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Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking. |
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."
I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ????   |
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.
I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ???? "
Each to their own. Just because someone else doesn't like it, it doesn't make it wrong. I'm sure that you get aroused or get sexual pleasure from things that others wouldn't, and this is exactly the same thing  |
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Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!
I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic. |
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"Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!
I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic."
No probs! I understand that some people don't 'get it', but as legs said, it'd be boring if we were all into the same things (or something like that  ) |
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"Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!
I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic.
No probs! I understand that some people don't 'get it', but as legs said, it'd be boring if we were all into the same things (or something like that ) "
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.
I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ????
Each to their own. Just because someone else doesn't like it, it doesn't make it wrong. I'm sure that you get aroused or get sexual pleasure from things that others wouldn't, and this is exactly the same thing "
As you say.."each to their own" and its my choice to Not like Humiliation in any form and dont find in the least sexual......Degrading ..yes...but not sexual. |
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.
I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ???? "
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I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad.. |
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"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad.."
Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong |
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"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..
Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong"
Sorry, degrading, not demeaning |
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"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..
Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong
Sorry, degrading, not demeaning "
If thats what floats their boat ,so be it. Dont mean i gotta like it. |
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"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..
Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong
Sorry, degrading, not demeaning
If thats what floats their boat ,so be it. Dont mean i gotta like it. "
No one said you did |
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By *rsK69Woman
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."
Its the fact that you say you "had" to do it that baffles me. Surely it should be a mutually agreed thing. |
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The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.
It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously. |
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"I'm surprised more people aren't into this."
I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is |
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"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.
It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously."
No problem with it myself as long as those involved are discreet and don't involve others, there are much worse things. As always safe, sane and consensual.....might add legal in there too. |
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"I'm surprised more people aren't into this.
I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is"
you make it sound as if people who don't share this preference aren't strong. I don't think that's true. |
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"I'm surprised more people aren't into this.
I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is
you make it sound as if people who don't share this preference aren't strong. I don't think that's true."
No I wasn't, I was guessing nothing more |
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.
Its the fact that you say you "had" to do it that baffles me. Surely it should be a mutually agreed thing. "
I imagine it is mutually agreed,.he wouldn't be posting here so cheerfully if it wasn't but its hardly public humiliation if they asked him nicely if he minded and it didn't matter if he didn't do it, I guess that feeling he had to do it was part of the turn on. I don't understand why people are questioning what is clearly a big turn on for this man. |
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My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.
It really is each to their own. |
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"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."
Its not our bag but know people who like it. Each to their own though so enjoy if it does it for you.  |
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"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.
It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously."
Lets just say that there is a "not so nice side" to "humiliation" ...That some...people experience. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.
It really is each to their own. "
Ok I have to ask, wearing a parachute? Is that a normal parachute or something sexual that I have no clue about? |
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"My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.
It really is each to their own.
Ok I have to ask, wearing a parachute? Is that a normal parachute or something sexual that I have no clue about?"
I just googled it ruggers. Appears to be a parachute shape thing that goes on the chaps balls with weights hanging off it!  |
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Goodness, I'd never heard of a parachute either. Thanks you Miss tress for a great and imaginative contribution.
I don't have any self-esteem issues and don't think you do particularly need to be strong minded to cope with this. Just an understanding that it's just a fleeting moment of embarrassment that most people forget about quickly. I once had to go to a condom counter and ask for some extra large ones for my partner's black boyfriend. But yes, i did it a long way from home.
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"Goodness, I'd never heard of a parachute either. Thanks you Miss tress for a great and imaginative contribution.
I don't have any self-esteem issues and don't think you do particularly need to be strong minded to cope with this. Just an understanding that it's just a fleeting moment of embarrassment that most people forget about quickly. I once had to go to a condom counter and ask for some extra large ones for my partner's black boyfriend. But yes, i did it a long way from home.
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the one and only thing that bothers me about this is involving other people and potentially causing an innocent shop assistant or hotel receptionist embarrassment. |
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It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things. |
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I imagine there's a lot of us on here that look at things that others do and think WTF but we are all so very different and like/get off on such a wide variety of things. As long as it's consensual.It doesn't make us bad people |
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"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.
It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously.
Lets just say that there is a "not so nice side" to "humiliation" ...That some...people experience. "
Absolutely |
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"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things. "
similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..
met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..
so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..
each to their own as said.. |
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"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things.
similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..
met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..
so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..
each to their own as said.."
This highlights something very interesting could potentially be a separate thread on its own; that of bulls knowing and understand the role they inhabit. Remembering there are THREE people in such scenarios seems, from what I've read over the years, to be beyond some.
Hope it didn't stop you from subsequent encounters x |
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"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things.
similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..
met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..
so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..
each to their own as said..
This highlights something very interesting could potentially be a separate thread on its own; that of bulls knowing and understand the role they inhabit. Remembering there are THREE people in such scenarios seems, from what I've read over the years, to be beyond some.
Hope it didn't stop you from subsequent encounters x"
Agreed and its something we have discussed with others on here also..
seems to be a 'no brainer' for the guy wanting to explore this role..
yet how many have given it little or no thought and missed out to their detriment..
Nope, not really..
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