Having just read through a few threads I'm no closer to seeing an agreement as to the definition of a BULL.
I class myself as one. I love the cognitive game play. The power and trust. I love the pleasure that's gained. I love satisfying a couple in a way that will forever be our secret.
But it seems some still say that's not classed as a BULL. I prefer a world without labels but how else do we even recognise similar desires in each other?   |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Terms can mean different things to different people.
We're never going to agree an absolute definition of most of them.
Describe yourself however seems most appropriate to you and then talk to others about the wants and needs of all parties to determine compatibility. |
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"Terms can mean different things to different people.
We're never going to agree an absolute definition of most of them.
Describe yourself however seems most appropriate to you and then talk to others about the wants and needs of all parties to determine compatibility."
I agree. But without the labels, how do you know you have something in common. Sexual attraction in those early times of contact can literally hang by a thread. One wrong word and a couple could be running for the hills. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Terms can mean different things to different people.
We're never going to agree an absolute definition of most of them.
Describe yourself however seems most appropriate to you and then talk to others about the wants and needs of all parties to determine compatibility.
I agree. But without the labels, how do you know you have something in common. Sexual attraction in those early times of contact can literally hang by a thread. One wrong word and a couple could be running for the hills. "
Why do you need to use just one word? You have an entire profile to describe what you like and what you're looking for.
And if a couple aren't able to discuss what everyone wants without making assumptions based on a single word, the whole thing is going to run into problems at some point anyway. |
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"Terms can mean different things to different people.
We're never going to agree an absolute definition of most of them.
Describe yourself however seems most appropriate to you and then talk to others about the wants and needs of all parties to determine compatibility.
I agree. But without the labels, how do you know you have something in common. Sexual attraction in those early times of contact can literally hang by a thread. One wrong word and a couple could be running for the hills.
Why do you need to use just one word? You have an entire profile to describe what you like and what you're looking for.
And if a couple aren't able to discuss what everyone wants without making assumptions based on a single word, the whole thing is going to run into problems at some point anyway."
Very true. Maybe I need to look at how I describe my needs and wants.  |
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over a year ago
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"BULL.....something that likes shaggin cows?
That's one way of describing it  "
Perhaps their is a obscenity filter and the s*** is removed in their profiles.
Have given Paula's number to few so caled bulls far from it more like mice or weirdoes |
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"Terms can mean different things to different people.
We're never going to agree an absolute definition of most of them.
Describe yourself however seems most appropriate to you and then talk to others about the wants and needs of all parties to determine compatibility."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Surely a definition that we could agree on - and I'm with you on agreeing that terms are moveable feasts - is that a bull is someone that understands the needs, desires, wants and limits of the couple he's meeting. Beyond that, where you land is up to you.
We've had countless and I mean countless young men that have contacting L and me being aggressively and overtly sexual in their opening gambit. But when it comes to meeting - on the odd occasion we allowed our better judgement to be clouded - they were clueless as to the cuckold dynamic.
Let down springs to mind.
You sound intelligent and sensitive enough to recognise this, so avoid the labels and be your own person. |
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"Surely a definition that we could agree on - and I'm with you on agreeing that terms are moveable feasts - is that a bull is someone that understands the needs, desires, wants and limits of the couple he's meeting. Beyond that, where you land is up to you.
We've had countless and I mean countless young men that have contacting L and me being aggressively and overtly sexual in their opening gambit. But when it comes to meeting - on the odd occasion we allowed our better judgement to be clouded - they were clueless as to the cuckold dynamic.
Let down springs to mind.
You sound intelligent and sensitive enough to recognise this, so avoid the labels and be your own person. "
Thanks guys. Ok definitely going to be less conscious of that particular label but I'll leave it on my profile as it represents a part of my sexual desire. Xx |
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