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By *isscheekychops OP Woman
over a year ago
The land of grey peas and bacon |
What do you expect when you meet couples...I'm being very honest I rarely meet couples as on quite a few occasions I've felt like their play toy....I've obviously said something sometimes they have taken on board and sometimes the night had ended after they got the hump....so as a single woman it's been a long time since I've met a couple on my own... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One couple didn't even turn up for a social and left me sitting in the pub like Billy-no-Mates.... Another couple got so involved with each other that I got my coat and made to the door before they'd even noticed I'd gone!! And they wonder why.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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See I'd like to meet a couple but I've read a few comments over the week's I was lurking that for the extra girl it didn't turn out so well. It's made me a bit nervous of it I don't want to go just to be used to please someone else.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Havent done it for years.
There was always to many complications and jealousies. Usually from the female half of the cpl.
So give it a really wide berth now as its to much hassle and not enough fun  |
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I very rarely meet couples for mff..
Apart from one couple who I first met about 5 years ago and am still friends with... I've always found one or both of them have issues...
I meet couples at clubs / parties but very rarely privately on my own |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple we have been very fortunate/lucky to meet several lovely single ladies and have all enjoyed one another many times.....
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Yes we have been the same as you!
Very lucky to have met a few lovely single ladies! Never treated any of them as our sex toy.. And can safely say that enjoyment and fun was had by all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't use the site to look for single women. The women that we've played with tend to be ones that we've met and developed friendships with on the kink scene or at swinging clubs.
There are so many horror stories, it's not really worth the effort trying to get meets with females on here. The real world is so, so much easier as the female gets to know us and can see our dynamic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only play with couples in clubs so I can get a feel for them (pun intended) before it gets to playing. Makes it easier to slip away and find alternative entertainment if it gets weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i was nervous anyway. it felt strange when they talked to each other but not to me, the women kept asking the men what they should do. i like women who wear perfume and maybe makeup but they didnt wear any. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I've only met play partner couples rather than married/committed couples and I guess that dynamic could be a bit different.
I enjoy sex more when I know my partner(s) at least a bit - which is why I prefer repeat meets to one-offs. I can give them a better time - and playing with two virtual strangers together was hard work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a couple I am more than willing to just sit and enjoy watching the fem play with my man, if allowed I will join in with oral on both but I'm not fussed about being played with (of course it's always nice )
Got to do this last night at chams and was a very Horny experience x
Evie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a couple we have been very fortunate/lucky to meet several lovely single ladies and have all enjoyed one another many times.....
Yes we have been the same as you!
Very lucky to have met a few lovely single ladies! Never treated any of them as our sex toy.. And can safely say that enjoyment and fun was had by all "
This ^^^^
I can only speak for us and our experiences, the clue is in the word three... As in three in the equation. It's a mutual thing that should be enjoyed equally by all involved. If its not then I would suggest, that the couple involved shouldn't be having threesomes, or are having them for the wrong reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We would love a woman to join us, only if she felt an equal and not bought into the equation as an added thrill.
Taking a woman for a couple of separate drinks to feel at ease with us would be no problem either.
Nette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would love a woman to join us, only if she felt an equal and not bought into the equation as an added thrill.
Taking a woman for a couple of separate drinks to feel at ease with us would be no problem either.
Nette"
ERE!! Whos paying for these Drinks 
Gary |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would love a woman to join us, only if she felt an equal and not bought into the equation as an added thrill.
Taking a woman for a couple of separate drinks to feel at ease with us would be no problem either.
Nette
ERE!! Whos paying for these Drinks
Gary"
You   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would love a woman to join us, only if she felt an equal and not bought into the equation as an added thrill.
Taking a woman for a couple of separate drinks to feel at ease with us would be no problem either.
Nette
ERE!! Whos paying for these Drinks
Gary"
lol halfys halfys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would love a woman to join us, only if she felt an equal and not bought into the equation as an added thrill.
Taking a woman for a couple of separate drinks to feel at ease with us would be no problem either.
Nette
ERE!! Whos paying for these Drinks
Gary
You "
How did i know that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"after meeting three couples i gave up as was disapointed."
Same here, for one reason or another I've never really enjoyed a threesome. I now don't bother with them. |
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I've had years of avoiding couples after some horrendous experiences but recently i met with a lovely couple & Im actually looking forward to playing with them soon.
