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over a year ago
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"Ok so just wondering how many of you gorgeous women on here send the first message? Or do you all get so many you don't need to ? Xxx"
I'm not gorgeous but I'll answer anyway. I have only ever sent a couple of messages first as never really look for meets etc and do get a few messages and have people I talk to.  |
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over a year ago
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I'm not gorgeous either, and I never send out first messages. Not confident enough to do that. I'll probably get criticised by the usuall Forum mob but it's my profile, my confidence issues and I can use this site how I want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not gorgeous either, and I never send out first messages. Not confident enough to do that. I'll probably get criticised by the usuall Forum mob but it's my profile, my confidence issues and I can use this site how I want."
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"Not gorgeous but If I see a profile that catches my eye I will send a cheeky wink or a brief message "
wow all you women looking sexy as fuck and not one of you think your gorgeous pitty your all so far away x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not gorgeous but If I see a profile that catches my eye I will send a cheeky wink or a brief message wow all you women looking sexy as fuck and not one of you think your gorgeous pitty your all so far away x"
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I have no issue sending the first message .If a guy catches my interest ill mail them and say so . Always nice to compliment a profile or pictures .
One of my long standing friends came from a thread on forum. I commented on his picture and private messaged him and it went from there !!!!
I find it refreshing to take the incentive and mail a guy .sometimes I get a reply ,sometimes not .But a lot of fun looking at the delish profiles looking for a guy who matches what im looking for . In fact quite a turn on at times .... well till I get cock pic over load lol x |
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"I have no issue sending the first message .If a guy catches my interest ill mail them and say so . Always nice to compliment a profile or pictures .
One of my long standing friends came from a thread on forum. I commented on his picture and private messaged him and it went from there !!!!
I find it refreshing to take the incentive and mail a guy .sometimes I get a reply ,sometimes not .But a lot of fun looking at the delish profiles looking for a guy who matches what im looking for . In fact quite a turn on at times .... well till I get cock pic over load lol x"
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"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!  
Awww you broke him with your tongue 
Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.  "
Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute. |
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"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!
Awww you broke him with your tongue
Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.
Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute."
Fair point and I am glad he did so. Still disappointing though.  |
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"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!
Awww you broke him with your tongue
Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.
Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute.
Fair point and I am glad he did so. Still disappointing though. "
cant believe he didn't just go for it first xx |
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I have a few times but tend to avoid it now after a few strops. Apparently me making the first contact means I'm definitely going to meet them, even if after chatting I decide they're not for me. |
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"Am not gorgeous. New here , i do have a look. Sent a few messages but i think people are turned off as i am new.  can't see why to be honest xx"
thank you! I will send a few more messages! Wish me luck |
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Yes we have and do make first contact with couples and singles. 