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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get a DNA test first to confirm that he is your flesh and blood, think if you want him to be a part of your life and him yours, as it's a big step to take if not something your prepared to do, x |
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"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr 
Post it on a public forum  "
Standard 
Ring Jeremy Kyle
Of course if it was me I'd wonder what I was doing when he was born for me to remember giving birth |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be fair it blown me away I already have 3 kids not sure how they will react "
Sure if you want to be off his life they will adapt and be happy to have a older brother( guessing he's the eldest ) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Just bein intouch with his mom :/"
She must have had a reason to keep it from you. Start there before you tell your other children. Are they adults? If not be careful how you introduce the idea of a new and older sibling. |
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Think that's the best way to go DNA I would never turn my back on any child if he wants to be a part of my life I would welcome him with open arms I'm just worried about the effect it will have on my other children |
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"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr
I don't think I'd start by doing pirate impressions?"
Your such a naughty man lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The best thing to do is dna first. No point in hurting or confusing other kids if hes not yours x
If he is you need to sit them down and be 100 per cent honest. Lost of questions to be ansered here before introduction. They may embrace him right away or may take time. Dont argue ... Just take your time. Im sure in time, things will be ok.
Good luck. And in fiture as jeramy kyle says,..." Put something on the end of it' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank you I'm so blown away by it all at the moment "
You're bound to be must be a very big shock, but like other posters and myself have said get a DNA test done first, big hugs |
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