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serious question is it the men who brings up the idea of swinging in most couoles ?
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over a year ago
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Joint decision always had a laugh and fub after a drink or two then whilst in sex shop on holiday we saw flyers for a swinging venue and decided to research when we got home! Found a swinging forum found a cpl and they took us to our first club the rest is history xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well he threw out there The idea of a threesome a few years ago. I said sure if I could have the same lol. it started a lot of fantasy talk for a couple years but it was my idea to make it a reality. so there ya go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Slightly off topic but not much. My friends know I go to clubs. Most of the girls want to come (and a few have already), the guys talk about it with macho bravado but as yet, all have been too scared : |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In our case I suggested it to hubby. We talked about it for a year before we actually agreed to go ahead and do full swaps.
I was recently at a swingers party and this topic came up in conversation, for the vast majority of couples there it was the wives' idea to start swinging. It actually took me by surprise as I though I was the odd one out.
However, I would also say that swinging wives probably have a heightened sense of sexuality compared to the rest of the vanilla population so we may not be representative in our audacity. |
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over a year ago
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V said she wanted to see what being with women was like, so we looked into ways we could make it happen.
found a swinging site and the first time happened within a few weeks, and it just carried on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Always wonderd because it was actually my (Amber) idea and people are surprised "
Same. Although not the people are surprised bit because we don't tell 'em. |
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