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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't mind those kind of messages but some are a bit too intrusive and crude for a first message but they are great if done well. x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just like a ordinary first message then if we keep messaging stuff like that is fine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)"

Food for thought, I must tyr that approach one day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just like a ordinary first message then if we keep messaging stuff like that is fine "

I dont like too many questions in the first message. Thats something you build up to in my oppinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like something that gets my attention or makes me laugh ... Pretty much guarantee a reply

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just like a ordinary first message then if we keep messaging stuff like that is fine

I dont like too many questions in the first message. Thats something you build up to in my oppinion."

Yes my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I avoid the ones that start like this

' I see we have mutual friend in common she mentioned you to me'

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't mind those kind of messages but some are a bit too intrusive and crude for a first message but they are great if done well. x"

Yes can be crude, to which I reply... None of you're business

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like messages that make me proper laugh out loud....

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Just a nice hello, read your profile, here's my face pic will do for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like messages that make me proper laugh out loud.... "

These are very few and far between, but when I get one it's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Just a nice hello, read your profile, here's my face pic will do for me. "

I am impressed when someone sends a face picture without asking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)"

thats fine.

but the last time we got a message asking questions was whether she swallows, takes it up the arse and is fertile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just a nice hello, read your profile, here's my face pic will do for me.

I am impressed when someone sends a face picture without asking "

I always send a face pic with a first message

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth

Oh messages I thought you said you liked massages Kat

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)

thats fine.

but the last time we got a message asking questions was whether she swallows, takes it up the arse and is fertile.

"

I don't mind answering the first two, but the third would put me off!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh messages I thought you said you liked massages Kat "

I massages-not too hard though, more like a tickle! So let's just say I to be tickled/stroked purrrrr

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth

So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Just a nice hello, read your profile, here's my face pic will do for me.

I am impressed when someone sends a face picture without asking "

Most of the messages I get have face pics attached.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It takes more than just the message though....most people after reading the message will, check out the pics, profile, veri's...maybe even check out their posts in the the forums before replying!

Neglecting any part of your profile is counter productive to your own search, and so is the LACK of research into whom ever you think of meeting.

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By *KMaxMan  over a year ago

Bristol


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)"

You have to tell us the answer to the silk or lace question now!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like something that gets my attention or makes me laugh ... Pretty much guarantee a reply "

Fab advice just tried it, and a Lady is chatting to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there "

It's called a couch bed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)

thats fine.

but the last time we got a message asking questions was whether she swallows, takes it up the arse and is fertile.

I don't mind answering the first two, but the third would put me off!! "

dont mind answering all of them over the course of a conversation, as none of the answers would change the way we play, but for a first message its a little forward lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)

You have to tell us the answer to the silk or lace question now!"

I like both, but my heart is with lace

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

It's called a couch bed

"

And did it have lots of use then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

It's called a couch bed

And did it have lots of use then? "

No guys like to straddle me on my actual bed.

The couch bed is for fantasies

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

It's called a couch bed

And did it have lots of use then?

No guys like to straddle me on my actual bed.

The couch bed is for fantasies "

What's a fantasy if you can't try and make it happen though

Soft warm hands stroking and rimming till you can't take no more Mmmmm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

It's called a couch bed

And did it have lots of use then?

No guys like to straddle me on my actual bed.

The couch bed is for fantasies

What's a fantasy if you can't try and make it happen though

Soft warm hands stroking and rimming till you can't take no more Mmmmm x"

They will happen... I have to come across a masseuse and a doctor!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll tell you once I actually get a message

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"So I hear how is your massage table then had lots of use over the break?

Soft warm hands stroking for hours - I'm with you there

It's called a couch bed

And did it have lots of use then?

No guys like to straddle me on my actual bed.

The couch bed is for fantasies

What's a fantasy if you can't try and make it happen though

Soft warm hands stroking and rimming till you can't take no more Mmmmm x

They will happen... I have to come across a masseuse and a doctor! "

I know who I want to cum across x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message "

It's not that bad surely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely? "

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014 "

That's the spirit

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)"

I've never thought of it as getting a conversation going, good point. It usually just irritates me because I don't like being asked questions.

I like that.

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit "

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do?? "

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol "

Come on guys chin up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I like messages that make me proper laugh out loud....

These are very few and far between, but when I get one it's all "

i always make them laugh i just send them a picture of me naked

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up "

Chin is up , just needed to get it out the system

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up "

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've used this very approach in the past.

An effective opening message should engage the reader. However, I'm a bit reluctant to spend too much time on an opening message, when it might just be left unread or deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat "

5 points for that one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one "

And points mean prizes !

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes ! "

If only points did make prizes

Then a certain someone would respond accordingly lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes ! "

List of possible prizes below

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

If only points did make prizes

Then a certain someone would respond accordingly lol "

The days not over yet !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

If only points did make prizes

Then a certain someone would respond accordingly lol "

The days not over yet !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just a nice hello, read your profile, here's my face pic will do for me.

I am impressed when someone sends a face picture without asking "

You are easily impressed, our inbox looks like the cast of crimewatch.

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below "

Nope no prizes there ;(

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below

Nope no prizes there ;( "

I was asking you guys what prizes you wanted

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below

Nope no prizes there ;( I was asking you guys what prizes you wanted"

is this a open question

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By *estlands4Man  over a year ago

Sidmouth


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below

Nope no prizes there ;( I was asking you guys what prizes you wanted"

Wel my prize involves a massage couch

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By *utterflywingsWoman  over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)"

Unfortunately the messages i receive all seem to be of the crude variety which i find rather tedious.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below

Nope no prizes there ;( I was asking you guys what prizes you wanted

is this a open question "

Sure why not!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unfortunately the messages i receive all seem to be of the crude variety which i find rather tedious..... "

Butterflywings I was going to send you nice none pervy message, but sadly I am too old to do that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I take note of the first message I receive.

I received one the other day that consisted of a hello and then a list of say 6 questions, ie, lace or silk?

I like these kind of messages as it gets the conversation going and can be interesting.... What do you like about you're messages? (if any)

Unfortunately the messages i receive all seem to be of the crude variety which i find rather tedious..... "

that's sad really i suppose you can judge the size of the brain cell by how quickly they get aroused by thinking their message as turned you on.

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By *utterflywingsWoman  over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire


"Unfortunately the messages i receive all seem to be of the crude variety which i find rather tedious.....

Butterflywings I was going to send you nice none pervy message, but sadly I am too old to do that "

Sorry you do seem a very polite and decent guy but alas i am looking for guys a little younger than yourself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'll tell you once I actually get a message

It's not that bad surely?

It's not that great either, I think I'm popular with guys for some reason ! Oh well here's to a better 2014

That's the spirit

I know the feeling mate - rare to get a message even rarer still for it to be from a lady - what does a guy have to do??

At least I'm not the only one! Think I might start playing the lottery ... Think I've got more chance lol

Come on guys chin up

It's something else I'd rather have up Kat

5 points for that one

And points mean prizes !

List of possible prizes below

Nope no prizes there ;( I was asking you guys what prizes you wanted

is this a open question

Sure why not! "

it would need a wood or a forest a large picnic blanket me and ???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Unfortunately the messages i receive all seem to be of the crude variety which i find rather tedious.....

Butterflywings I was going to send you nice none pervy message, but sadly I am too old to do that

Sorry you do seem a very polite and decent guy but alas i am looking for guys a little younger than yourself"

No need to say Sorry at all, I might be scared for life now, but in time it might heal slightly

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