice. On the first occasion you get a BJ and on the second sex. They charge you £30. That's £15 each. Or £7.50 each per meet. It just doesn't add up.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

Not, as I pointed out, if they were charging for arranging a party and not for the sex.

Clubs aren't brothels because they charge for the facilities and for organising events, not for sex.

The point still stands that if these parties bother you, don't go.

Gangbangs are bloody hard work to organise. I can see why organisers might charge a fee."

ignore the fact that charging to arrange a gangbang isnt illegal, clubs do it but they pay thousands for a sex venue licence from their relevant council.

I doubt any home gang bangs have a licence making them a BROTHEL which followinf the line down makes it against site rules

I don't go where someone wants 30 quid for me to shag them in their bedroom. I could have someone to myself...... i now have a number right? seriously you should gather your facts about sex venues first because going to a gangbang at a house where you are paying for entrance to a house is illegal as you are infact using a brothel according to law. paying towards food.... well tat isnt

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse."

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I blame it on the sunshine, moonlight star shine and the boogie

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

It's not about why the money was asked for or how much it was per meet or whether it was value for money.

This, as described by the OP, was demanding money with menaces.

Go to the cops.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory.

you have pointed nothing out, just made some remark. this is no story telling fib for your info. so please stick to cluedo because not much good past this!

you are a moron. I never got charged on the first meet, and money was never discussed. I have no idea why they did this. maybe they are THAT hard up for cash that it wasnt pre planned, maybe it was after all, didnt cost them anything but time.

people risk their lives stealing copper to make 50 quid so im sure 4 hours a a bow job and some sex wouldn't be a bad trade off in comparison....

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Charging to arrange a party is not illegal. The place is only a sex venue if they are charging for sex.

It's quite possibly for someone to charge for arranging a party at which sex happens. The fee is for the work involved, not the sex.

That's my point. Charging for arranging the party or event seems perfectly reasonable to me.

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

and again you cant grasp a simple concept of Im asking admin to deal with this AFTER it has happened and do what they can not saying it WAS their fault but saying I have no faith in admin kicking a user that should clearly be kicked (and I can prove my story) as in the past they havent dealt with repeat rule breakers.

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here."

I've been doubting every word he's said for a while now, which is why I can no longer be arsed.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here."

nothing was said, they have been arrested, i will give full statement tomorrow. nothing on here will prejudice the case so why would they?

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here.

I've been doubting every word he's said for a while now, which is why I can no longer be arsed."

I came to this late and, as was noted, I've not read every word. I'm kinda glad about that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory.

you have pointed nothing out, just made some remark. this is no story telling fib for your info. so please stick to cluedo because not much good past this!

people risk their lives stealing copper to make 50 quid so im sure 4 hours a a bow job and some sex wouldn't be a bad trade off in comparison...."

I never got conned by two of the countries cheapest crooks. And you call me a moron. Good work fella

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here.

I've been doubting every word he's said for a while now, which is why I can no longer be arsed."

lol ok your high and mighty..... we knw where you stand with victims. wished you couldnt of been arsed 100 mins ago like.... but comeback when you want some more fact explained....

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

that isn't what this site is about. Would you pay a couple after you fucked the wife? Course not. Or a single woman after you both finished playing with her if that's your thing

I'm pointing out the discrepancies in his jackanory.

you have pointed nothing out, just made some remark. this is no story telling fib for your info. so please stick to cluedo because not much good past this!

people risk their lives stealing copper to make 50 quid so im sure 4 hours a a bow job and some sex wouldn't be a bad trade off in comparison....

I never got conned by two of the countries cheapest crooks. And you call me a moron. Good work fella

i didnt pay so i didnt get conned as such but you state they are charging per meet..... lol clever

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

If this as happened once why have you reported several profiles, it don't add up somehow.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"Charging to arrange a party is not illegal. The place is only a sex venue if they are charging for sex.

It's quite possibly for someone to charge for arranging a party at which sex happens. The fee is for the work involved, not the sex.

That's my point. Charging for arranging the party or event seems perfectly reasonable to me."

chams dont charge for sex, they charge for a venue to have sex in if you choose to. chams is a sex venue. i think you should actually find someone to help you undertand wha a sex venue is and how the law applies to it.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"If this as happened once why have you reported several profiles, it don't add up somehow.

WHOOOSH i have said in the past I have noticed escorts using the site, by noticing I dont mean I have used contacted or been contacted but merely seen meets on here that are clear escorting.... i have reported them each time and sometimes I have tried helping admin by doing research to back up the report. i.e simply googling a fab username bringing up their escorting page that is clearly advertising the same meet. I have reported it and seen them still doing it weeks after.

What happened tonight happened to me personally and has happened just the ONCE.

Im merely ranting saying that alongside reporting it to the police I have reported the user to admin also but I have a lack of faith in admin doing the right thing.

ok?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here.

nothing was said, they have been arrested, i will give full statement tomorrow. nothing on here will prejudice the case so why would they? "

Wow that was quick. You were waiting for further info a little while back. And it's good of the police to arrest them from only a phone conversation. It's takes the police a couple of days to respond to a burglary around here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Charging to arrange a party is not illegal. The place is only a sex venue if they are charging for sex.

It's quite possibly for someone to charge for arranging a party at which sex happens. The fee is for the work involved, not the sex.

That's my point. Charging for arranging the party or event seems perfectly reasonable to me."

