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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
If its a NSA meet I couldn't care less how much money as man has, as its not my business. And vice versa.
If I ever do have another relationship I do expect the person to be employed, due to bad experiences in the past. I am not in the market for a cock-lodger again. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card. |
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"I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card. "
Well they were being disingenuous. The best male pose I like is the one where he is three feet tall from the ground but six feet tall stood on his wallet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are women so obsessed with how much money a guy has . Us guys don't think about how much money the women have do we. "
men are expected to be the providers, hunter gatheres, on a swinging site that isn't always the case, lots of women have been let down by men, and the last thing they want to be is accountable to a breadwinner.
Money = power. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, hang around in the forums and you will be able to spot the piss-taking posts more readily, as I believe those suggestions in the other thread are posted with the posters' tongues firmly in their cheeks.   |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card. "
It was a joke. As if I'd ever meet a guy with a Veyron and sack of gold. |
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"I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card.
It was a joke. As if I'd ever meet a guy with a Veyron and sack of gold."
I know ! You said TWO sacks of gold at least ! |
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"I'm well off and don't mind being generous but there's no way being taken for a ride is acceptable, I've had people expecting money for various things and it's just delete etc"
Wash your avatar for a fiver mister ? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card.
It was a joke. As if I'd ever meet a guy with a Veyron and sack of gold.
I know ! You said TWO sacks of gold at least !"
At least!!  |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Why are women so obsessed with how much money a guy has . Us guys don't think about how much money the women have do we. "
Excuse me? Maybe you attract the type of woman who is interested in your income but not all women are that shallow.
I have been the main breadwinner in every single relationship I've been in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't lower myself to being looked after financially by a man.
I've always earns my own money and always been in a position to be independent. That will never change while I have a hole in my arse |
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"I only posted this topic because I was reading another 1 about the best pose for a guy and the money subject came up quite a lot so did the credit card. "
They were joking, you were the only one that took it seriously. |
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"I'm well off and don't mind being generous but there's no way being taken for a ride is acceptable, I've had people expecting money for various things and it's just delete etc
Wash your avatar for a fiver mister ?"
A fivers fair enough lol!
I've been asked for extortionate 'travel expenses' for a meet, even though I offered to get a hotel myself near where the other person lived and for me to travel there! |
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"I wouldn't lower myself to being looked after financially by a man.
I've always earns my own money and always been in a position to be independent. That will never change while I have a hole in my arse "
I am sooooooo biting my tongue. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
Money, life styles, education, your post code & snobbery does rear its ugly head a lot on Fab.
We want to meet people we like & don't get impressed with what they have or how clever they are.
As soon as anyone uses the above we know they are not the people we would want to meet & make our excuses.
We can see where the OP is coming from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm usually a bit skint third week into the month but if I'm meeting someone I offer to buy coffee or drinks if it's hotel I offer to pay half or if I'm totally broke and they want to meet again will offer to pay next time but they have always refused to let me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suspect a percentage of woman are interested in a man and his money. I've been horrendously poor and comfortably well off in my past life. Now I'm single and financially independent. I've no interest whatsoever in what a man earns. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are women so obsessed with how much money a guy has . Us guys don't think about how much money the women have do we.
Excuse me? Maybe you attract the type of woman who is interested in your income but not all women are that shallow.
I have been the main breadwinner in every single relationship I've been in. "
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as they don't seem to have worked, maybe a change would be nice  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi red I was getting on at you . I've know you for a long time and I know your not like that. "
I know I was just joining in. Im in forums a lot lately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are women so obsessed with how much money a guy has . Us guys don't think about how much money the women have do we. "
Women like successful confident men that know hat they want and how to get it. It's unfortunate how some guys translate this to how much money they have and totally miss the fact that it's the confident go getter that women like.
Unfortunately a few women are gold diggers, they never kept me for long.
The best thing to do is if asked about money ask to exchange bank statements at the next meeting..
If your seriously short of money here is a list of cheap dates , that are fun
On first date arrive 5 minutes early so you buy your own drink , also This doubles as if she does not like you she can walk out whilst pretending to buy coffee.
