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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys.
We are new to the site so wanted peoples opinions.
We like to get to know someone before meeting and we are finding that a few people send a few messages then ask to meet and when we say we want to chat and see if we get along first we don't hear anything again.
we know its a swingers site but we thought other people would want to chat to someone before meeting too.
Just wondered how long do you all chat with someone before you would feel comfortable with a meet?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not long.
Sometimes spur of the moment. Sometimes a drink first. We never do 'socials'. We don't have much free time and we're not looking for friends or partners - just people we get on with and fancy shagging. That doesn't take long to work out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always stick with what makes you feel more comfortable and you should have an enjoyable stay here. Its about your enjoyment after all and f your feeling pressured into meeting to quickly likely hood is the meet will be poor as you will both be uneasy and not able to relax.
Good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've found that some people on here are just here for a cheap thrill rather than actually meeting and it's difficult to know what other people are really looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only meet when YOU feel ready those you don,t hear from again are,nt worth worrying about, take your time and meet the right people for you"
^^^^ this. Go at your own pace, no one elses! |
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with us e like to go at our own pace chat a little meet up for a social and then if we are all up for it meet up again for play time. if they don't like it then sure they wouldn't have been for us anyway.
Always remember its what suits you and don't let anyone try and change that xxxxxxxxxxxxxx |
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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We like to wink,then shag.
To much talk,leads to,
to much thinking,leading to unrealistic expectation,
leading to disappointing meets,due to to much talking.
Wink and shag,it's the swinging future.
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