I didn't say it was illegal just pointing out that people don't charge when there isn't sex involved. Didn't say they were charging for sex either. It isn't reasonable to me but I haven't been to one to see what you get for your money

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

My milk of human kindness is rapidly running out.

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By *imjohnCouple over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

I think you have had a bad experience with an escort in the past and are on a crazy one man crusade now, you have reported girls for thinking they are using the site to escort because that is their day job on another site.

Why do you research for Fab...enjoy the site like everyone else, I think after reporting endless girls for no reason you have cooked up this crazy story to give some sort of credibility to your rantings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry OP but you lack any credibility.

Your first post says you just got back from the attack but Admin are in the wrong for not actioning your report yet, then there is the 20 + 20 = 30 issue.

Then one hour later you have reported to the police who only took one hour to arrest the couple without as much as a full statement from you, let alone any evidence to back up an arrest.

Then after that you mention this was a second meet and the first was quite correctly a fee free meet.

IF any of this did happen, then your lack of credibility would make your report very suspect, think if I were a site admin then I would be wanting to see the crime number and result of any police investigation before banning any profile you raised a complaint against.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

A criminal offence has been comitted. Go to the police. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Knee knaw knee knaw knee knaw; let our good old fashioned honest bobbies deal with this one, you're bound to be satisfied with the service you've paid for..........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would love to see someone who are giving negative replies here actually know a victim. Opinions will change rapidly then

as most victims can be blamed if you are that pessimistic. "
. Here here!! I know a very nice lady from this site who was viciously attacked by a couple the week befor Xmas. She had rules etc for meets which she allways followed yet still became a victim. She went to the police and it's now being investigated. I'm sure many posters on here would soon change there story if it happened to them and come here wanting support. Yes people also do ask for money, I had a guy offer me money for sex a few week ago because apparently 'most' single women in my area charge. He got told to do one!! And reported.

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"Sorry OP but you lack any credibility.

Your first post says you just got back from the attack but Admin are in the wrong for not actioning your report yet, then there is the 20 + 20 = 30 issue.

Then one hour later you have reported to the police who only took one hour to arrest the couple without as much as a full statement from you, let alone any evidence to back up an arrest.

Then after that you mention this was a second meet and the first was quite correctly a fee free meet.

"Sorry OP but you lack any credibility.

Your first post says you just got back from the attack but Admin are in the wrong for not actioning your report yet, then there is the 20 + 20 = 30 issue.

Then one hour later you have reported to the police who only took one hour to arrest the couple without as much as a full statement from you, let alone any evidence to back up an arrest.

Then after that you mention this was a second meet and the first was quite correctly a fee free meet.

see above as to why i offered to get 20 out car another other 20 out cashpoint.... panick! as for crime number They don't even need that I have texts abusing me for not paying on my phone which come from a number that was ent to me via fab's messages system. so mere screen shots should suffice

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"I think you have had a bad experience with an escort in the past and are on a crazy one man crusade now, you have reported girls for thinking they are using the site to escort because that is their day job on another site.

good for you, but you are wrong. save your story making for a scenario in one of your videos which I have enjoyed watching

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By *howman_uk OP Man over a year ago

birmingham

"The OP has to go to the cops. It'll just happen to others and eventually someone will get badly hurt or worse.

He's already said he has. Now he wants admin to take action to protect him from prostitues and con artists. It's all admin's fault.

I'm not convinced. The cops would have told him not to announce what happened and the fact he'd contacted them, especially on here.

nothing was said, they have been arrested, i will give full statement tomorrow. nothing on here will prejudice the case so why would they?

Well I suggest you go to your local councilors surgery and complain!

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By *RYBBWCouple over a year ago

Leeds.

The OP is not happy with the site, with admin, the people on here or the quality of his meets.

So why is he still here other than attention seeking ?

And when did 20 + 20 = 30 ?

Like that simple bit of maths, this whole equation doesn't add up....

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By *riendly foeWoman over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

£30...???

Fuck she was cheap!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you're encountering prostitutes, it's your selection process. Admin can't save you from yourself!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm thinking axe grinding myself too, especially from the line in the original post about people charging for parties.

If it happened to me it would have been call the police first, then report profile directly to admin. Not sure how long it would take to calm down enough to post on the forum but it wouldn't have been the same night.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"£30...???

Fuck she was cheap!!!!!

I thought that

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Now my safety has been compromised I ask..... ADMIN WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT PROSTITUTES ON YOUR WEBSITE?

Admin don't allow escorts to ply their trade on the site and if you report them they are told they can't do it and warned if they do it again they will be suspended.

It doesn't matter if someone has a page on AW as long as they are not using this site to ask for money, ie if they want to swing on here with no money exchanged then thats fine.

To your meet, as all what you say happened didn't happen on this site then the relevant authorities need to be told. Don't worry about telling them where you met the people, the Police won't care about that.

I would also report the person on here so Admin can take a look.

I don't think you could pre empt what was going to happen on a meet so "changing your selection process" is not something I would worry too much about.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Ps I can't believe how hard a time the OP got on this thread.

To be clear, if this happened it is a serious issue and isn't something any of us could have predicted.

The man is against paying for sex so I am sure he wouldn't have gone to a meet if money was discussed first.

How anyone on this thread could predict what was going to happen I don't know so why would a selection process need to be changed.

I can't imagine any one of you would have been happy if anything bad happened on any meet of yours, but I am sure the reaction would have been different if you had mentioned it on the forum

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