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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being comfortable naked is all about self confidence. Those who have got a lot of it can do that easily enough. Those who got some may do it after a drink and others won't do it at all.
I take my top off either have a few fair few or when I got to change my top in public. Other than that I won't go any further. |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Not sure how to word this without it sounding odd...
I'm comfortable being naked, until I'm with someone I really like who hasn't seen me naked before. Then I get a little shy  "
I can understand that,..you are exposed completely stripped bare both physically and some what mentally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep im very happy being naked had rhis body for 39 and it bit years so im used to all the lumps and bumps. Others mighten be but hey ho they can close there fecking eyes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be more confident than I am now 
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me "
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
I've been on one end to the other end of the size spectrum...I've been a size 12 I've been a size 30....I'm now a 20 and have this sudden burst of confidence which I didn't have at a size 12 or 30...I guess I feel comfortable with myself to be naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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V has very much come out of her shell, in no small part to being on here.
in xtasia she walked around half naked, and i have never seen that in her.
she often happily walks around naked at mine, although we both do as the kids arent around, so its almost as if its a release.
me, personally, not so much.
cuz im overweight i think people are looking at me, even if they are too busy doing someone, i mean something else, i can get very self conscious.
that saud, in the throws of passion, im easy lol |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"No, so very self conscious!
Bollocks lol
Nah, they were removed in the final op... Seriously though Jess, I hate what I see in the mirror x"
Aww sugar nowt wrong from where I'm looking but I understand where you are coming from  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I blame me parents....we had to cover up everything, i couldnt even have bare arms in the summer. If me mother had her way we would have also had swimming costumes from victorian days. oppressive parents dont make happy children im afraid.  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx"
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused "
If there was 'imperfections' my eyes would filter them out.....I think thats a compliment saying I think ur lovely- and just in case people are reading this and reaching for the vomit bag, they can fuck off lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm comfortable being naked now I'm a bit older. Sounds weird, I would have thought it would have been the opposite. I suppose you get to be comfortable in your own skin.
As for stripping, I think I would be laughing too much if I did a strip.
One of my exes once tied me to a chair and stripped to "slave to love" by Bryan
Ferry. That was kinda fun. |
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"I'm comfortable being naked now I'm a bit older. Sounds weird, I would have thought it would have been the opposite. I suppose you get to be comfortable in your own skin.
As for stripping, I think I would be laughing too much if I did a strip.
One of my exes once tied me to a chair and stripped to "slave to love" by Bryan
Ferry. That was kinda fun."
It was sounding Fun til the Bryan Ferry part |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused
If there was 'imperfections' my eyes would filter them out.....I think thats a compliment saying I think ur lovely- and just in case people are reading this and reaching for the vomit bag, they can fuck off lol"
Lol Sometimes I can be thick! Doesn't happen often, just now and again! I'm very conscientious of my stomach, even though I am a size 6/8 so yes it is not size dependent as someone else has said  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused
If there was 'imperfections' my eyes would filter them out.....I think thats a compliment saying I think ur lovely- and just in case people are reading this and reaching for the vomit bag, they can fuck off lol"
I'm with ya there Mate
Gary |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused
If there was 'imperfections' my eyes would filter them out.....I think thats a compliment saying I think ur lovely- and just in case people are reading this and reaching for the vomit bag, they can fuck off lol
Lol Sometimes I can be thick! Doesn't happen often, just now and again! I'm very conscientious of my stomach, even though I am a size 6/8 so yes it is not size dependent as someone else has said "
I've got a huge belly I am a bit self conscientious of my belly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are all what we are big small tall short fat an thin. If your not comfortable in your own skin how can you expect any els to like you "
Well those ive met dont seem to have a problem  |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me
I have photoshop eyes ya stunner xxx
Does that mean you would photoshop me? Is that not a bad thing? I'm confused
If there was 'imperfections' my eyes would filter them out.....I think thats a compliment saying I think ur lovely- and just in case people are reading this and reaching for the vomit bag, they can fuck off lol
Lol Sometimes I can be thick! Doesn't happen often, just now and again! I'm very conscientious of my stomach, even though I am a size 6/8 so yes it is not size dependent as someone else has said
I've got a huge belly I am a bit self conscientious of my belly "
I have a big belly but no one notices really because of my boobs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm comfortable being naked now I'm a bit older. Sounds weird, I would have thought it would have been the opposite. I suppose you get to be comfortable in your own skin.
As for stripping, I think I would be laughing too much if I did a strip.
One of my exes once tied me to a chair and stripped to "slave to love" by Bryan
Ferry. That was kinda fun.
It was sounding Fun til the Bryan Ferry part "
Yeah, it was in the nineties lol I suppose now it would be to One Direction |
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"I'm comfortable being naked now I'm a bit older. Sounds weird, I would have thought it would have been the opposite. I suppose you get to be comfortable in your own skin.
As for stripping, I think I would be laughing too much if I did a strip.
One of my exes once tied me to a chair and stripped to "slave to love" by Bryan
Ferry. That was kinda fun.