Im very cautious with couples though. Men seemed to be treated very differently :-\
Some couples on here really don't help. Short, bloody rude pms just outright asking what Im doing on a night (short notice) without so much as a hi!! Im a real person; not a walking sex toy |
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By *er himWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
We would like to meet a single Fem and if you read our profile then you will see that she definitely wouldn't feel like a toy or unnerved by the fear this fem would get huffy x
Any single fem like to wink or message us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had mff's but only with two singles, never a couple. The horror stories on here have put me off. Although there's a couple of couples on here that seem ok. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I've met three couples and had a good time with all of them, but the ones I haven't met are the ones who have put me off. Constant messages from the male partner (female partner is never online apparently) begging for a meet, or arranging a night then they mysteriously go offline, or an arranged meet that didn't turn up.
I'm here for the single guys, because I know exactly where I stand (lay?) with them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive met a couple of couples in my time .... some good - some not
Im not averse to it if there was a couple with no ISSUES
I like the word ISSUE "
As in big  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive had some bad experiences bit the good ones outweigh them.
Expect nothing and hopefully it will be everything x"
You should expect everything my dear x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive met a couple of couples in my time .... some good - some not
Im not averse to it if there was a couple with no ISSUES
I like the word ISSUE
As in big "
Ah I like that too .. always give to them I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive met a couple of couples in my time .... some good - some not
Im not averse to it if there was a couple with no ISSUES
I like the word ISSUE
As in big
Ah I like that too .. always give to them I do "
Generously? get house hunting you and remember no flowery wallpaper |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting with a couple was on my "to do list'. After reading this thread I think I'll give it a miss! "
Woah there lady .. Ill get a man and Ill pretend Im in a couple
You can tick it off your list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive met a couple of couples in my time .... some good - some not
Im not averse to it if there was a couple with no ISSUES
I like the word ISSUE
As in big
Ah I like that too .. always give to them I do
Generously? get house hunting you and remember no flowery wallpaper "
Im hunting im hunting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting with a couple was on my "to do list'. After reading this thread I think I'll give it a miss!
Woah there lady .. Ill get a man and Ill pretend Im in a couple
You can tick it off your list "
ok for you it's back on my list! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting with a couple was on my "to do list'. After reading this thread I think I'll give it a miss!
Woah there lady .. Ill get a man and Ill pretend Im in a couple
You can tick it off your list
ok for you it's back on my list! "
Yay .. Ill get a man
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met some lovely couples, I do not go to a meet with any huge agenda of what I want to happen, although I have made a conscious decision not to meet any new couples as I have found the female part of the couple comes across as far too clingy and needy. I have several couples I meet on a semi regular basis, sometimes just for a drink and a giggle, they are very much past the stage of jealousy, so I know there will be no drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meeting with a couple was on my "to do list'. After reading this thread I think I'll give it a miss!
Woah there lady .. Ill get a man and Ill pretend Im in a couple
You can tick it off your list
ok for you it's back on my list!
Yay .. Ill get a man
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and I'll get the wine and nibbles x |
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"This is definitely something I want to do but am a little apprehensive/nervous
Me too!! Let's go together!! Haha!! X
Deal!
I know the perfect couple too!! Xx
I think I know who you mean "
I reckon you probably do x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean there, I was put in competition all the time..nothing even happened in the end. Long before coming on this site
Nette"
What competition were you out in Nette? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean there, I was put in competition all the time..nothing even happened in the end. Long before coming on this site
Nette
What competition were you out in Nette? "
A woman on another site, just kept saying she was this, she was that, more to the fact to out do me, I'm not in it for that, good clean fun, went on for weeks, got them over for a drink all talk, but the moral of my story is its woman like that that ruin it for the rest..too many games...nette |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me "
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty new to meeting couples, but have only had one bad experience (and she was a nutjob!). I do insist on a social with couples to see how their relationship is before I'd meet, whereas I'm less bothered with a single guy. I've found that the better a couple they are the more fun we've ended up having...if they are strong together then introducing a third party doesn't seem to cause issues |
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you "
Isn't it?? Get him some meds quick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were still looking for a single woman to join us but weve said plenty of times that its em that wants to play and im not getting involved unless i get invited to play with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Priceless! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
I love you Paddy "
ur getting it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you "
theres always a motive somewhere lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you
Isn't it?? Get him some meds quick "
prefer some fanny juice, squirt for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've meet 2 couples on my own one was ok, the other couple have become great friends
but I've had couples be rude very for not wanting to meet them alone, my safety comes 1st and if they don't respect that, then it's there loss. |
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"We don't use the site to look for single women. The women that we've played with tend to be ones that we've met and developed friendships with on the kink scene or at swinging clubs.
There are so many horror stories, it's not really worth the effort trying to get meets with females on here. The real world is so, so much easier as the female gets to know us and can see our dynamic."
This.
We love playing with single ladies, but don't pursue them, we make friends, and if it happens, it's great, if not, them we have made a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you "
I've noticed it before.   |
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We have only soft played with a single female as she was new to swinging and couldn't get her head around it being OK to play with my fella as well as myself . We would love to have fun with a single female but we are not on a mission. It will happen one day. When its right for everyone involved.
