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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
If a lady has anal listed in her interests, do you assume she means taking or giving?
What if it's a man?
Do you even consider it has more than one possible meaning? Or do you not assume and ask, (if it's something that interests you)? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I assume it means taking if it's a woman and giving if it's a man.
Oh good grief I'm sexist. 
I wouldn't normally ask as it doesn't interest me. Only in certain meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it listed because I'm into strap-on play. A lot of guys assume I mean taking. Some of them run away really quickly when I clarify what I mean  "
Tie them up before you tell them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have it listed because I'm into strap-on play. A lot of guys assume I mean taking. Some of them run away really quickly when I clarify what I mean "
Bugger that...So to speak
Gary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a lady has anal listed in her interests, do you assume she means taking or giving?
do you even consider it has more than one possible meaning? Or do you not assume and ask, (if it's something that interests you)?"
No assumptions,ask and hope its both   |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"I don't take much notice of the interests bit as I usually find out what people wantto do and like by chatting. I've only ever given anal, never received. "
It feels a lot better to receive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am of the opinion that it might be something that they are open to...and needs discussion.
however some people will tick all options to maximise exposure without knowing what they are letting themselves in for.
especially when it comes to water sports and fisting...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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...my fb wants to do me up the arse. I tell you, that lady is obsessed with my butt. This other day she bloody put her fingers inside me and all i wanted was a bloody massage - had lube coming out my arse for weeks! I think it still is coming out lol.
I'm a kinky bugger. I'd do all sorts but only with the right woman. To be honest - i always try to hint about their interests. I can never really ask about anything outright. Usually wait for her to tell me what are her boundaries; have to respect that at the end of the day and not get carried away in a meet.
For many, anal has been a no no- i've only met one person who wanted to try it. So, it's not that common on my part i don't think.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a lady has anal listed in her interests, do you assume she means taking or giving?
What if it's a man?
Do you even consider it has more than one possible meaning? Or do you not assume and ask, (if it's something that interests you)?"
Disgusting, but whatever floats your boat. |
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If it's a woman or couple I assume a male will often be giving. If it's a single male, then usually giving unless he meets other single fellas. But in all cases, I don't presume and will ask first.
On the subject of strap-ons, not really my thing but a lady doing a digital exploration has proved fun before now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I assume it means taking if it's a woman and giving if it's a man.
Oh good grief I'm sexist.
I wouldn't normally ask as it doesn't interest me. Only in certain meets. "
This  |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I have it listed because I'm into strap-on play. A lot of guys assume I mean taking. Some of them run away really quickly when I clarify what I mean
*deletes and blocks "
Yeah, yeah, we all know you're gagging for it really! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we actually dont assume anything.
we look at interests as things we have in common, not a menu of what we can, or will do.
for instance, if they have videos, we dont expect them to video the meet we have, but merely that they, like us, like making videos sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we actually dont assume anything.
we look at interests as things we have in common, not a menu of what we can, or will do.
for instance, if they have videos, we dont expect them to video the meet we have, but merely that they, like us, like making videos sometimes."
pretty much how i use interests.
see them as thing the person is interested in, not some type of menu to choose from. All depends on the situation |
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