FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > mental health
mental health
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
"
Yes there is many mental health problems can increase the libido |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Given that official statistics show that one in four people have mental health issues of some type, there are many in all walks of life. Therefore, I'm not surprised that there are many in the swinging world. There will also be many in married, non-swinging relationships, many dating and many single. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I would think that the stats must be somewhere close to the national 'average'. (though the stats are not accurate) Don't forget that you won't necessarily find out that kind of information from people we meet in other parts of life. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Some mental illnesses have profound effects on peoples sex-drives...
In fact for at least one illness it is one of the symptoms."
This is true...ive worked in a mental health setting. I agree OP, there is definitely a link to mental health and sexual promiscuity. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot..."
Have you sought help for these Problems ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot..."
Less of the assumptions and stereo-typing please.
Not all people with mental health conditions are as you describe. Many you wouldn't even know had ever had a problem.
People with mental health issues are more likely to lie, cheat and drink excessive quantities of alcohol? Really?!
And wtf is an inpulsion? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot..."
my my what a sweeping statement you have made there.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot..."
Thank you for this amazing insight into my life and personality.
I suffer (or more pertinent, my loved ones suffer) from a mental illness and can assure you, you couldn't be further from the truth if you was making your sweeping generalisations from a different planet. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Mental health issues and many of the medications associated with them are far more likely to lower libido than increase the likelihood of promiscuity...of the 1 in 4 statistic the vast vast majority of that is mild to moderate depression. Severe mental illness such as bipolar disorder account for a miniscule percentage of problems... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot...
Thank you for this amazing insight into my life and personality.
I suffer (or more pertinent, my loved ones suffer) from a mental illness and can assure you, you couldn't be further from the truth if you was making your sweeping generalisations from a different planet."
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As for the suggestion that most people with mental health conditions don't have jobs...
Sometimes people say really stupid things on here."
As we all know, a lot of creative famous people have bi-polar. It's part of what's makes them different and brilliant at what they do. Celebrate the difference I say. Makes life interesting. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"As for the suggestion that most people with mental health conditions don't have jobs...
Sometimes people say really stupid things on here.
As we all know, a lot of creative famous people have bi-polar. It's part of what's makes them different and brilliant at what they do. Celebrate the difference I say. Makes life interesting. "
Nah, it's that they all drink a lot and lie and cheat that makes them interesting. You never know what them crazy, pissed up lunatics are going to do next.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'd also like to know what a "wayward fabster" is and wtf it has to do with mental health issues.
I thought the same to be fair "
I haven't mentioned the rest of what I thought because it'd be a first class ticket to the naughty step. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"As for the suggestion that most people with mental health conditions don't have jobs...
Sometimes people say really stupid things on here.
As we all know, a lot of creative famous people have bi-polar. It's part of what's makes them different and brilliant at what they do. Celebrate the difference I say. Makes life interesting.
Nah, it's that they all drink a lot and lie and cheat that makes them interesting. You never know what them crazy, pissed up lunatics are going to do next.
"
No you don't , but I'll go along for the ride ! A night in Stephen Fry or Robbie Williams' company would be fun!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
The way the OP is phrased made me already recoil. 'Agree' with what?
And an 'utterly relaxed bloke' whose entire profile screams in capitals... hm.
Sofa time, methinks. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"from peopl i meet and speak to a lot of special peopl on fab if you get out and mingle with I do like quirkys  "
So based on nothing more than your own opinion you make assumptions that folk who dally regularly have mental health issues.
Does that include yourself as based on amount of verifications you have you dally a fair bit too  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot..."
The word you should have used was compulsion, and I think you are referring to people with addictions as opposed to people with mental health problems, though the two often go hand in hand, they are not exclusive. Sexual promiscuity can be due to sexual addiction, but not all "addicts" are the jobless benefit street style scroungers smoking and drinking kestral you suggest they are
Some mental health drugs actually increase libido...i know this as it has for me personally. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I read ages ago that depresed women are more likely to be promiscuous and that people with bi polar are as well.
It makes sense realy, they are more likely to have low self esteem and want attention from men. Someone who has a lot of confidence arent likely to be as bothered. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Given that official statistics show that one in four people have mental health issues of some type, there are many in all walks of life. Therefore, I'm not surprised that there are many in the swinging world. There will also be many in married, non-swinging relationships, many dating and many single."
Agreed 100 %, mental health is a massive issue in modern society and spread across the whole demographic . This should not be ignored let alone judged by anyone. xx |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
"
Some not all may have Addictive personality its a escape from life.
People suffering from this get addicted to several things including drugs, alcohol, food, and sex.
There is no specific cause that leads to this . Poor coping skills can also lead to this disorder. Most people who cannot handle life problems in positive ways fall into addictions to escape life’s realities. Moreover, it is thought that people who produce higher levels of dopamine are more likely to suffer from this disorder.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Sexual, self gratification is one of the recognised signs of bi-polar, which to some extent most of us suffer from, as a clinical psychologist, so it would follow on a site designed for self gratification a fair proportion of people would exhibit some symptoms. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
"
Like will always attract like |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"so i am right!
just amazes me how.peopl treat each other on this sex site and its suppose to fun....
"
That you can read what has been written in response to your op on this thread and think it makes you right, and supports your claim, says far more about you than it does about the mental health of any other member of this site. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"just amazes me how.peopl treat each other on this sex site and its suppose to fun....
"
Like groundlessly claiming a large number of people on the site are liars, cheats, addicts, jobless and abuse alcohol? Like refusing to answer any questions asked regarding that statement and failing to back it up in any way?
Seems to me that you are the one with the bad attitude towards people and too much time on your hands. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
"
i don't have any mental health issues at all do you?
and as far as i know noone i have met has but then again i don't ask, how comes all your meets are telling you  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Most anti depressants lower your libido also inability to orgasm please get your facts straight
One of my main reasons for coming them!"
Try some different ones, they aren't all as bad as each other. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"its an inpulsion,adictive behavior and maybe they have to much time on there hands over thinking...easy access to sex sites lying cheating......and no job etc nothin better to do... and low esteem,drink alot...
Have you sought help for these Problems ? "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"There is a link with people who dally with casual sex and are often suffering with mental health issues fact ...I have noticed this with past meets and there a lot of sufferers out there..
Anybody else noticed this and do you agree? there a lot of wayward fabsters on here .....
"
Aye, but they can also suffer from low self esteem, inflated ego's, verbal diarrhoea, decapitation...and not forgetting the bog standard 'HORN'  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Given that official statistics show that one in four people have mental health issues of some type, there are many in all walks of life. Therefore, I'm not surprised that there are many in the swinging world. There will also be many in married, non-swinging relationships, many dating and many single."
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Most anti depressants lower your libido also inability to orgasm please get your facts straight
One of my main reasons for coming them!
Try some different ones, they aren't all as bad as each other."
Was on citalopram, but been off since christmas eve. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Given that official statistics show that one in four people have mental health issues of some type, there are many in all walks of life. Therefore, I'm not surprised that there are many in the swinging world. There will also be many in married, non-swinging relationships, many dating and many single.
Agreed 100 %, mental health is a massive issue in modern society and spread across the whole demographic . This should not be ignored let alone judged by anyone. xx"
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Certain medications can make someone have increased sex drive. My partner has Parkinson's disease and his drugs make him playful daily (although I am not complaining)  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
Even my owd footballing mate ###### (no names)was obsessed with dogging so at the end of the day lets be honest and be adults lets discuss and talk the matter of mental health !!!!theres no shame with it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
