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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered, with the married couples, that is.
How long were you married before you got into this?
Also, how long have you been married
We started about 13 years ago, on and off and we've been married 32 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its great you married ones do this, after being in a stale relationship a few years back I think its better than cheating, which does happen if a relationship is not strong
Nette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Started swinging from a couple of months being together both wanted too..I was honest from the first date that I wanted to try it..
Married for 2years been together 4 years...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How do you know you both want to swing though?
I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "
I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I was honest....was with my ex for 14 years who was a compleat bore & controlling abusive idiot!!..
So when I was ready to date again I was sure as hell was going to be open & honest....I more or less said I want to swing and so did dee too we was just fortunate that we both wanted too thats all...
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"How do you know you both want to swing though?
I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "
I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"
For me it was more a case of being honest, I wanted more cock and much bigger cock.  |
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married 30 years
started about 12 yrs ago ish..
on the conversation aspect ours was discussing fantasies that we both shared and some that only one of us did but the other was happy to explore..
we would stop tomorrow if one of us said thats enough not enjoying it at all anymore, and whilst we have taken breaks etc there is a strong social element and friendships built which are valued.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We played singularly before we got together than after marriage we concentrated on each other for 5 years then decided to play again now and then with others when we were in the mood. It comes and goes its not a must for us just a welcome diversion now and again. |
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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"How do you know you both want to swing though?
I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "
I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"
Our playing started from talking about our fantasies and things we hadn't tried so we never said to each other lets try swinging it sort of just slowly came about |
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"How do you know you both want to swing though?
I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "
I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"
Couples that are honest, open and open minded with each other normally stay together. We are 20 years in to our relationship, we were both really poen when we met so talking about turn ons and fantasies was easy. We got into this via Mrs want to explore her bisexuality and me wanting to perv
We've come along way over the years but only because we've talked,trusted and respected each other all the way and we've never compromised that! |
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"How do you know you both want to swing though?
I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "
I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!
Open not poen sorry!
Couples that are honest, open and open minded with each other normally stay together. We are 20 years in to our relationship, we were both really poen when we met so talking about turn ons and fantasies was easy. We got into this via Mrs want to explore her bisexuality and me wanting to perv
We've come along way over the years but only because we've talked,trusted and respected each other all the way and we've never compromised that!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we must be the oldest swingers in town, married 39 years and swinging on and off for 30, buut we dont let swinging rule our lives, and Sarah is quite choosey, but have met some great couples, and some we have remained friends with for over 25 yrs, |
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