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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
If you see this on a profile, what does it mean to you?
How far would you think would be a realistic expectation? What other expectations or questions might you have if you saw it? What is a realistic interpretation of the statement, in your opinion? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same as most things on here I guess; it will vary for different people in definition and by intention.
Probably best of asking the person in question directly.
Shit answer but... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I traveled 110 miles for my first threesome couple of years ago the best decision I made still remember the night
Now a days I will travel up to 60 miles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on the person.
I wouldn't travel over an hour unless I was 100% sure they would turn up. Regardless of if it was a social or play meet.
If I was booking a hotel then I would go to most places |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Able to travel would be different for each person, depending on how full their balls are and what transport they use, and how much they can afford at the time,
I have travelled as far as New Zealand for a date, 3 days to get there, 3 days back and over £2000.
I stayed for 2 days, it was a lesson, about 10 yrs ago, since then I have a playroom, dungeon and never travel, only having meets on my farm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you see this on a profile, what does it mean to you?
How far would you think would be a realistic expectation? What other expectations or questions might you have if you saw it? What is a realistic interpretation of the statement, in your opinion?"
Did you block me without even. Talking to me as system is giving the msg when i tried to look at Your profile lol  |
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Depends. A few years ago I'd travel all over the country, but that was for socials or munches as they were then. I've been to Glasgow, North Wales, London (when I lived in Scunthorpe).
For a meet, as I prefer a social first, I'd be loath to travel more then an hour or so, but depends on previous contact. I've had people contact me from Aberdeen wanting to travel to meet me. I've always said no, because I'd feel under pressure to play. |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
The question is more how far would you think would be reasonable to expect the other person to travel, rather than how far you'd travel yourself.
Say if you saw a profile you liked and you could accommodate and they couldn't, would you invite them to meet you if they lived 10 miles away? 50 miles? 100 miles? 200 miles? |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Same as most things on here I guess; it will vary for different people in definition and by intention.
Probably best of asking the person in question directly.
Shit answer but... "
It's not a shit answer at all. It's what you think and it seems sensible and realistic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The question is more how far would you think would be reasonable to expect the other person to travel, rather than how far you'd travel yourself.
Say if you saw a profile you liked and you could accommodate and they couldn't, would you invite them to meet you if they lived 10 miles away? 50 miles? 100 miles? 200 miles?"
Again it all depends on the person, and relationship built up |
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Personally I am willing to travel several hundred miles to see someone who interests me a great deal. I flew to Inverness a couple of times when I lived in Hampshire, to meet someone special. I've also had a play partner 200 miles away whom I visited a few times a year.
There are a few people on here now I am happy to travel to visit, if they want me to and if we can arrange a mutually convenient time.
I'm wouldn't normally expect someone I hadn't met before to want to travel more than 50 miles, if that. And the expectation they would have if travelling far would concern me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The question is more how far would you think would be reasonable to expect the other person to travel, rather than how far you'd travel yourself.
Say if you saw a profile you liked and you could accommodate and they couldn't, would you invite them to meet you if they lived 10 miles away? 50 miles? 100 miles? 200 miles?"
10 or maybe 50 miles  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't ask them to travel any further than I would. So about half an hour travel time for a social meet. But I always meet half way so they would be up to an hour from me.
Even if someone said they didn't mind driving an hour, I wouldn't feel comfortable with that so I wouldn't meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have guys message me from many countries ( I am on an international site as well as this one, and if they ask to visit, in most cases they are welcome, I do suggest they use me as an add on to a visit, maybe to do with work or family. I have one guy visit once a month from Germany, to many distance is not an issue, they have the money and time, so why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can travel within reason but not too often either but get messages asking me to travel hundreds of miles 
I'd do so for someone slightly special but would take planning. I have had men travel quite a way for me which I appreciate but their circumstances are diffrrent. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I don't mind some travel, but it's got to be realistic. It's the same when a guy 100 miles or so away messages me when I'm advertising that I'm going dogging that night. I have to point out that are they SURE they want to drive for 2 hours or so, meet me in a dark damp wood for the 15 minutes it will take them to shoot their load, then spend 2 hours driving back.
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I only meet local people as I don't want someone turning up at my house with sweaty, smelly bollocks. Also, I'd be put off by someone desperate enough to take a plane, train and automobile to get to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you see this on a profile, what does it mean to you?
