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What do Single Guys really think of the male half of a Cpl.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect?  |
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over a year ago
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For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . |
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"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "
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"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "
Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.
As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex .
Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen! "
100% . I'm into MMF or being watched/filmed with the lady , so if your going to to do any of that you have to be totally at ease all 3 of you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.
As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship. "
Yup. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there normally secretly gay
Says the guy with no meets....pffft  "
LOL ..... I'm straight as a die , but I've done DVP which was great . It doesn't make me gay FFS. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus."
I keep ferrets , that any cooler? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
This is a great question, and one that has often crossed my mind. Will follow this with interest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.
I keep ferrets , that any cooler? "
Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes? |
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
I see my presence in such situations as being part of their fun/fantasy. The fact that I get a kick out of it too is a bonus... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.
I keep ferrets , that any cooler?
Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?"
I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.
I keep ferrets , that any cooler?
Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?
I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower? "
You're making me nervous playing with your tools, I'd rather face the ferrets...how about we leave your missus in the shed and have a pint, I've got a headache anyway |
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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago
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I prefer meeting couples where i know the male half of the couple enjoys or gets turned on by seeing her with another male. I don't think it really works otherwise, as jealousy will become an issue if he is only going along with it to keep her happy.
As a single guy ive always tried to act as if i was in his position, so that means me being respectful, non pushy and communicating with them so their happy with everything. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.
I keep ferrets , that any cooler?
Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?
I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower?
You're making me nervous playing with your tools, I'd rather face the ferrets...how about we leave your missus in the shed and have a pint, I've got a headache anyway "
Now that's a plan! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I prefer meeting couples where i know the male half of the couple enjoys or gets turned on by seeing her with another male. I don't think it really works otherwise, as jealousy will become an issue if he is only going along with it to keep her happy.
As a single guy ive always tried to act as if i was in his position, so that means me being respectful, non pushy and communicating with them so their happy with everything. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
They would probably say "thanks very much!"
and follow it up with
"i'd never let my partner do that".
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect?
They would probably say "thanks very much!"
and follow it up with
"i'd never let my partner do that".
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I suspect so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I keep ferrets , that any cooler?
Depends.
WHERE do you keep the ferrets?
Under the bed, obviously 
Depends.
Are the ferrets straight, bi, or gay ferrets?"
Off topic now guys....
Come on really, be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to like and get on with the male half of any couple I meet. After all the idea is for you to all have fun together and for me that would be impossible if he was a knob or a jerk, no matter how attractive his wife or partner is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have the utmost respect for both the hubby and the wife concerned. This is a joint decision after all and nothing happens for me without all three gaining some pleasure from the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex .
Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen! "
More importantly treat my lady as anything other than a princess and it's not happening, she has one arsehole in her life ( me) she doesn't need another lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"there normally secretly gay
Says the guy with no meets....pffft
Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!  "
Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative |
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"there normally secretly gay
Says the guy with no meets....pffft
Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!
Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative "
So what you really wanted was the usual sycophantic responses to massage your ego?!!
Gotcha! |
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"I do think of the ferrets as 'them' though.
You are a Ferretist!"
There is room on this thread for people who are both pro and anti ferret.
It's a lifestyle choice, like any other, so just because it's not one person's cup of Darjeeling doesn't mean we can't all be inclusive and respect others.
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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "
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"We all know people will want to get on before meeting... but the question is what do you men think of someone letting you share his wife?"
WHOAH, Rugby!
'letting him share his wife'?
I would like to think that his wife had a full say in whom was in her womb, so to speak. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"We all know people will want to get on before meeting... but the question is what do you men think of someone letting you share his wife?
WHOAH, Rugby!
'letting him share his wife'?
I would like to think that his wife had a full say in whom was in her womb, so to speak."
lol Spanked good style.
I would rephrase but you probably know what I mean  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there normally secretly gay
I think I've just spotted why you seem to be struggling on this site. "
I'm still considering that tenner oops wrong forum lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"there normally secretly gay
Says the guy with no meets....pffft
Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!
Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative
So what you really wanted was the usual sycophantic responses to massage your ego?!!
Gotcha! "
Fair point, but incorrect.
Not looking for sycophants or bullshit.
As an ex single guy I was looking for other guys/cpls opinions and thoughts.
Naturally it's also usual to expect the daft responses too.
Obviously not you Miss |
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
I'm always hugely impressed by the strength of their relationship and the fact that they swing together. It's something that will never happen for me so can only imagine what it's like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So what did you used to think Classy when you were a single male?"
We'll, tbh it really depends on the cpl.
Some guys co-erce partners into swinging, which most guys pick up on. I have left in the past when I have sensed that.
Some guys just get off on seeing their wife have fun....That's me, so I get that.
Some guys want to direct a porno.....odd
Some guys are cuckold or feel they can't satisfy the partner....I don't . But understand how guys can feel that way.
So I suppose no single answer, it depends on the cpl and the husband.
I class myself as -
A. Very Lucky!!!!!
B. Happy to share,
C. Slightly Pervy as I enjoy seeing and hearing my Mrs have a great time....
D. Not Gay!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least."
Possibly a fair comment!
Had a cpl of stupid e mails too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least.
Possibly a fair comment!
Had a cpl of stupid e mails too! "
Useful as an idiot filter though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
That's a shame, people should never lose respect for others based on what they get up to in the bedroom (as long as it's, erm, legal...) |
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
Do you lack respect for the women too? |
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"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.
I'm with this chap
Why meet with couples then?"
