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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I am stamping my feet and mumbling under my breath but all to no avail. It's keeping me awake.
What makes you so cross that you can't get to sleep? How do you dissipate your crossness? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know people say you should let your feelings out whether its good or bad. But obviously there are times and places where its isn't appropriate to do this and the longer I leave things unsaid/undone the more I get angry. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Last time it was over a rude message sent by a horny bloke with his brain out of gear.
I moaned on here to vent. The results are on here for examination.
Initially venting helped. Then debating/arguing my point helped. Then I found the whole situation and some of the attitudes and comments (especially given who some of them were from) absolutely hilarious and that helped more.
This place can be very therapeutic at times.
Other ways to handle being cross include distracting myself by doing something I enjoy, distracting myself by exercising myself virtually unconscious (luckily this is easy at the moment and can be achieved by climbing a short flight if stairs)or finding something (preferably inanimate) to kick the crap out of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only time and complete avoidance of what made me annoyed in the first place. With no reminder or a rant to a best mate is the only way to cheer me up. Sometimes it takes minutes to do it. Sometimes it takes a while.
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Someone sending me a snotty message and blocking me before I can reply makes me cross.
Bigotry and intolerance make me cross.
People who think they are better than the rest of us also.
I think I'll make a cup of tea
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone sending me a snotty message and blocking me before I can reply makes me cross.
Bigotry and intolerance make me cross.
People who think they are better than the rest of us also.
I think I'll make a cup of tea
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...i think she's fallen asleep.
No. I did a word puzzle. I don't really rant. I am going to try a bit of yoga next and see if that helps.
Downward dog anyone?"
I can bore you to sleep..i tend to put people to sleep when they call me lol x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can punch Obi again for you if you want 
Can he give you a pinch for me?
Done
...I would say a spank too. But, you might just enjoy that lol.
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Have you not seen my status? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can punch Obi again for you if you want
Can he give you a pinch for me?
Done
...I would say a spank too. But, you might just enjoy that lol.
Have you not seen my status? "
...erm, how about force feeding some chicken?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can punch Obi again for you if you want
Can he give you a pinch for me?
Done
...I would say a spank too. But, you might just enjoy that lol.
Have you not seen my status?
...erm, how about force feeding some chicken?
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Had all the protein I need tonight thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can punch Obi again for you if you want
Can he give you a pinch for me?
Done
...I would say a spank too. But, you might just enjoy that lol.
Have you not seen my status?
...erm, how about force feeding some chicken?
Had all the protein I need tonight thanks "
You forgot to write that in your status lol
Night you two - i'm knackered now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why so cross?
I would write the situation out in paper, warm drink in hand, then maybe listen to an audiobook "
Being woken up at 630 whatsapp....
Best you put the kettle on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why so cross?
I would write the situation out in paper, warm drink in hand, then maybe listen to an audiobook
Being woken up at 630 whatsapp....
Best you put the kettle on "
Wasn't me ... |
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"I am stamping my feet and mumbling under my breath but all to no avail. It's keeping me awake.
What makes you so cross that you can't get to sleep? How do you dissipate your crossness?"
Rude folk for sure!!!! Its nice to be nice and it costs nothing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why so cross?
I would write the situation out in paper, warm drink in hand, then maybe listen to an audiobook
Being woken up at 630 whatsapp....
Best you put the kettle on
Wasn't me ... "
Next time, make sure its something big and hard... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Last time it was over a rude message sent by a horny bloke with his brain out of gear.
I moaned on here to vent. The results are on here for examination.
Initially venting helped. Then debating/arguing my point helped. Then I found the whole situation and some of the attitudes and comments (especially
given who some of them were from) absolutely hilarious and that helped more.
This place can be very therapeutic at times.
Other ways to handle being cross include distracting myself by doing something I enjoy, distracting myself by exercising myself virtually unconscious (luckily this is easy at the moment and can be achieved by climbing a short flight if stairs)or finding something (preferably inanimate) to kick the crap out of. "
How many times are you going to bring reference to that thread, you may still be upset by the remarks of others, constantly referring to it is an indication of that, but the thread was closed, let it go .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If im angry I go for a walk. Before my dog passed away I took her out, now I just walk. I can't be reasoned with when really angry so talking about it is no good until I release that anger energy. Otherwise a stream of vitroil will spew from my mouth  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can punch Obi again for you if you want
It sounds like you gave him a lot more than a punch. I guess the nip was redundant after that?"
I had nothing to do with him getting 2 red arse cheeks . . . |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"If im angry I go for a walk. Before my dog passed away I took her out, now I just walk. I can't be reasoned with when really angry so talking about it is no good until I release that anger energy. Otherwise a stream of vitroil will spew from my mouth "
I don't get really angry like that any more. A bit of yoga helped and then just as I settled down an email pinged through from a lovely friend not on here saying he was worried about me. It all disappeared telling him about my lovely Christmas Day and the joy I had opening his present.
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I can punch Obi again for you if you want
It sounds like you gave him a lot more than a punch. I guess the nip was redundant after that?
I had nothing to do with him getting 2 red arse cheeks . . . "
I was cross but not cross enough to invoke red cheeks through the ether! |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
Masked and Distant |
Depends what made you cross.
If it was an insult - then I just keep reminding myself that they are so dumb that they had to resort to mud slinging.
Cruelty to others / animals - reporting them always makes me feel better.
Blatant flouting of seatbelt law with kids - shouting at them through an open window |
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then the whole world is better again. 