It was sounding Fun til the Bryan Ferry part
Yeah, it was in the nineties lol I suppose now it would be to One Direction "
That's a horrible thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They do say that when a guy has the horn, he notices nothing else bar the goal of insertion........caveman tactics.....like "he never looks at the mantle piece whilst poking the fire"  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"We are all what we are big small tall short fat an thin. If your not comfortable in your own skin how can you expect any els to like you "
You missed my point! I am comfortable and confident in my own skin, it's just that I state on my profile my pics are lucky lol but some men put me on a pedestal and think I am perfect which I am very quick to defend and say I am not! |
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I believe most of you would benefit from learning about the Coue Methode. Only a suggestion!
Wikipedia: Autosuggestion is a psychological technique that was developed by apothecary Émile Coué at the beginning of the 20th century. |
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I pad round at home in the buff.
I actually had to put something in the hallway window anyways I get naked in chams jacuzzis and what not but I rarely get naked on one to one meets. Not even in private play rooms.
That might have more to do with the, little I am wearing giving suitable access and a nice heated session not allowing for strip teases, than anything else though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...i'm not that comfortable naked. Haven't got the best body in the world. I prefer having my tank top on though.
Plus, i get cold so quick and then i'm hot again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all... "
Blimey!!How quick was the striptease? |
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all...
Blimey!!How quick was the striptease? "
Not that quick...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm comfortable being naked now I'm a bit older. Sounds weird, I would have thought it would have been the opposite. I suppose you get to be comfortable in your own skin.
As for stripping, I think I would be laughing too much if I did a strip.
One of my exes once tied me to a chair and stripped to "slave to love" by Bryan
Ferry. That was kinda fun.
It was sounding Fun til the Bryan Ferry part
Yeah, it was in the nineties lol I suppose now it would be to One Direction
That's a horrible thought "
If I had a meet and they started stripping to One Direction, I'd be fairly certain they were about to reveal a 7" cock. Meet would go downhill from there I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all...
Blimey!!How quick was the striptease?
Not that quick...... "
Would have loved to have seen that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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once i am having sex i forget about what i look like usually, if im enjoying myself and if they dont like what they see thats too bad. i dont always like what i see that much. |
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"I used to be more confident than I am now
Too many men fixate on my pics and no matter how many times I say I am not perfect and have faults, they still don't believe me, so I feel as if they have put me on a pedestal before they have even met me "
I can totally relate to this..damn those good camera angles! Haha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"once i am having sex i forget about what i look like usually, if im enjoying myself and if they dont like what they see thats too bad. i dont always like what i see that much. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not comfortable being naked. Its not because of my size or disliking myself, I was brought up with rather prim parents and nudity wasnt enciuraged. In fact I couldnt hust wear a nightie, always had to out a dressing gown on the top.
I dont feel right being naked, even on my own walking round my bedroom it feels wrong. Of course I am naked when I have sex with my OH and im totally relaxed with that, but I wouldn't walk around naked,
When swinging I am never completely naked, unless im in a Jacuzzi, im always really quick getting out. I dont stand around in the changing rooms naked
either, I put my towel around me whilst getting changed. Once im in lingerie im comfortable. The lingerie may not cover a lot and my boobs tend to fall out of tiny slips of fabric, but ive still got some kind of clothing on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all... "
I am doesn't bother me it saves washing if you don't have to go out xx |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I prefer to be dressed in something nice. I do get the odd guy asking to see me naked, but I'm not sure if their carer has lent them his lap top, or they just don't get what lies under a crossdresser (satin sheets, obviously!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind getting naked when I'm being intimate with someone. Totally naked in public is a no for me. Although I did strip down to my knickers and go in a Jacuzzi in a club recently
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all... "
I want some meatloaf pants. On the front it will say. I will do anything for love. On the back it will say. But I won't do that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate my body and I hate looking at it. The 2 pics of me I have without clothes are 95% in shadow.
I hate being naked, it reminds of how unattractive I am.
I have so much respect for those with the confidence to be happy in their skin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all...
I want some meatloaf pants. On the front it will say. I will do anything for love. On the back it will say. But I won't do that "
Haha love it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all...
I want some meatloaf pants. On the front it will say. I will do anything for love. On the back it will say. But I won't do that "
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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
"Comfortable being naked?? For me I am I mean I have done a strip tease to bat out of hell by meatloaf...I really am comfortable baring all...
I want some meatloaf pants. On the front it will say. I will do anything for love. On the back it will say. But I won't do that "
Very good Ryan lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not comfortable being naked. Its not because of my size or disliking myself, I was brought up with rather prim parents and nudity wasnt enciuraged. In fact I couldnt hust wear a nightie, always had to out a dressing gown on the top.
I dont feel right being naked, even on my own walking round my bedroom it feels wrong. Of course I am naked when I have sex with my OH and im totally relaxed with that, but I wouldn't walk around naked,
When swinging I am never completely naked, unless im in a Jacuzzi, im always really quick getting out. I dont stand around in the changing rooms naked
either, I put my towel around me whilst getting changed. Once im in lingerie im comfortable. The lingerie may not cover a lot and my boobs tend to fall out of tiny slips of fabric, but ive still got some kind of clothing on "
Ohhhh are we sisters iconic i had the same kind of parents to....and i always prefer to wear a little rather than nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven't got a body which should be seen naked in public, but yes I would.
Got stripped off down to my undies at an office party once "
I think that's what they call a "career defining moment" PMSL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I need to have a shower I have to take everything off don't I?! When being in a sexual encounter the answer is YES. Other than that NO WAY. I avoid the shower facilities at the gym because men go nacked and I find it gross. |
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