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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "Because some people take any kind of response as a positive sign and continue to mail you. Ignoring an incoming wink or mail is pretty definitive and not open to misinterpretation. We felt the same when we started on sites like this then you just become hardened I guess. Don't take it personally. | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'. Sometimes you just cant win...  | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.
No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.
Sometimes you just cant win... "I always win
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.
No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.
Sometimes you just cant win...
I always win
Hello sexy one "Can I just say how much I like your pics? | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.
Because some people take any kind of response as a positive sign and continue to mail you. Ignoring an incoming wink or mail is pretty definitive and not open to misinterpretation.
We felt the same when we started on sites like this then you just become hardened I guess. Don't take it personally."Have to agree, however, yesterday we got a wink and as they weren't compatible with us I deleted it. They winked again a few minutes later. I had to send a thanks but no thanks mesage which seemed to upset them so at times, you really can't win! Z | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "Couples and females can receive a lot of messages per day, far more than most if not any single guy. Some will simply pass by your kind comments as they would rather not get into a conversation, unless interested in you, others will feel obliged to thank you. You aren't the only guy to randomly message those with nice pics to compliment them. | |||
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" don't take it personally...chalk it up to experience and move on....not worth getting worked up about "It is, it means everybody is talking about you and nobody likes you. Get all worked up about things...its healthy | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.
No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.
Sometimes you just cant win...
I always win
Hello sexy one
Can I just say how much I like your pics? "Thanks
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" don't take it personally...chalk it up to experience and move on....not worth getting worked up about
It is, it means everybody is talking about you and nobody likes you.
Get all worked up about things...its healthy "I KNEW my therapist wass wrong and that I was right to be Paranoid   | |||
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"Hello sexy one
Can I just say how much I like your pics?
Thanks
See I have manners obviously....hang on Im going to delete this post"Ha! Ill still find you...  | |||
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"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "This is pasted from the FAQ at the bottom of the page. There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages! It's not rude not to reply. Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? You won't get a reply off everyone, don't take it as personal, just move onto the next one to mail. | |||
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