I see it from a singles point of view too and wouldn't like it myself to be treat like an object...
Its the same with some single men though. I'm just seen as just a pussy to fuck. But that's life. We just filter them out... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you
I've noticed it before. "
while masturbating i hope x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't use the site to look for single women. The women that we've played with tend to be ones that we've met and developed friendships with on the kink scene or at swinging clubs.
There are so many horror stories, it's not really worth the effort trying to get meets with females on here. The real world is so, so much easier as the female gets to know us and can see our dynamic."
sorry for random thread interruption, looked at your profile, you going to antichrist on the 3rd? if you are say hi if you see me wondering round :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"something I've said for ages, alot of couples see the entitlement to get that elusive single fem.They forget its one woman, in the company of two people who know each other very intimately.Barriers to communication dont help and sometimes simple things are taken for granted.
Theres lots of couples who work very well with the single females, unfortunately alot will then seek the same female over and over again and perhaps take the hump when she has a meet that is intended for what she might want more, i.e me
Paddy!! Are you ok? That's a very deep and sensible post from you
I've noticed it before.
while masturbating i hope x "
Of course. Furiously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been on here two years now and never managed to meet a single female. I've met as a single female myself and have found couples to be great fun. I understand the worry of safety issues but I always found that couples were so delighted that I was genuine single female that I got all the attention. Win win.
We don't really bother lookin now as all our messages just seem to get deleted even if we're exactly what they describe they're lookin for... Go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met couples in the past but to be honest its been a very long time since the last one, after a few meets that went wrong I felt like I was treading on egg shells when meeting couples and I couldn't relax so I just stopped meeting them, its quite intimidating as a single to meet a couple and try to give both equal attention so as not to piss one or the other off, I have found over the years there are far to many couples who are not ready for this and when they realise the reality does not meet the fantasy and the shit hits the fan being in the firing line isn't nice because its always the 3rd parties fault if things go wrong isn't it
single guys are just much easier to get along with |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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We meet many females for fun, usually through photo shoots for their sites, profiles etc.
Yes we have fun but as friends enjoying naughty sex & not thinking of them as a prize trophy, its not always about the sex as we have girlfriends stay over for a drink, watch some films & just have a laugh...swinging should be fun!
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Been on here two years now and never managed to meet a single female. I've met as a single female myself and have found couples to be great fun. I understand the worry of safety issues but I always found that couples were so delighted that I was genuine single female that I got all the attention. Win win.
We don't really bother lookin now as all our messages just seem to get deleted even if we're exactly what they describe they're lookin for... Go figure."
I've been tentative in replying to couples and have let some exchanges tail off not because I'm not interested but because meeting couples is a new thing and I'm nervous about it. It's only going to happen when absolutely everything is right, including the phases of the moon and the alignment of the planets.
I had a couple of false starts last year and earlier this year where we'd done all the chatting, talked on the phone, made the arrangements and I still got let down. On one occasion I found out on the day I was due to go over to a couple's house for the evening, that they'd put a meet today up on here. When I contacted them to ask what was going on, they said they didn't feel like meeting and they didn't know why they'd put the meet today up. 
That kind of set me back in my plans to meet a couple!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We don't use the site to look for single women. The women that we've played with tend to be ones that we've met and developed friendships with on the kink scene or at swinging clubs.
There are so many horror stories, it's not really worth the effort trying to get meets with females on here. The real world is so, so much easier as the female gets to know us and can see our dynamic.
sorry for random thread interruption, looked at your profile, you going to antichrist on the 3rd? if you are say hi if you see me wondering round :p"
We're always there. But to be brutally honest unlikely to look out for someone we don't know and have never really interacted with when we have so many friends there.
Have a great night, it's an amazing club. Far and away our favourite night out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we would love to meet a single lady, but with our brand of fun can appreciate it would put off a good many women as there would be no prospect of getting a good seeing to, except from a strap on lol (and even if we were a full swap couple, it would only be an above average seeing to anyway lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met a couple of couples, being the single fem was great fun and I did not feel left out at all x
I say go for it x"
You've been lucky then as the ones I met only wanted female to female and I would rather play with both so don't bother anymore plus this year has been a hard one for me work wise, maybe next year I will change my mind but I doubt it. And following my visit with friends to a club they don't want single females either oddly enough as they only played with other couples |
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I used to meet couples but after a run of dysfunctional ones where I felt very uncomfortable I decided no more - being naked and in someone else's territory in the middle of a silent argument is no fun!
After all I'm not bi and the threesomes I prefer include bi men. |
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like I could keep stum long enough!! 
