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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ladies I would say it's common knowledge (although almost every man still apparently does it) you really do not like guys having their cock as either their profile pic or the pic they send in that first crucial message...
So I ask you what do you want to see when you check your messages, pic & wording wise.. GO! |
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"Ladies I would say it's common knowledge (although almost every man still apparently does it) you really do not like guys having their cock as either their profile pic or the pic they send in that first crucial message...
So I ask you what do you want to see when you check your messages, pic & wording wise.. GO!"
There is no formula - your own advice is good 'Talk to me! Don't say one word but just an interesting sentence or 2 will be fine!'
I don't think you can 'be sexy' in a first message, or it's a damn rare skill. Your best shot is to be amusing or interesting - just try to engage a girls mind/emotion/curiosity. I personally like direct honesty too. Good luck.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah, so you want us ladies to do all the work 
No cock pictures! Make sure you read profiles so your message can be relevant. Be prepared for no reply  "
"be prepared for no reply" the best advice a man could be get on here!! hahaa |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I want to see the guy has actually read my profile by commenting about something in it. Not just nice pics...typical copy and paste butssomething to prove to me he did actually read it.
A face pic attached to the first message. Some personality in the message too.
If I like all that and the face is attractive to me I check out the profile. Hopefully he meets what I am looking for too etc. So I state I meet mainly in clubs or parties so if that isn't down on his profile then the chances of us meeting are zero. He also needs to be roughly in my age range too. If he is 10 years out of it then its fairly likely I wont meet him.
But anyone that actually reads before mailing is great x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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lol I'm not asking for the work to be done for me.. I just want to get the best out of this site so I'm picking your brains 
but it's looking good: I do read profiles & when I send messages they are relevant.. I just need to further prepare myself for non repliers.. with loads of confused abusive insults ... right? ...right?  |
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By *essiCouple
over a year ago
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"Ladies I would say it's common knowledge (although almost every man still apparently does it) you really do not like guys having their cock as either their profile pic or the pic they send in that first crucial message...
So I ask you what do you want to see when you check your messages, pic & wording wise.. GO!
There is no formula - your own advice is good 'Talk to me! Don't say one word but just an interesting sentence or 2 will be fine!'
I don't think you can 'be sexy' in a first message, or it's a damn rare skill. Your best shot is to be amusing or interesting - just try to engage a girls mind/emotion/curiosity. I personally like direct honesty too. Good luck.
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 this oh yes this..... |
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