How far would you think would be a realistic expectation? What other expectations or questions might you have if you saw it? What is a realistic interpretation of the statement, in your opinion?"
My expectation would be that if we got so far as discussing a possible meet, we could include travel of the advertiser as an option, then discuss a sensible distance.
As far as my personal limitations are concerned it would very much depend on the relationship we had built up on line/phone.
Unless there was exceptional attraction around one and a half hours would be my limit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my youth i didn't drive but would travel. I lived in Croydon...and went to Brighton, Woking, Portsmouth, Manchester, Colchester.
this was before internet and just contact mags or phone lines...
i have had some unpleasant experiences and my time wasted...and i have some exciting adventures.
the internet has made the need to travel less inviting and we are always looking for that local shag.
i prefer to accom nowadays that i have my own place...and being a smoker...and drinker.
but within an hour / 30 miles...if it will be a long sesh / able to accom...maybe overnight...or a real hot opportunity that is likely to be a one off.
I find that young people are lazy...given that some men want a quick blow job...i won't travel for a five minute wonder....especially at stoopid o clock when they are pissed / high.
Some find the concept of getting a bus or train incomprehensible....and expect me to pick em up...come to mine...and drop em back....yeah right.
i find it weird that in the sticks that they put travel...can't drive but won't use public transport.
Londoners are the worst...the M25 is an insurmountable barrier....that cannot be crossed.
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
In my experience distance meets of an hour or more tend not to work out. They nearly always cancel when they consider how far they have to go. I have had meets with guys from London but they were staying in the North West at the time. |
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"In my experience distance meets of an hour or more tend not to work out. They nearly always cancel when they consider how far they have to go. I have had meets with guys from London but they were staying in the North West at the time."
I can get to Manchester quicker than travelling from south to north London! |
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When I was meeting I had on my profile the areas and distances I was willing to travel. I don't drive and people's idea of local can vary wildly. Sheffield is somewhere I'd get asked to go to a lot and it's not terribly far but for some reason takes the best part of 2 hours to travel via public transport and wasn't cheap either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would travel around an hour in any direction, but only really because V doesnt travel well and gets car sick rather quickly.
we would meet someone half way, so that gives quite a large meet circumference, especially as we are in the middle lol.
we would also happily book a hotel in someones area to meet hem, if we had been talking for long enough to be certain they arent fuckwits or timewasters and would turn up.
and finally, because we can accomodate, we have a spare room, so if we had been talking long enough, and felt totally at ease, they could stay overnight at ours, so that may well increase what travel we would expect others t do (we wouldnt stay over at anyone elses, but we are strange like that lol)
as for the turning up with betty swollocks, well, thats what wet wipes are for. have turned up to someones like this before, and i excused myself to the bathroom and gave myself a little washdown down there.
its not difficult really |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"In my experience distance meets of an hour or more tend not to work out. They nearly always cancel when they consider how far they have to go. I have had meets with guys from London but they were staying in the North West at the time.
I can get to Manchester quicker than travelling from south to north London! "
Well, you certainly have a point. I could get to Birmingham as quickly as I could across Manchester in rush hour. I think it is more the distance which puts them off. I have genuinely tried distance meets in the past, and have travelled to them myself. But every single one was a let down, so I learnt my lesson. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
If I really wanted to meet a particular person, then distance wouldn't bother me at all. I would just combine it with some other event in the area.
I know that wasn't the question though. For someone else, if it was some random person, then maybe an hour or so. If you had been talking for a while, then whatever they wanted to travel. After all, it's them travelling. If they are happy and comfortable to do it, then crack on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I really wanted to meet a particular person, then distance wouldn't bother me at all. I would just combine it with some other event in the area.
I know that wasn't the question though. For someone else, if it was some random person, then maybe an hour or so. If you had been talking for a while, then whatever they wanted to travel. After all, it's them travelling. If they are happy and comfortable to do it, then crack on. "
^^^ I met someone while I was visiting the Midlands last year for another event, someone I got chatting to on the Forums as it happens
Other than that, I always say no to anyone who lives over an hour away as it's just not practical. I also laugh at anyone who says they can meet half way as living where I do that would probably be a field in the middle of nowhere!  |
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