I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry
That's a shame, people should never lose respect for others based on what they get up to in the bedroom (as long as it's, erm, legal...)"
no they shouldn't, each to their own, I see things I don't like, but I don't lose respect for peoples kinks |
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"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.
I'm with this chap
Why meet with couples then?
I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off. "
Okay - (on your profile it still says you do) |
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
Though I've been on here as a single male I've never really _iewed singles meeting singles as swinging. But I have enough respect to appreciate that it's each to their own. But I fail to see how somebody could frequent a site and go to clubs where they lack respect for the core ingrediant - couples. |
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"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.
I'm with this chap
Why meet with couples then?
I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off.
Okay - (on your profile it still says you do)"
Sometimes the female wants to play independently of her partner  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Based on comments on previous threads I'm amazed nobody has yet suggested that they are incapable of satisfying their partner."
I was expecting a lot of answers like this....hopefully the ones who do think this are not wary of posting it incase people get defensive....after all it is just a _iew and could be true for some couples. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.
I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either. |
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"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least."
You can if you follow the party line: deviate from it at your own peril! |
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"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least.
You can if you follow the party line: deviate from it at your own peril!"
I stand by my comment unless the party line is 'we're all in this together' in which case...oh yeah...I'd dive in |
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry
Though I've been on here as a single male I've never really _iewed singles meeting singles as swinging. But I have enough respect to appreciate that it's each to their own. But I fail to see how somebody could frequent a site and go to clubs where they lack respect for the core ingrediant - couples."
Lots of people post this sort of stuff here, it always puzzles me you expect this sort of total ignorance from outside the community but its pretty crap when it comes from people who are VERY active within it.
Puzzling indeed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.
I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either. "
Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.
Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.
I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either.
Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.
Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.
I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either.
Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.
Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.
As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship. "
Great answer! |
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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago
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think it depends on the guy himself ive met some great fellas happy for me to pleasure there partner & either direct/vid or even join in think the wife is lucky one though she has 2 cocks mouths & 4 hands to keep her satisfied |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect? "
You I presume want an honest reply so lets look at it objectively.
Firstly not all couples are seen in the same way by myself and I would guess many others. There are guys who like to watch their partner be pleasured, those who like to feel humiliated and feel inadequate and many other kinks that are associated to inviting another male into the bedroom. In the main though I will get to know a couple and in the main respect them him and her. I do like to chat to him find out what does it for him what he is expecting and don't really judge because in the main I get it. I don't play with couples if I don't like him ok that may be strange but I do like to have a chat a drink and get on with people I play with. I know some people can think the male side is a silly bugger but I don't see it that way myself its just a kink like thousands of others and if you chat t people you usually get it and it works for all. |
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
Oh dear, that's a shame. Not understanding is one thing but lacking respect quite another. There are aspects of what you enjoy that I don't understand but I'd never allow it to affect my respect for you as a woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm also with the opinion that you need to gel with both the fella and his other half. I've got to get on well with them or nothing is going to happen.
I definitely don't think any less of the bloke for letting another fella do his misses as I put it down to all part of their own sex games and wants that happen to overlap with mine.
Having said that, I'm not comfortable being with newbies if this is uncharted territory for them as I don't want the responsibility of it all being perfect for their 1st or to deal with any sudden hang ups they have - like to know all the boundaries from the off and what they like.
It's always so much better of you all genuinely hit it off and not pretending just to go through with it. |
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"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.
Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...
So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?
Honest answers, I don't expect?
You I presume want an honest reply so lets look at it objectively.
Firstly not all couples are seen in the same way by myself and I would guess many others. There are guys who like to watch their partner be pleasured, those who like to feel humiliated and feel inadequate and many other kinks that are associated to inviting another male into the bedroom. In the main though I will get to know a couple and in the main respect them him and her. I do like to chat to him find out what does it for him what he is expecting and don't really judge because in the main I get it. I don't play with couples if I don't like him ok that may be strange but I do like to have a chat a drink and get on with people I play with. I know some people can think the male side is a silly bugger but I don't see it that way myself its just a kink like thousands of others and if you chat t people you usually get it and it works for all. "
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over a year ago
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It is always my policy to treat the male and female of the couple equally, and to involve both parties with everything. I even chat to both parties on the phone for almost an equal amount of time each after the meet. For me, it's about making friends with both the male and female, as well as the fun itself. |
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We'd sort of assumed people on here and at clubs were of a similar mindset but the replies on here have been enlightening
My honest feeling is that I can understand now why some prefer to give single men a miss - I think we will too. |
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over a year ago
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"that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down "
On what do you base your findings ? For me, your response is a little like saying, if you watch porn you must have gay tendencies because there are usually guys. Naked guys at that. Guys fucking women. |
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"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
I respect your _iew, but struggle to understand why you are using a swingers site, that is overflowing with couples that openly have sex with others, to find your sexual partners, if you have no respect for most of the people here ?
That's not to say you shouldn't be here. That's your choice. |
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I tend to spend more time chatting to the men than the women but I have to get on with both (unless it's a gangbang type situation where there's little or no conversation).
I'm also impressed by the strength of these relationships as I couldn't share a partner with another guy.
So hooray for these awesome guys and gals! |
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We've had the full range of reactions from single guys towards Mr - from pointedly ignoring him (quickest way to a thanks, but no thanks) all the way to the 2 guys discussing MMA for an hour & sidelining Mrs
Most single guys do 'get it' & 'play the game' - involving both of us in chatting/introducing themselves, asking questions etc |
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