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over a year ago
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Depends if they were good actors, and could roll around screaming "your the best I've ever had", in between moments where they pause with empathy asking " I hope you feel ok about not getting your fab messages not replied to by all those people".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you take one?
Would you give one?"
I wouldn't take one, but have given a few . When I was dating I would say your a really nice girl but it won't go anywhere . I will let you have a shag and we can call it a day. It's surprising how many girls take that up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex? someone that feels they can't get one lol
Nette"
How do we badge that up as sympathy sex though? Isn't it just sex?
Surely people wouldn't have sex unless they wanted to, even if it's sex for the sake of sex.
What makes it sympathy sex? I must be missing something.
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over a year ago
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex? someone that feels they can't get one lol
Nette
How do we badge that up as sympathy sex though? Isn't it just sex?
Surely people wouldn't have sex unless they wanted to, even if it's sex for the sake of sex. Sex is wanting to yes? Not really to give in pity, or take for the sake of it
What makes it sympathy sex? I must be missing something.
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over a year ago
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?"
If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway. |
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"Must be so difficult for all you perfect people....."
We are not all perfect we all have our flaws but I certainly would not sleep with someone because I was not attracted to them and only was doing it because I did not have the heart to say no...it's about self worth and I I like to keep mine intact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be so difficult for all you perfect people.....
We are not all perfect we all have our flaws but I certainly would not sleep with someone because I was not attracted to them and only was doing it because I did not have the heart to say no...it's about self worth and I I like to keep mine intact "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would how horny you are be a factor??
I don't know if I've ever been pity fucked (I don't even want to know haha)
Thinking about I may of given one without realising, because I blinded by my penis' wants  |
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over a year ago
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?
If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway."
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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It depends how nice a person they are (personality not looks), to simply say no ain't always that easy.
We have met some beautiful people in our time & after 5 mins in their company we don't even want to share the same house let alone the same bed with them.
Trophy's are what some people want & collect but we would rather meet genuine friendly people with great personalities. |
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over a year ago
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?
If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway.
But if you didn't want to on some level then surely you wouldn't, would you?"
yes some people have done maybe not you though. |
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over a year ago
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When I first joined Fab I met up with a couple that had travelled quite a distance to meet me, I was a bit unsure when we first met whether or not I found them attractive then we went for something to eat and I realised if I played with them it would be because I felt obliged to. So when he clapped his hands together and said " right back to the hotel to play" I said no. His face fell, I thought she was going to burst into tears but I am not here for everyone's amusement and had they of used up to date photos I wouldn't of met them in the first instance!
So a very long winded no!!! |
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"When I first joined Fab I met up with a couple that had travelled quite a distance to meet me, I was a bit unsure when we first met whether or not I found them attractive then we went for something to eat and I realised if I played with them it would be because I felt obliged to. So when he clapped his hands together and said " right back to the hotel to play" I said no. His face fell, I thought she was going to burst into tears but I am not here for everyone's amusement and had they of used up to date photos I wouldn't of met them in the first instance!
So a very long winded no!!!"
Hahaa wish I was there for that! But you done good though gotta be real. |
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"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?
If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway."
If someone keeps messaging me, I block them
If I meet someone and the connection/attraction isn't there then I will simply say so, in a calm polite manner. Neither of these scenarios lead to sex |
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"It depends how nice a person they are (personality not looks), to simply say no ain't always that easy.
We have met some beautiful people in our time & after 5 mins in their company we don't even want to share the same house let alone the same bed with them.
Trophy's are what some people want & collect but we would rather meet genuine friendly people with great personalities. "
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I have in the past given one or two sympathy shags and they didn't turn out bad...as to whether I've been a sympathy shag, I've no idea (nor do I particularly care). I won't say that I'd never give another, but I am pretty good now at saying no tactfully (I combine it with retching noises, works a treat)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes yes from me, shags a shag, oh and my great great great great granny died on Christmas Day and I could really do with some sympathy right now........any offers lol |
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Most definitely not !!!
Previously I would go on socials where I guess they were a bit of a give them the benefit of the doubt meets ... and without exception they have always been a no ... has learnt me to trust my gut instincts ... I'm not desperate for a man's company ... and it makes the very good ones even more enjoyable !!! |
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