Darts at a pub, make sure you do it mid week and drive so drink soft drinks set a time limit like meet at 7 then leave at 9. If you don't drink alcohol she will feel guilty about asking for drinks. I have been on dates and d*unk water with ice very refreshing on a hot day.
Bowling gives the oppurtunity to check out arse without being Percy
Pool at a pool hall , another chance to check out arse and down top without being Pervy
Bat and ball in the park, take along soft drinks and a couple of sarnies
When you know them dinner at yours , followed by board game
If they mention going for a meal just say you never take girls for meals till you have had sex 3 times.
When it comes to your job always play it down not up women like to find out things for themselves. If your happy with your job then it does not matter
But most importantly do you remember your mum, always saying to you tell me everything , women don't like that they look interested , but if you tell them everything they don't respect you .
Never try to impress a. Girl with posh restaurants or expensive gifts as you have to keep it up, if she mentions gifts say something sarcastic like I only buy girls flowers if we are going clubbing , but I expect them to carry them all night long .
Remember confidence = sex
Hang ups over anything = wanking to porn |
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I have never been interested in how much money a man has, if you have lots then good for you for working so hard to get it, I have always worked and always prepared to pay my way towards travelling and meeting, I have only ever let one guy pay for the whole weekend and that was because he booked it for a bday present for me
You can keep your money I just want your mind and your body if you interest me enough  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't care how much money anyone has that's nothing to do with me. One of the main reasons I won't do hotels is because I can rarely afford half and won't let a man pay fully and even when I've explained this they still try to change my mind but if I can't afford then its still a no . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't care how much money anyone has that's nothing to do with me. One of the main reasons I won't do hotels is because I can rarely afford half and won't let a man pay fully and even when I've explained this they still try to change my mind but if I can't afford then its still a no ."
We don't do hotels , we can accomadate at ours if Paula wants a guy I go out or stay with mates and vice versa , we also can have people round whilst either one of us in.
We also won't go to other peoples places .works for us |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Inverted snobbery can just be as ugly and distasteful, IMHO. 
Yup. That scorn for daring to 'rise above your station'.
You guys know yourself better than we do "
Don't know what that means. |
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"Why are women so obsessed with how much money a guy has . Us guys don't think about how much money the women have do we.
Women like successful confident men that know hat they want and how to get it. It's unfortunate how some guys translate this to how much money they have and totally miss the fact that it's the confident go getter that women like.
Unfortunately a few women are gold diggers, they never kept me for long.
The best thing to do is if asked about money ask to exchange bank statements at the next meeting..
If your seriously short of money here is a list of cheap dates , that are fun
On first date arrive 5 minutes early so you buy your own drink , also This doubles as if she does not like you she can walk out whilst pretending to buy coffee.
Darts at a pub, make sure you do it mid week and drive so drink soft drinks set a time limit like meet at 7 then leave at 9. If you don't drink alcohol she will feel guilty about asking for drinks. I have been on dates and d*unk water with ice very refreshing on a hot day.
Bowling gives the oppurtunity to check out arse without being Percy
Pool at a pool hall , another chance to check out arse and down top without being Pervy
Bat and ball in the park, take along soft drinks and a couple of sarnies
When you know them dinner at yours , followed by board game
If they mention going for a meal just say you never take girls for meals till you have had sex 3 times.
When it comes to your job always play it down not up women like to find out things for themselves. If your happy with your job then it does not matter
But most importantly do you remember your mum, always saying to you tell me everything , women don't like that they look interested , but if you tell them everything they don't respect you .
Never try to impress a. Girl with posh restaurants or expensive gifts as you have to keep it up, if she mentions gifts say something sarcastic like I only buy girls flowers if we are going clubbing , but I expect them to carry them all night long .
Remember confidence = sex
Hang ups over anything = wanking to porn "
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"Inverted snobbery can just be as ugly and distasteful, IMHO.
Yup. That scorn for daring to 'rise above your station'.
You guys know yourself better than we do
Don't know what that means."
Ain't sure what you guys mean either |
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