Tell her you found this site but you didn't want to talk to her about it till you tried it and seen if it's all above board. Now that you've met someone at least 3 times you are very sure it's all legit and safe for her to come aboard  |
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By *W69Couple
over a year ago
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"Any tips on How do I get the wife to try swinning with me ?"
The fact that you've had verifications in November 2012 and are posting this now can only suggest she knows nothing about your activities or does and is happy for you to do it. Which one is it?
Either way, be honest with her... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her about it. Tell her that u want to share this experience with her. That isn't about fucking other women or men, it's about having fun together. You can start with introducing her to this site. It's important to to not force her or pressure her. Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell her you found this site but you didn't want to talk to her about it till you tried it and seen if it's all above board. Now that you've met someone at least 3 times you are very sure it's all legit and safe for her to come aboard "
Oh lady of wise words  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell her you found this site but you didn't want to talk to her about it till you tried it and seen if it's all above board. Now that you've met someone at least 3 times you are very sure it's all legit and safe for her to come aboard "
Evie has summed up what I wanted to say!  |
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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It's not the sort of thing you get someone to do.
Have you ever had any signals from her, showing an interest in maybe trying a bit of extra fun.
If not, then you shouldn't spring it on her, as you probably won't get the answer you might like to hear.
We got into the lifestyle after years of fantasy talk when enjoying a loving sex life. It just slowly came about over the years, sort of bit by bit, to were we were comfortable with each other's expectations.
Bring the subject up with her when she is feeling loved and relaxed but don't push it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any tips on How do I get the wife to try swinning with me ?"
I am sure she is going to be impressed that You have met someone 3 times behind her back
I would delete ypur profile first before saying anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's not the sort of thing you get someone to do.
Have you ever had any signals from her, showing an interest in maybe trying a bit of extra fun.
If not, then you shouldn't spring it on her, as you probably won't get the answer you might like to hear.
We got into the lifestyle after years of fantasy talk when enjoying a loving sex life. It just slowly came about over the years, sort of bit by bit, to were we were comfortable with each other's expectations.
Bring the subject up with her when she is feeling loved and relaxed but don't push it.
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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"Any tips on How do I get the wife to try swinning with me ?
I am sure she is going to be impressed that You have met someone 3 times behind her back
I would delete ypur profile first before saying anything "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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agree with the sentiments above.
you have found a lifestyle that you were unsure of until you confirmed that shagging women other than her (the wife) was what you wanted to do.
now you are sure, you are happy for her to join in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Suddenly springing your 2 years of fab membership on her could be a no no! Why didn't you talk to her sooner? That said it ain't too late...has she given any hints? If so tell her a friend told you about the site....suggest settingup a ccouples profile and "browsing". Keep your profile hidden for a bit...If your couples profile works out then you won't need it anyway... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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How can anyone seriously give advice about a female they know absolutely nothing about ? Only the OP knows what type of lady she is,so why he's even asking the question is beyond me.
This lifestyle is for a very small minority of the population,that is what you need to consider. |
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"Any tips on How do I get the wife to try swinning with me ?"
Another thought is, how would you get on with your wife getting into swinging? As what you appear to be doing at the moment is cheating, not swinging! |
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