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over a year ago
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I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"
Presume they want to look at your pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"
So that they can see your pics, simples, if you had a pic on view people wouldn't need to bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?
Presume they want to look at your pics"
Yep then they block you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well don't accept any more. Simples "
 I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums. |
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!"
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate? "
Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well don't accept any more. Simples
I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums. "
I have found a higher class of people IMO in the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate? "
I think he might have been joking about hes pictures  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate? "
most people come across as desperate, reading my messages and the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"
So why do you feel the need to accept?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate?
Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular"
But they wont know until they see them will they  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?
So why do you feel the need to accept? "
I'm a friendly sort of bloke, if they genuinely want to be friends then great |
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I think thec"desperate" comment was self deprecating.
Sadly a friends request out of the blue rarely seems genuine in my experience.
They're frequently from people who don't match your profile and often those who vanish from the site almost as quickly as they send out friend invitations.
But hey others may have had different. experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?"
The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-
1 check they are offline
2 accept FR and perv their private pics
3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there
4 delete from friends list , block if required
This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?
The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-
1 check they are offline
2 accept FR and perv their private pics
3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there
4 delete from friends list , block if required
This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration "
we follow and subscribe to this
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"Well don't accept any more. Simples
I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums. "
Totally agree |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I think a lot of random requests are from people who simply want wank material. I leave them sat there - don't accept or delete - and then they can't send another which must be frustrating for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its so they can see your private photos
They can't be that desperate!!!
Why is it desperate?
They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.
Why would you assume its desperate?
Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular"
you have NO public pics, so they need to see what you look liketo know if you are not for them.
put one public so people can see you and the FR's will drop substantially. |
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"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?
The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-
1 check they are offline
2 accept FR and perv their private pics
3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there
4 delete from friends list , block if required
This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration "
I did this years ago; however once I delete their request, they can re-request. So now I just ignore their request permanently and they cant re-request.
If someone I send a friends request to, is on the list, they are removed from the list and the friendship is instantly accepted
Much easier for me, and I dont even check who has sent one, I just click it and go back out to zero off the number |
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But like the other said pic collectors or wanting to have a cheeky peak. Delete block and move on
